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Loveher
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posted July 07, 2016 10:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Loveher     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Im 25 years old and never had a good realtionship or gf. I felt played emotionally even from my family.
Can you tell me when will I meet someone special? Thats deep and loyal as me? Is there a chance in my chart? Please i need to know from my chart i dont need a pitty talk im tired of hearing it. And sorry i dont mean to be rude i just want an objective few not emotional answer. Thanks

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Belage
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posted July 08, 2016 01:38 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Belage     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I don't see why not. I don't see anything in your chart denying marriage or a good relationship.

In the past 4 years, you've had Saturn in your 7th and 8th houses, and Saturn there can act like the kiss of death to love and relationships and sex, but Saturn will be moving out of this and Jupiter will be moving in to your 7th sometimes next year. So better times are coming eventually.

I cannot tell you if that person will be as deep and loyal as you are. We each are unique individuals and we usually do not get our carbon copy in another sex.

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SDragon
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posted July 08, 2016 10:05 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for SDragon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You will get what you believe you deserve.

With moon in scorpio, pluto opp. venus, you have potential early childhood wounds that will need to be healed and resolved before you can have a chance to find real love. Until you address those wounds, you will attract people that trigger those wounds, ie, you will feel like they betray you, aren't as loyal, are emotionally manipulative, power controlling, etc.

You have a yod though in your chart with Mercury/Mars quinc your Moon. I suggest you focus on those energies to help with your other chart aspects.

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Kannon McAfee
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posted July 08, 2016 11:29 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Kannon McAfee     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Everyone has a chance at real love. There is a mate for everyone who wants one.

This is not dependent on your astrological chart, as there are no factors that deny someone their ability to love and be loved.

All people/charts have numerous windows of opportunity for relationships to develop. If your chart is accurate as-is (and that is a big if), then this year and next will bring such a window of opportunity as Jupiter will move into the 7th house of relationships.

For this to be true you have to be an Aries rising personality as your chart suggests. Most people's charts are off by at least several degrees on the Asc even when using the recorded birth time. Read my descriptions of Aries, Pisces rising. Often people are actually the rising sign previous to the one suggested by their recorded birth time.

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Loveher
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posted July 09, 2016 10:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Loveher     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by SDragon:
You will get what you believe you deserve.

With moon in scorpio, pluto opp. venus, you have potential early childhood wounds that will need to be healed and resolved before you can have a chance to find real love. Until you address those wounds, you will attract people that trigger those wounds, ie, you will feel like they betray you, aren't as loyal, are emotionally manipulative, power controlling, etc.

You have a yod though in your chart with Mercury/Mars quinc your Moon. I suggest you focus on those energies to help with your other chart aspects.


I just read about i never heard about it before what can u tell me about its meaning?

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EmGem
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posted July 10, 2016 12:29 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for EmGem     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Kannon McAfee:
Everyone has a chance at real love. There is a mate for everyone who wants one.

This is not dependent on your astrological chart, as there are no factors that deny someone their ability to love and be loved.

All people/charts have numerous windows of opportunity for relationships to develop. [b]If your chart is accurate as-is (and that is a big if), then this year and next will bring such a window of opportunity as Jupiter will move into the 7th house of relationships.

For this to be true you have to be an Aries rising personality as your chart suggests. Most people's charts are off by at least several degrees on the Asc even when using the recorded birth time. Read my descriptions of Aries, Pisces rising. Often people are actually the rising sign previous to the one suggested by their recorded birth time.

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Kannon, does that mean that the moon might also change? E.g. I have my birth time which gives me Scorpio asc around 14 deg I think. My moon is 1 Virgo. Does this mean I could have a libra rising and Leo moon?

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Saturn8_Me
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posted July 10, 2016 12:50 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Saturn8_Me     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Kannon McAfee:
Everyone has a chance at real love. There is a mate for everyone who wants one.

This is not dependent on your astrological chart, as there are no factors that deny someone their ability to love and be loved.


THIS!!! ...


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Loveher... Is there a possibility that you are projecting, and you are sending signals that keep ppl at bay, or are putting up invisible walls? I'm 21 and have your same prob., and have been recently be exploring those possibilities... just some "food for thought"...

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Kannon McAfee
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posted July 10, 2016 01:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Kannon McAfee     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
EmGem & Saturn8_Me,

I won't go into that here, since this thread is Loveher's and I don't want to veer of the topic. However, I can start a thread in 2.0 about Asc issues. I'll start by answering both your questions there best I can.

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Loveher
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posted July 10, 2016 09:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Loveher     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by SDragon:
You will get what you believe you deserve.

With moon in scorpio, pluto opp. venus, you have potential early childhood wounds that will need to be healed and resolved before you can have a chance to find real love. Until you address those wounds, you will attract people that trigger those wounds, ie, you will feel like they betray you, aren't as loyal, are emotionally manipulative, power controlling, etc.

You have a yod though in your chart with Mercury/Mars quinc your Moon. I suggest you focus on those energies to help with your other chart aspects.


I would like to know more about my yod?

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Saturn8_Me
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posted July 10, 2016 09:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Saturn8_Me     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Loveher:
I would like to know more about my yod?

I have an Yod also.. but I read that one astrologer (Basil Fearrington) said that they aren't all that they are cracked up to be & that its just a midpoint activation... http://newwayastrology.tumblr.com/post/6638857813/the-yod
... just some more food for thought. (I know it's a little deflating that there maybe a possibility that were aren't as special as we thought lol).

