posted June 14, 2016 12:05 PM              

Both houses are actually more important than they should be for me, overlay-wise.

SN in Geminie: 3rd house
NN in Sag: 9th house

Though I do think I detect more emphasis on the 9th house, though well, actually usally it is both, which means there usually is an opposition spanning these houses. Interesting. Never noticed that before.

posted June 14, 2016 12:16 PM            

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Originally posted by Ceridwen:
It actually makes sense in terms of Mr Sag`s former relationship (before his marriage I mean). I`ve always wondered about how curious it was that she was putting so many planets into his 12th house (Sun, Moon, Mercury, Venus, Jupiter), but hey he has SN in Pisces, maybe that is why.

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Yeah, maybe?

My draconic sun is in Taurus so in a way it's like a sun-SN conjunction, and no wonder I've been so repetitive with 2H themes...

Not that I'm gonna divorce and go hunting for a Pisces (my 8H) or Scorpio to remedy the situation...

posted June 14, 2016 01:46 PM              

I actually have the thing in terms of the Moon. Draco Moon in Gemini, even conjunct SN by about 3 degree (it is exact within a few minutes of my tropical DESC though).

My tropical North Node falls into my Draconic 8th house, as I just see, and well, not sure what the (draconic) asteroid MARIA is doing exactly conjunct my tropical ASC. lol (0°23)
and opposing Moon as well (0°28)

But then again Jesus Christ Superstar has always had such a deep effect on me, and especially the figure of Maria Magdalena, so Maria does not always equal Maria, if you know what I mean.

"But does Mr Sag's nodal axis fall in your 3H & 9H? His Jupiter-Mars in your 9th?"
Yes.

And my nodal axis falls into his 3rd and 9th as well. In fact my NN is conjunct his 9th house cusp by only 19 minutes.

My Moon (and Lilith and Psyche) is in his 12th; and my Pholus-Ceres-Jupiter on his own Ceri-Eros is in his 12th as well. And my Juno on his Aura in his 12th, too.

posted June 14, 2016 04:24 PM            

I do have a long history of 4H challenges. Still searching for a happy Home and Family life partner.

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Originally posted by Faith:
Just realizing that in my romantic history and marriage, I've had plenty of planets falling in my 2nd house. And I'm a Taurus SN.

Meanwhile I have had minimal experience with planets falling in my 8th house, and obviously I've got a Scorpio NN.

Does that indicate south node stuckness, do you think?

Anyone else have a similar issue?

Did you overcome it, and see it as part of your nodal evolution?

Thanks for any replies

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posted June 15, 2016 08:57 PM            

Man, I can count the times I've had my 5H full by an overlay.

Do I have an odd habit of having deep, soulful connexions with lunar Caps, though.

My stepdaughter's SUN and MERC are both there VALENTINE and AMOR. Bonus!

We've got an intriguing resonance, too, in line with your theory, Faith. I think.

My 3H stellium (MOON, MERC, URA, MARS) is in her 9H. She's a SAG NNODE. Right on the GC, too.

Conversely, her 11H stellium (aforementioned) overlays my 5H!

NEAT, huh?

posted June 16, 2016 10:54 AM            

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Originally posted by comdoc:
I have Scorpio SN conj Nadir. My 8H is empty, and I don't attract Pisces. But my beloved first wife has Taurus rising, and Sun conj Venus in her 8H. Former fiance has Aqua SN conj my DESC.

I do have a long history of 4H challenges. Still searching for a happy Home and Family life partner.

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I love that you call her your beloved first wife!

And thanks for answering, that is really interesting how she fits in with both your nodes. Same with your fiance...I see what you mean, DESC is Venus-ruled so it's a NN issue in your case.

posted June 17, 2016 12:18 PM              

I've had both, actually. But the difference was (painfully) obvious. Lol..

