posted June 14, 2016 04:36 PM            

There is this Gemini that I met last year and we became really close and very good friends. She pursued my friendship and eventually I gave in. She started dropping little hints (or at least what I thought were hints) that she was interested in me as more than a friend. She would say stuff like, I want you to move in with me or live with me; you should change your last name to mine; let's buy a house together. She said all of that before we even really knew each other. Had been friends maybe a month or two. We watched her niece and nephew once and she said we looked like a lesbian couple out with our kids. She would always says she is going to cry when she hugs me. We went to a concert and she dedicated a song to us, "Latch" by Sam Smith. She would tell me that I know her better than anyone, even her own family. She told me a few times that she loved me and how much I meant to her. I too felt the same way, so I told her. After I told her she did a compete 180 with her personality and is acting like someone I don't even recognize. She pushed me out of her life for a few months and then came back and said she wanted to be my friend. Then she pushed me out again and came back again. She pushed me out for the third time and I decided I will not let her back in without an explanation which she refused to give so now she is completely shutting me out and acting as if I was the problem. She started spreading my business and other rumors about me to everyone at work. She has completely pushed me out of her life and said I am too much drama for her. She says I am the one at fault here for our friendship being ruined.
Her personality is completely different now too. She goes out and drinks with all these people who pretend to be her friend. She even told me once that they were all just superficial friends to her. She sleeps around with people. She parties every weekend. This behavior I know is not her. She wasn't like this during our friendship. The things she is doing now, she once told me she doesn't like that stuff, but here she is all of a sudden doing it. She now acts like we were never close and tells me that I am reading too much into everything.
I keep telling her to open up to me as a friend and we can talk but she continues to push me away. I tell her this is not her and I can tell she is going through something but then she tells me this IS who she is and she is happy. I don't believe her. She has become a liar, promiscuous, a partier, trying very hard to get EVERYONE to like her.
I know most people would tell me I should have ran for the hills a long time ago, but I can't help it. She is/was my friend and I refuse to give up on someone who I believe is crying out for help. I just want advice on her chart and tell me if this new personality is who she really is or if it is just a front.

Her chart (birth times are correct)

posted June 15, 2016 10:58 AM            

I think I had attempted an explanation of your synastry on one of your old threads...
I guess you didn't see it back then..

Do you have those links somewhere?

posted June 16, 2016 02:22 AM            

Be careful with Neptune in synastry, there will always fog around. It can be a reason why you think she is not like her real self which.. she may be her real self at the moment, Gemini lives in the moment.

With her moon conjunct Pluto in Scorpio & Mercury conjunct mars in cancer, she can be very manipulative along with her sun in Gemini. And with her Neptune to mercury and mars, well, she can have her own delusion and makes people confuse.

Gemini always has two side within the personality. The angel and the evil. At first she may show you her angel side then now she shows you her evil side but because of Neptune you hardly see it.