Maybe you should study the Mercury/Mars midpoint & come up with your own conclusion ..
Here's a link to get you started. http://john-sandbach.blogspot.com/2010/11/planets-affecting-mercurymars-midpoint.html

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posted July 10, 2016 09:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Belage     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
@Loveher

You can blame your chart and aspects and other people for denying you love, but as long as you do not go inside and see what you are doing to push out or repel love, you will continue on this path of lovelessness.

You have gotten answers from me and another professional astrologer. You have not even bothered to acknowledge those answers, not even bothered to say thank you. What it shows is that even when love comes into your life (in the form of compassion and kindness), you will not recognize it, you will not acknowledge it. And so you will continue to live a life of lovelessness, blaming everyone and the stars but yourself.

Imo, the focus on romantic love is a mistake. Romantic love is not guaranteed to anyone, no matter how lovely the chart. Romantic love is just one facet of LOVE. In order to live this life, we have to learn to see and appreciate love in its many facets, and if romantic love comes, then it's the icing on the cake. This is what we should teach people, instead of gassing up their head with romantic love.

to quote Shakespeare,
The fault, dear Brutus, is not in our stars, but in ourselves.

You wanted the undiluted truth. You got it now.

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Loveher
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posted July 10, 2016 10:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Loveher     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Belage:
@Loveher

You can blame your chart and aspects and other people for denying you love, but as long as you do not go inside and see what you are doing to push out or repel love, you will continue on this path of lovelessness.

You have gotten answers from me and another professional astrologer. You have not even bothered to acknowledge those answers, not even bothered to say thank you. What it shows is that even when love comes into your life (in the form of compassion and kindness), you will not recognize it, you will not acknowledge it. And so you will continue to live a life of lovelessness, blaming everyone and the stars but yourself.

Imo, the focus on romantic love is a mistake. Romantic love is not guaranteed to anyone, no matter how lovely the chart. Romantic love is just one facet of LOVE. In order to live this life, we have to learn to see and appreciate love in its many facets, and if romantic love comes, then it's the icing on the cake. This is what we should teach people, instead of gassing up their head with romantic love.

to quote Shakespeare,
The fault, dear Brutus, is not in our stars, but in ourselves.

You wanted the undiluted truth. You got it now.


Whats your problem i dont have to say thank you to you if you are not here to share ur opinion and feel like ppl are obligated to thank u u r in the wrong place many ppl here helped at my worst and they dodnt expect anything in return i help ppl at other site to teach them astrology and they never said thank u and i didnt expect it but comeing here making fun of my question and my choices and feelings it just show what kind of person u r and i cent even sink to ur level so screw u and ur information i know that my satirn was in my 7 and 8 house u didnt say anything new any beginner can guess that so dont compare urslef to professionals who are herw to help and teach new things without anything in return im glad that this guy told me something mew yod but u u just taught me that thereare ******** here..

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Belage
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posted July 11, 2016 01:37 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Belage     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You can curse me all you want. I actually expected it.

Years from now, you will realize the validity of what i told you. Love will never find you with your current attitude.

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Loveher
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posted July 11, 2016 09:21 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Loveher     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Saturn8_Me:
I have an Yod also.. but I read that one astrologer (Basil Fearrington) said that they aren't all that they are cracked up to be & that its just a midpoint activation... http://newwayastrology.tumblr.com/post/6638857813/the-yod
... just some more food for thought. (I know it's a little deflating that there maybe a possibility that were aren't as special as we thought lol).

Maybe you should study the Mercury/Mars midpoint & come up with your own conclusion ..
Here's a link to get you started. [URL=http://john-sandbach.blogspot.com/2010/11/planets-affecting-mercurymars-midpoint.html]http://john-sandbach.blogspot.com/2010/11/planets-affecting-mercurymars-midpoint.html[/UR L]


I liked the two sites i didnt know that i have something like this in my chart before. I read too that people who have this they have a purpose in thier lives to fulfill. I always felt this way. And i read too that they have different personalities than the others and different lives and thats make sense now. But however there are no specific informations about what kind of purpose u would have with specific planets and houses.

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SDragon
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posted July 16, 2016 12:20 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for SDragon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Loveher:
I would like to know more about my yod?

Sorry, been on vacation for the last week. Will try and reply with something in the next week.

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Loveher
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posted July 16, 2016 03:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Loveher     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by SDragon:
Sorry, been on vacation for the last week. Will try and reply with something in the next week.

Thanks. I really learned something new.

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next to neptune
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posted July 16, 2016 04:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for next to neptune     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Well did you ever try? Finding love is about trying and being motivated for trying... and you have to date quiet a few before the right one appears. It's not easy, but its not impossible either. Theres no "the one and only" there is plenty of "the one"s.

I see an opposition from your venus to the moon and pluto in scorpio. It's a tricky one, because it makes you such a control freak, I guess. And you cannot be a control freak if you want true love.... we cannot control other peoples feelings, and if they leave us, it doesnt have to mean that we are not good enough.

Maybe you fear rejection, and this is pretty common for every human being. But I also see that your an aries sun, and they often got a core of a high selfesteem and courage. So use your courage to dare being rejected, but the worst thing that could happen is just that you have to try again... its not that complicated and you can do it


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Loveher
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posted July 16, 2016 04:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Loveher     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Lol im not really a control freak but in my head i do expect them to be like what i want them to be. I dont want them to change im just looking for a stable person who is not into partying and drinking all night just like me. I dont mind them feeling jelouse because i can be the same. I do hate rejction not because of fear its just make me feel stupid.

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