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Electro DGX
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posted July 04, 2016 02:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Electro DGX     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hello. I've been constantly thinking about relationships lately and was wondering if you all could help me figure out which partner is for me? I feel a need for a deep, intimate relationship, but I want to know what you think my chart should suggest.

I tried starting a relationship with someone whom I had really good synastry with, not to mention a Sun-Moon conjunction (I was Moon), but it didn't take off. I felt like there was nothing to pull me into the relationship if you know what I mean? (As in give me the desire to pursue it)

Natal chart:
Thanks!

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Aquarius Sun, Merc, Venus, Uranus, Neptune
Scorpio Mars conj. Asc in First
8th House Moon opposite Pluto, Trine Uranus
Have you caught onto the predicament I'm in yet?

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posted July 05, 2016 11:45 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Electro DGX
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posted July 09, 2016 12:59 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Electro DGX     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Electro DGX
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posted July 12, 2016 12:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Electro DGX     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Bump!

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Aquarius Sun, Merc, Venus, Uranus, Neptune
Scorpio Mars conj. Asc in First
8th House Moon opposite Pluto, Trine Uranus
Have you caught onto the predicament I'm in yet?

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LaceyLeigh
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posted July 13, 2016 04:07 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LaceyLeigh     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Honestly, I think another Gemini girl would be good for you. With her Venus trining yours and your Mars trining her Venus. Aqua moon conjunct your Sun. Cancer ascendant.

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Electro DGX
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posted July 15, 2016 11:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Electro DGX     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by LaceyLeigh:
Honestly, I think another Gemini girl would be good for you. With her Venus trining yours and your Mars trining her Venus. Aqua moon conjunct your Sun. Cancer ascendant.

Interesting. Most Geminis I meet end up being good friends rather than actual lovers. I once tried dating a Gemini who's Sun conjunct my Moon (Moon in Pisces conjunct my Jupiter too), yet nothing really took off. We remained better friends than close lovers.

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posted July 16, 2016 02:19 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for cchampliss2     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
How do you identify? If you don't mind me asking.

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Electro DGX
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posted July 16, 2016 10:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Electro DGX     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
@cchampliss2 Homosexual Male

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posted July 16, 2016 11:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for cchampliss2     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Electro DGX:
@cchampliss2 Homosexual Male


Interesting. I was asking because I remember you mentioning that in another post, but I read up there that you attempted to date another Gemini and that it didn't work out with her.

It takes awhile to figure out what energies one is most attracted to and comfortable with. Best of luck to you.


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Electro DGX
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posted July 17, 2016 12:19 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Electro DGX     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by cchampliss2:
Interesting. I was asking because I remember you mentioning that in another post, but I read up there that you attempted to date another Gemini and that it didn't work out with her.

It takes awhile to figure out what energies one is most attracted to and comfortable with. Best of luck to you.


Thanks for the luck!

The Gemini was a guy, actually; I didn't state his gender though so that must be where the confusion arose. I did date a girl once in 6th grade, yet I was quite young and didn't really have much focus on the idea of "relationships", so when she wanted to break up with me, it didn't really affect me. I didn't even know what a relationship really was at the time; I was more interested in other things lol

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Scorpio Mars conj. Asc in First
8th House Moon opposite Pluto, Trine Uranus
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posted July 17, 2016 01:21 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LaceyLeigh     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Electro DGX:
Thanks for the luck!

The Gemini was a guy, actually; I didn't state his gender though so that must be where the confusion arose. I did date a girl once in 6th grade, yet I was quite young and didn't really have much focus on the idea of "relationships", so when she wanted to break up with me, it didn't really affect me. I didn't even know what a relationship really was at the time; I was more interested in other things lol


Sorry, my fault for assuming.

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Electro DGX
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posted July 17, 2016 01:39 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Electro DGX     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by LaceyLeigh:
Sorry, my fault for assuming.


No worries; it honestly isn't that big of a deal actually lol.

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8th House Moon opposite Pluto, Trine Uranus
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posted July 17, 2016 05:57 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Voix_de_la_Mer     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I am an Aqua Sun and Merc, and I have found without a doubt that the best compatibility for me Sun-wise are other Aqua Suns and earth Venuses (I have Venus in Cap).

