posted June 18, 2016 11:39 AM            

ME/HIM
SUN: Pisces/Cancer
MOON: Aqua/Pisces
MERC: Pisces/Cancer
MARS: Taurus/Cancer
VENUS: Cap/Leo

This is going to be long, I just know it! Sorry! ... I own a sports related business, I travel to professional mens softball events for business and such, the man in this case is a professional player and travels regularly. He lives In VA, i'm in IN.

I met him a 18 mos ago and he had a gf in which it was all rocky. We talked a little business, nothing major, but certainly "noticed" each other. They split up 10 mos ago and I approached him, sorry for the break up, if you need to chat let me know. We started talking and he kept taking it to personal places but I could tell it was to get over her so I tried to not fall for him. I got a little attached (of course i did he started treating me like crap and acting like a child bc i "wanted a bf" and "was clingy", I said f off, im not dealing with this, we stopped talking. Between Jan 1st and Apr 8th we had only a few crappy messages about a pending business deal. ex: me-Happy Easter!!! Where the f*ck are my customers pants, you said they'd be here two weeks ago..

Nothing nice. He was getting exactly what he gave me.

Apr 8th he reaches out and was better. Wanted to do business. He had an investor but he wanted my help on the project. This would be an on going deal, we would create a new business and operate it together aside from my business. The 1st deal would net profit 150,000 in 6 months, in which we would reinvenst immediately, etc, etc. This is a once in a lifetime opportunity and would set me up financially for a very long time. He said it would be platonic and our personal lives are our own business.

^^all of this he could do alone, but he won't, he INSISTS on me doing it too. I have no money to put into it, other than my mind and creativity I have nothing to contribute. I have no idea why he's insistant on handing me this deal.

So now we're part way in the deal and its locked in. Talk all day and its a very intense partnership, I've told him im not sure I can do it because I'm afraid of falling for him, he started to open up A LOT and was started to get personal, but no sex. He said "if it happens later then okay, but business is first and im not sleeping with you or anything because I dont want to ruin this opportunity". I asked what happened last time he said "Listen, I was in a bad place and wanted my ex back, I would've slept with anyone to try to get over her, I liked you a lot but knew I would hurt you, I refused to do that to you, me being mean was to try to get you to go away before I hurt you." Of course, being a girl I was offended bc I knew of other chicks he "talked to". He said "if someone is a ***** i'm going to treat them like a ***** . If I want attention I'm going to use that to my advantage, I refused to do that to you, I just needed you to go away at that time period".

He's always chatted with females, he's a flirt, when he and his ex would "break up" for a couple days he would chat with females to make her jealous but never slept with anyone else.

So I found out he was talking to a couple girls recently. I know how he is now and he's just doing it for attention, if he sleeps with them he'll push them away, I already know this and can tell by their personalities. Well, me being difficult, I sent two of them a friend request on FB (childish I know) in times that I was arguing with him just to irritate him. One girl flips out and messages me and already KNEW ABOUT ME. She said "I thought you were just business partners?? He kept throwing you in my face. When I asked why he was stressed he said he and his partner were in some big deals and he had a lot of decisions to make and hadn't talked much bc he was stressed. Then he sends me a picture of your fb page when I didn't even ask who you were and I see that you're a young attractive female that has everything in common with him. Why would he make me crazy like that when im already insecure about it??"

He told me "we talked a couple months ago and stopped bc she was insecure about you and kept calling me a liar"

I had no idea he had been doing this with these females all along.

Now last fall/winter he was an *sshole, now hes nice? Then he was OVERLY sexual when I wanted to be friends, now he wont sleep with me and flaunts me to girls he's sleeping with?

It hit me today that maybe its the leo venus boasting about what he has? Maybe the cancer mars telling these girls upfront he's just using them?

He knows I'm afraid of falling for him, and I'm trying so hard not to. I'm not overly emotional with him but I do act crazy when we argue.

Part of me is like "omg I just wanna love this guy" the other part is like "run for the hills!! save yourself!!!" then the other part comes back and says "hold on, don't go too far, this is A LOT of money"

Thank you all for your input and if anyone knows how to upload our charts I can!

posted June 19, 2016 07:41 PM            

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Originally posted by liz45750:
Yeah he does hold on to a lot from childhood. His parents separated and lived on either side of the country and I don't think either did much good for him. Just turned him into a jerk, lol.

I'll try to figure out how to upload our charts tonight.

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