posted July 24, 2016 05:45 PM            

DON’T THINK ABOUT IT. Just say what first pops up from your mind and intuition.

posted July 24, 2016 05:55 PM            

If they got an Air Moon or Venus square Uranus. Thats the ultimate deal breaker for me lol! Then I would just know that our relationship is not going to last... not just because of the placement or squares, but because they fit so bad with my chart. I just don't fit with their energy over a longer time-period. In the beginning it's always fun and exciting, but they often lose interest very fast where I just don't.

If they instead got some nice and soft pluto aspects, I know they would be more intense and loyal.
I also love Cancer suns and cancer placements. And scorpio, and pisces placements.

posted July 24, 2016 07:59 PM            

'Oh no!' - he has Taurus in his chart. Aquarius planets of mine don't like it.

posted July 24, 2016 11:19 PM            

these are probably my favorities, the jupiter makes us happy, the saturn binds us, the sun/moon makes us super comfortable

If I have these with someone I usually look at the neg aspects and think "okay, we can do this!"

posted July 25, 2016 03:50 PM            

I get excited by Gemini, Leo and Sagittarius.

posted July 25, 2016 03:57 PM            

To be precise I get excited by:
Gemini Sun & Mercury
Leo Sun, Venus & Mars (especially the Mars)
Sagittarius Sun, Mercury & Moon

I feel frustrated and bored if I see the sexual planets in Gemini or Sagittarius. Leo Moon seems like a bit too much and Gemini Moon not enough.

posted July 25, 2016 07:55 PM            

7th house overlays.

lots of pluto (trines and conjunctions).

I love applying conjunctions because it creates a close bond without too much effort if other factors agree. Oppositions too, but those depend on which planets.

7th house overlays because it lets me know I'm at least their type in some aspect and vice versa.

I love Pluto because, well.. I am Pluto haha.

I have Sun, Mercury, Venus, Jupiter, Pluto in Scorpio.

Jupiter conjuncts my Sun, Moon (libra), mercury, Venus.

Pluto rules my 7th house.

Pluto conjuncts my Sun, mars, and opposes my Ascendant.

posted July 25, 2016 09:33 PM            

Meh aspects would involve aspects from mars or mercury to slow moving planets. Exception: Mars conjunct, sextile or trine Pluto can be nice.

posted July 25, 2016 09:48 PM            

Jupiter conjunctions and Venus conjunctions from their side.

posted July 25, 2016 11:05 PM            

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Originally posted by Orange:
Pluto conjunctions and Saturn conjunctions, from my part. Because I am a control freak and want to own them.

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posted July 25, 2016 11:51 PM            

Yayy Signs:
Pisces and Aqua bc they're my sun and moon and I feel like I get them

Leo bc I feel like they're easy to deal with usually, compliment and adore them and you're good to go

Cap is easy too, as long as you can make a clear plan with them all is well

Ugh Signs: Cancer, Scorpio, I always feel like they could be manipulating me

Yuck Signs: Aries, Sag, Virgo

I HATE: (in a man, bc I can never win)
Aqua venus
Aries moon
Pisces venus
Scorpio mars (althought I want to love it before I hate it =P)

posted July 26, 2016 12:26 PM            

I don't know why I'm so attracted to Mars in geminis.

My chart ruler is Venus in sag in the 3rd house.

posted July 26, 2016 02:34 PM            

Things that delight me: their natal aspects, not our synastry
Sun conjunct Moon (I'm a sucker for these people)
Capricorn or Taurus Moon
Capricorn or Taurus Mars
Earth dominate people
Major Capricorn placements (favorite energy)
Major Aries placements (2nd favorite energy/my 7th house)
Major Sagittarius placements (I like planets in my 3rd/IC)
Sun trine/sextile Moon
Moon trine/sextile Venus
Major planet conjunct the NN
A grand trine/kite
A well aspected Mercury
Planets in their 7th house

posted July 26, 2016 08:19 PM            

Venus-Saturn (hard aspects)

mercury-saturn (hard aspects)