Your chart ruler is Pluto/Mars, so you may also require depth, movement, and a feeling of transformation.
Pluto/Mars also co-rule my chart, and square my Venus, so I must have a sense of plumbing the depths and "going somewhere" in relationships, if even only on a Sunday!

Again. Saturn in Taurus on your DC would indicate that you need the flavour of stability and security that earth can bring. A Venus here would oppose your Mars and Sextile your Venus.
I don't think enough weight is given to Venus sextile Mars, as opposed to cj. I have this with my long-term partner in composite and I can feel the balance of yin/yang that it brings very starkly.

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posted July 17, 2016 07:54 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lucia23     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I think you should try a Leo whose Sun is conjunct your NN (probably someone born in mid-August, if you go for a late-July Leo their Sun will square your Mars-AC, which could add frustration.). his Sun would sextile your Moon and bring a sense a beauty and fun to your communication--the placement would awaken that north part of your chart, connect to your life path. His other placements could be airy--Aqua, libra or other Gemini Moon, Mars and/or Venus. Fire is nice with all that air.

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Electro DGX
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posted July 21, 2016 01:59 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Electro DGX     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks for the replies! I've had lots of experience with people who's Sun conjuncts my N.N. and honestly, it hasn't been pleasant. Not to delve into that now, but it honestly is something I want to avoid.

I've also found it difficult to connect deeply with fellow Aqua Suns, which is strange. I often have lots of friends who are Earth and Water Suns, not many Air and Fire suns (except for Gemini, who happens to have his sun in the 6th!). What if all the air being in water houses makes me lean towards deeper, more complex individuals?

All in all, thanks for the replies. Interesting stuff to think about

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posted August 08, 2016 09:15 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Doux Rêve     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Something in Pisces...

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posted August 08, 2016 09:31 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gabby     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Id like to see a saggy Sun or Moon conjunct your Pluto, all your Uranus energy might like that Saggys are so independent and carefree. Aries might be nice to, but they might not be as refined or intellectually stimulating as youd like.
A Virgo Venus or Mars to give an oulet for your Pluto/Moon opposition would be nice, i love it when someone completes me!

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posted August 08, 2016 11:34 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for DopGang     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Gabby:
Id like to see a saggy Sun or Moon conjunct your Pluto, all your Uranus energy might like that Saggys are so independent and carefree. Aries might be nice to, but they might not be as refined or intellectually stimulating as youd like.
A Virgo Venus or Mars to give an oulet for your Pluto/Moon opposition would be nice, i love it when someone completes me!

Exactly my thoughts!
I second this.

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posted August 08, 2016 12:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for athenaia     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Funny Electro, I also don't like conjunctions to my NN for some reason. In doing so they would also conjunct my Moon, which you'd think would be a pleasant thing, but it's a very off putting synastric experience for me. They almost always become good friends, which is double weird considering both these placements are in my 5th house!

Anyway, your chart is more than what meets the eye. There is so much going on that simple house/sign interpretations would not do it justice.

Immediately I zoned in on Pluto opposite Moon, an opposition so tight that the aspect on it is literally 0°01! Insane. So you're no average Gemini Moon, which is enhanced sevenfold by the fact your Moon is in the 8th house, house of Scorpio. Double the Plutonic theme going on in your emotional realm. You've also got a Scorpio ASC, so a guy adept to his emotions would be great for you.

Now this Scorpio ASC.. again, has another very tight conjunction to it. Mars on it (0°37!!!!) so you're modified with an Arian way of expressing yourself - not the classically secretive, elusive, and mysterious Scorpio ASC we all know and love so well (my bf is a Scorpio ASC so I feel confident saying this). This is made all the more complex because even though it's a very tight conjunction to your ASC, and exalted in Scorpio, it's sitting in the 12th house, so whenever you go about making something happen for yourself, it happens on a very subtle, subconscious level.. I bet you're so damn good at reading peoples intentions. I can see you being a really good internet sleuth, finding out information about someone, maybe even masterfully finding out facts about someone through the social grape vine. Once you feel confident about something, this very strong Scorpionic/Arian Mars sheds its Piscean skin and goes full throttle. You must be an incredibly intense person, even though most people meeting you probably wouldn't consider you such with the "illusion" of your Air Sun/Air Moon combination.

