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Yanmorg
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posted July 18, 2016 04:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Yanmorg     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I am on the inside.
He is on the outside.


Both birth times are 100% accurate.

I've been hearing a lot about Jupiter square Uranus/ Neptune along with Saturn square Pluto but these are generational aspects that I've seen in many composites with people my age. My longest relationship had all 3 and we dated on and off for 7 years. Not the best example but the feelings lasted that long too.

Is there anything else that jumps out to you?

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posted July 18, 2016 09:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for polkadotstars     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Synastry:
Conjunct angles
Sun conjunct Mars and NN
8th house moon overlay

Composite:
Venus conjunct NN
Sun conjunct Moon
Heavy 5th house

Seems decent to me

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posted July 18, 2016 11:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for yungang_grotto     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Who's venus-neptyne-moon-uranus!? Whoa!

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Yanmorg
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posted July 19, 2016 08:55 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Yanmorg     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Why whoa? is that a bad whoa or a good whoa? Haha

I am on the inside and he is on the outside.

He is sonething else.

I had the same reaction in real life when we first met.

I am on the inside and he is on the outside.

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posted July 19, 2016 08:57 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Yanmorg     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by polkadotstars:
Synastry:
Conjunct angles
Sun conjunct Mars and NN
8th house moon overlay

Composite:
Venus conjunct NN
Sun conjunct Moon
Heavy 5th house

Seems decent to me


Would Venus in the 6th and Saturn in the 8th make things a little less playful?

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posted July 19, 2016 02:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Yanmorg     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted July 21, 2016 12:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Yanmorg     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted July 22, 2016 07:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Yanmorg     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted July 23, 2016 10:59 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Yanmorg     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
any insight?

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posted July 23, 2016 12:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lucia23     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I keep coming back to this thread, hoping to see and post something helpful. I just get the vibe somehow---and i'm not sure why--that it isn't an actual relationship.

Also, the synastry doesn't look horrible--it just *feels* meh to me, and I don't know why! Normally that Sun-Mars conjunction would look interesting to me and I would interpret it as creating friction and a drive to action--but for some unknown reason, the vibe I keep getting here is that nothing is going on and this thing isn't anything. I've been not posting that, but I wonder if others are seeing/feeling something similar and that's why they're not posting?

I remember this from your other thread, where you asked who was more attracted---I don't know why I'm getting the feeling that nothing is happening. Can someone else weigh in? Like a real astrologer?

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posted July 23, 2016 08:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Yanmorg     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
No, we aren't in a relationship but there's definitely a pull between us. It's weird.

You're right, nothing is happening, but everything is happening too.. if that even makes sense.

I'm drawn to him but not necessarily based on attraction even though I do find him attractive.

It would be too soon to tell off anything else.

We've been talking nonstop all day every day and we've seen each other, but nothing overly romantic has happened yet.

We are still in the beginning stages.

I posted the charts just to gain some underlying insight on the possible outcomes of this potential relationship.

like I previously mentioned, I'm drawn to him definitely. Something about him is pulling me to him. It's not a sexual pull. Romantic, yes but it isn't the usual romantic "things" that are realing me in.


He has made it clear he wants to pursue this further and I feel the same way. I enjoy our conversations even though they can be dry sometimes (I blame my Saturn), but even with that we never get tired of each other.. yet maybe.

I'm just cautious.

I like the guy, but something peculiar is happening here. I can't put my finger on it and that's where you lovely fellows come in


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posted July 23, 2016 08:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Yanmorg     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you for your input btw, Lucia.

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posted July 24, 2016 08:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Yanmorg     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

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posted July 25, 2016 03:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Yanmorg     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted July 25, 2016 07:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Yanmorg     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
This is the synastry part of the Astrology forum guys!

I know I post a million different post, but we post charts to be analyzed. This is what this forum is for.

I see so many othee posts besides mine go unanswered.

I put my fair share of input so it isn't one-sided on my end.

