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Tryptamine
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posted July 19, 2016 01:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Tryptamine     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
How compatible are we? We have a roadblock, distance but can we work around it?

Would love any general advice or hear about anything interesting you see also, thanks in advance

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Belage
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posted July 20, 2016 04:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Belage     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
There is definitely strong romantic and sexual attraction there. I see the super intense Venus/Pluto conjunction, and the more fun and lighthearted Moon/Venus conjunction which is a really sweet and loving aspect to have and shows emotional compatibility.

I didn't see nodal conjunctions of planets, so it will not feel like fate or destiny is moving mountains to get you together. And the Saturn contacts are not really supportive. One saturn squares the other's moon and Jupiter. The other Saturn trines Mars, but it's a neutral aspect.

However, if you two really want to make it happen, you should try. It will depend on the Pluto person in the Pluto/Venus conjunction, because Pluto has the power there. Venus is smitten and ready to do anything, but the ball is in Pluto's court.

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Tryptamine
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posted July 21, 2016 03:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Tryptamine     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Firstly, thank you for the response!

Okay, that's brilliant news considering it's my pluto and her venus - if that's the case, it's not just her who is smitten... We joke around and call each other crazy because neither one of us seems to be able to stop thinking of the other. She says she is a little intimidated by how she feels, she's admitted she worries about scaring me but I don't even know if she could. I see where pluto/scorp gets a reputation for being obsessive now.

Could you tell me more about the saturn square?

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Belage
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posted July 22, 2016 04:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Belage     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You're welcome, Triptamine.

As for the Saturn square, it's your Saturn squaring her moon and Jupiter. Usually, Saturn issues do not show up right away in a relationship, or both parties gloss over them, but over time, as the relationship attempts to solidify, Saturn starts to impact the relationship. Saturn squaring moon will tend to do or say things that make the moon person feel small, stupid, worthless. Saturn may remind her of her dad, and not in a good way. And Saturn square Jupiter can just put out the light in someone's life. If you're not careful, your words or actions could cause her to be depressed.

That's where astrology comes in. With awareness, you can mitigate some of the harsh effects of certain aspects. You will have to pay attention to those things that you do and say to her, as the relationship starts to solidify, if you don't want to fall into the negative side of this square.

Yes, on the other side, the moon person will do things that will trigger your Saturn's annoyance, and lashing out at or scorning her will feel as though you are doing her a favor and helping her get rid of her immaturity, but most of the time, the person on the receiving end does not experience this as helping.

Being the Pluto and the Saturn person in those aspects, it does look like you have the upper hand in the relationship, for good or bad.

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Tryptamine
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posted July 22, 2016 06:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Tryptamine     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks again. I'm incredibly self-aware- it's both a good and bad thing about myself, I think.
Whenever she expresses concerns about things, I try my best to comfort her and make her not worry. I wouldn't say we 'argue' just.. emotional talks, with a lot of back and forth. It takes a lot to truly anger me. It's almost scary how much I care- to the point that I'm judging my own life and where it's going and wanting to change things, hoping to please her/make sure she is happy. I don't know what's happened to me!

Because of things like that, I don't feel like I'm in control. I'm pretty malleable and adaptable to people- it's basically her who has worries (she worries about distance, some personal things I have going on unrelated to the relationship, also a lot of 'what-ifs' concerning us) and me telling her to have faith and trust everything will be good. However, because of my '**** it, let the current take us wherever we are going' kinda attitude, I feel like I'm the one with less control but maybe more determination.

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Tryptamine
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posted July 28, 2016 01:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Tryptamine     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Any insight on this? Am I just in control and don't realise?

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