SN Cancer: My 4th house has Gemini, and I've noticed that relationships involving their personal Gemini planets in my 4th are ridiculously easy, you know what I mean? A little too easy for my taste. We don't have that usual back-forth of she-likes-me, she-likes-me-not, he-likes-me, he-likes-me-not. We pretty much instantly know we like each other. Not in a very urgent/uncomfortable way. Just sweetly romantic, and yes, maybe a little complacent. Coz we know we don't really have to 'work' to get each other's attention or affection. Get along extremely well. With minor fights being worked through really quickly. So far, so good, right? The trouble starts when our deeper personalities start showing and kinda clash. They want to remain in Never-Never-land..which I'm okay with. But, I also need someone who'll make me sit like an adult have a *real* conversation. Here, the both of us are only too happy to build lovely castles in the air. I've had some of the best, dreamiest, most romantic conversations with these people. But the minute things get mucky and too real, both of us are startled and neither wants to stick a pin in that fluffy pink cloud, 'coz let's face it - who wants their butts to crash to earth from twenty thousand feet above?
Not pretty, not romantic, and *so* not us. *shudder* Those things are for other people, who don't love each other enough to keep the cloud-castle floating.

posted June 17, 2016 12:31 PM              

My NN is in Cap..so, let's see the 10th house, which is Sag.
I've had quite a few people put their personal Sag planets here. Friends & love interests both. Now the good part is, this is refreshing. They are so different from me that I am very much intrigued by them. Their innocent, straightforward no-holds-barred pursuit and bouncy energy is adorable. They also push me into being more vocal, more forthcoming about my feelings. Telling me to not sit n stew in them. They simply cannot comprehend why I would do that.

While that is charming as long as I comply. I comply as long as it's not uncomfortable for me to share. However, now the problem is the opposite that of my fourth house. They try to push me so far out of my comfort zone of "expressing feelings" that it backfires and makes me clam up again. The archers have warrior blood and don't give up. Not without a fight. And so it ends up being a bunch of fights about very sensitive issues. Typically, they come off as really abrasive to me, at times like these. Their candour and goofy humour is no longer charming, it's just hurtful.

posted June 17, 2016 04:40 PM            

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Originally posted by nordicsoul:
I have no found a particular partner with the node house. more with the sign. maybe it becomes deluted with the fact that my SN s libra and you expect 7th house to be important no matter where your SN is.

i have not noticed any important person putting planets in my 1st house (Aries NN)

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posted June 18, 2016 09:43 AM              

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Originally posted by Faith:

Honestly I have so many thoughts twirling in reaction to yours, but it's all just wondering...airy-fairy stuff that I'm not feeling up to posting.

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posted June 19, 2016 04:37 AM              

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Originally posted by Faith:

The other thing about Scorpio is, it's introspective energy, so the more one evolves in that direction, the less a person may have to show for it.

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posted June 22, 2016 08:17 PM            

NN/SN as they relate to romantic relationships is something I've spent a lot of time trying to wrap my head around. But I'm not sure I've come up with any easy answers yet.

My NN is Cancer tightly conjunct Venus Rx and just past my 9th cusp. So SN in Cap/3rd tightly conjunct Ceres. Venus trines Saturn Pisces and Asc Scorp for the Grand.

My progressed Venus will reenter Cancer in late December of this year and over the course of the next 2 years pass over my NN and conjunct nVenus!!! I'm hoping that the next couple of years are going to reveal some amazing understanding and purpose to me... but you never know.

So to your question. Cap and Cancer both figure heavily in my choice of partner. Is it the node axis, or Venus and my 10th house Moon pushing that attraction? As for the 3/9 house placements, well, as a Gemini, I deal well with Gemini placements, and my AntiVertex in Sag is a strong pool for planet in a partner, if not so much the Sun.

But I've seen the charts of others where there is no obvious link to the nodes, or maybe a square that traps them together for a time. My ex puts her Sun on her current boyfriend's NN, but there's no recripical aspect to her nodes.

I think the nodes are more important to some than to others. In my case, the Venus conjunction is a neon sign (and Mercury conjunct Vertex is another) saying, maybe even prempting, other parts of my chart.