I know someone has some more input.

I'm very curious.

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posted July 25, 2016 08:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lucia23     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
C'mon, somebody?

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posted July 25, 2016 09:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Belage     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Personally, I don't like to look at the chart synastry and composite overlays because I get confused with all the lines crisscrossing, I can't really tell how wide the orbs are and for me, orbs are superimportant. It's just my own weakness as an astrologer.

If you want to post your natal chart and his chart SEPARATELY, with lists of the planetary positions the way they do in astro.com, I can give it a look, and also it would be great if you can formulate a more precise question.

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posted July 25, 2016 10:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Yanmorg     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
MY NATAL



HIS NATAL


& I guess my overall question is, do you think we're compatible? I don't have an overly complex question or anything. I'm just really curious about this synastry with a guy I'm starting to see because of the weird vibe/ connection. I'm weary but attracted at the same time. I just wanted a little more insight, Astrology wise.

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posted July 25, 2016 11:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Belage     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Looking at your chart, you like men who are very masculine, and you are obsessed with finding the right partner. You're about to experience a mars return, and it could signal or coincide with the start a new cycle of relationship for you with someone who is very masculine. This relationship may not lead to marriage, but it could be fun and exciting nonetheless.

Where does he fit in? He fits in quite nicely as his sun is conjunct your mars and North Node in your 7th house, so he activates your partnership dreams and desires.

You both share that Neptune-Uranus conjunction in Capricorn, so yours conjunct his Venus is not adding anything to him that he doesn't already have. Therefore I would consider this a neutral aspect.

Compatibility wise, your moon square his moon by sign, but not by degree. Still, you might find that you are at odds emotionally. You do share a lovely Chiron trine moon aspect, which promises and can deliver healing.

While he activates your 7th house, you don't have any planets falling in his 7th or 8th house, so you might feel the romantic pull more than he does. You do have planets in his 5th house of romance, but those are same planets he already has, so again, you're not adding anything to it.

He has an interesting chart, with the North Node sitting at the lowest point of the chart, and that can indicate someone who is not going to be strong in making his mark in the world. That could be a turn off to you in the long run because you might want a more masculine, forceful, go getter kind of partner.

Basically, the synastry is not horrible. I would say if you can have fun with this relationship and not start picking the names of the future children in your head, you can ride it and enjoy it for whatever it's worth. You have to be careful about Mars transit though. In the best of circumstances, they give you masculine partners, fiery sex and athletic endeavors. But they can also signal physical abuse. So again, be mindful and vet carefully whoever you are allowing into your life in the next few months while mars will be swaggering through your 7th and 8th houses.

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posted July 25, 2016 11:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Belage     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
By the way, the way your charts are posted, they come out superlarge on the screen and one has to do a lot of scrolling adjustments to look at them. Perhaps it's the reason why you have not been getting any answers. Too much work to look at them. Or maybe it's just my computer.

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posted July 26, 2016 12:09 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Yanmorg     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you for your input!


I realized my planets didn't fall in any of his romantic houses, but I was still confused because he seems more interested in me than I am in him. I have a weird attraction towards him but it's too soon to tell whether it will lead to deep feelings or just a temporary fling. He, on the other hand, is pushing more for a romantic relationship. Maybe it's our composite? He's very persistent and me being Uranus in the synastry, I doubt I'll start to be my usually clingy self which would make any Venus-Uranus individual back off so I'm not sure what it is. That's why I'm so curious about our compatibility.

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posted July 26, 2016 12:11 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Yanmorg     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
& really? my apologies. I posted the charts by iphone so maybe that's the issue. It's showing up super small on my end. I was actually trying to make them bigger. I'm glad I decided against it!

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posted July 26, 2016 11:48 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Belage     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Yanmorg:
& really? my apologies. I posted the charts by iphone so maybe that's the issue. It's showing up super small on my end. I was actually trying to make them bigger. I'm glad I decided against it!

No worries. It could be my computer that's acting out.

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