Aries placements (I hate planets in my 12th/ inconjunct my stellium)

Venus retrograde (two childlike in love for my taste. I need a MAN )

Gemini placements (inconjunct my stellium)

Virgo placements (I'm just not attracted. I find them boring)

squares to my mars (they will run)

Neptune squares (self explanatory)

Uranus squares (self explanatory)

South Node contacts (someone will get bored)

Saturn conjunct mars (I hate it! I will run)

posted July 28, 2016 07:19 AM            

'Meh' Things:
-Virgo placements in the 2nd or 3rd decan.
-Gemini placements in the 2nd or 3rd decan.
-People who have mostly trines or sextiles.
-Stelliums

Things I love to see:

In their chart:
- A nice balance between masculine and feminine energy
- Grand Trine Kites of one particular element.
- An outer planet conjuncting or falling in their 1st house.
-One of the luminaries in the 7th house
-moon square venus. It's important that they deal with this too. Additionally I could also say moon in hard aspect to pluto.

In synastry:
- pluto in hard aspect to the moons (esp. Conj and opp)
- Nodal conjunctions to the luminaries or angles.
- Moon trine Moon, Moon conjunct Moon, venus conjunct venus...Angles conjunct angles.
- Their mars conjunct my sun or their sun conjunct my mars. I always always like these people, and there's never been an exception.
- sun or moon in 1st house either way.

posted July 28, 2016 10:15 AM            

- Libra/virgo mix. I have good experience with this particular combination, both in platonic and romantic connections.

- Uranus aspects to match the ones I have in my chart.

- Capricorn placements and/or saturn influence to match my own.

- Neptune, neptune, neptune.

- Middle degree Sag placements to form a grand trine with my moon-jupiter. My sag merc is in the late degree and doesn't aspect my moon/jupiter.

What would make me proceed with caution:

- Cancer placements, especially the moon. I have cancer chiron in the 7th oppose my cap stellium.

- Many scorpio placements, heavy pluto influence.

Heh, it's ironic, I'm with a person who's pluto dominant, but then again, he has a dose of saturn as well. It works.

- Sun, moon, venus or mars in the 7th house.

posted July 28, 2016 11:26 AM            

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- Sun, moon, venus or mars in the 7th house.

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I'm curious why.

posted July 30, 2016 04:56 PM            

The conjunction has been phenomenal for me. Yes, true, there is the danger of setting the other off if they have a hard aspect to their Moon, because you touch it, but astro can help become aware of that! In my experience, it's just scary and wonderful at the same time how often you will go through the same things - if something happens to one person, something similar happens to the other the same day - and having similar energy levels, moments when you are active or tired, habits, things you need, etc. It's almost like the twin thing, where when one twin huts, so will the other but also about positive things.

Then again a conjunction to my Moon will also conjunct my IC (double the effect!), Neptune (the telepathic thing?), Uranus and Saturn. So it sure touches me on a deep level.

With girlfriends, I love love love seeing Aries pop up, whether it's on my DSC, Vertex or 'just' trines my Sun and SN. Also Mars in hard aspect to my Venus (easy works, too, but especially hard); all women who had it taught me so much about being assertive, about getting in touch with my anger and not needing to "be the bigger woman" all the time.

As for a 'nooooo...!' reaction:
Uranus in hard aspect to my Venus. To a lesser extend in the composite or draconic, but the hard aspect has been horrible for me. I've said this in similar threads before and it's still the same. Saved for one good friend who lives in a different region (so we have plenty of space as in not being able to see each other that often - we don't live around the corner), I can't think of a single time I've had a positive experience with their Uranus in hard aspect to my Venus. Always ends classic Uranus way: from out of nowhere, suddenly, they could've dropped off face off the earth for all I know. And I try to work things out or keep us together but they just ignore me or only pop up occasionally to argue with me. And make me feel like I'm high maintenance, demanding and unreasonable with what I want from a friendship/relationship in progress.