That Air Sun... just like your Moon and your ASC/Mars, there's more going on here. Your Sun is conjunct your IC (0°26!) so you have a Cancerian flavoring to the core of your being. Even if you had an odd childhood, you were the star of the show, and very much adored by the people around you. You have no shortage of love, and few things bother you more than when the comfort of home has to be replaced by the harsh realities of the outside world. Not the traditional, stoic and detached Aqua of classic astrology books. The ruler of your MC is conjunct your IC, so I'm thinking you would actually be an excellent stay-at-home dad in your future if you were into such a thing. Or maybe your career involves you working from home (freelancing?), or generally being self employed.

Now this is less about your partner and all about *you* because.. you're complex as hell. Your chart has about a million different layers, and you'll probably only really understand and master yourself by the time you're 25ish.

So with all this said and done... let me think about your partnerships.

DSC in Taurus - you'd do well with someone very stable, someone who is seemingly "boring" to the outside world. Someone who loves and recognizes the finer things in life - someone either gorgeous, inclined towards the art world, or someone financially secure. That could be the kind of partner you rest easy around - a good complement to all of your supreme, watery depth.
7th house ruler in the 4th - Again, the Cancer theme. This would go well with your water-esque placements and your Cancerian Mercury/Sun.
Venus sextile Saturn - you may have a propensity towards older partners, or go for someone with a Capricorn influence, reiterating the "solid and steady" vibe of your 7th house. This Saturn is also in an out-of-sign conjunction with your DSC so.. earth would really be the name of the game for you.

Ruler of your 8th house in the 3rd - You need mental stimulation above all. Someone cannot just *be* dependable for you, they also need a vast inner life that you'll never get bored of exploring. However they cannot be someone exclusively Air or Fire orientated.. it wouldn't do well with the rest of of your chart. Might just relegate themselves to "friends only" territory for you. You're someone that needs emotional depth at all costs, but it should be someone that "knows themselves" and doesn't just go through the motions of their reactions. They need to be able to articulate themselves and understand motivations (themselves/you/others) in order for you to be captivated.

Ruler of the 5th house in the 3rd - Same as above. You have Jupiter in that house though so someone with extensive knowledge in other cultures/languages/philosophies is something that you truly love in potential partners.

Then... you have Venus conjunct your SN. Now I can see why you're not partial to people aspecting your NN - not only do these types make you move out of your comfort zone, but they oppose all of your comfy Cancerian/intellectually superior Aquarian placements. Now this also convinces me that you wouldn't do well with another Aquarian. I have an Aqua Moon and I really don't care to date other people with Aquarius in their charts.. I have enough steely detachment for a hundred people. All of my Aqua Moon buds also date people way more emotional than ourselves. Seems to balance everything out in the dynamics of the relationship.

So, my conclusion is... Gemini/Libra or a Sag ASC/Water Sun/Earth Moon.

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posted August 08, 2016 02:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hearttreasure     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
1) A Pisces sun conjunct your jupiter with aries venus.. Maybe moon in Leo or Aqua, mars in gemini or pisces, mercury aqua/aries.

2) A virgo sun, libra venus, moon in libra/aqua/scorpio, mars in virgo, mercury virgo/libra.

I am an Aqua also not really blend well with air people as a partner although my ex an aqua and a gemini. I'm not attracted to libra, I don't know why. I have some saturn and pluto aspect, so it makes me to like people who have some depth and mature thoughts. My first love was a Pisces and now dreaming with a Taurus.

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posted August 08, 2016 02:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hearttreasure     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted August 10, 2016 07:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for athenaia     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
C'mon Electro, don't abandon your own thread!

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Electro DGX
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posted December 21, 2016 07:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Electro DGX     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Whoa, this thread has been long forgotten. I didn't even realize other people had commented on it lol

I will look into these, thanks! Especially to you Athenaia for the long and intricate post

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posted December 21, 2016 08:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for CapriciousCapricorn     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Electro DGX,

could you post an aspect grid too please?

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Electro DGX
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posted December 21, 2016 09:41 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Electro DGX     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by CapriciousCapricorn:
Electro DGX,

could you post an aspect grid too please?


I updated the image to include the aspect grid

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