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firewater89
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posted July 30, 2016 01:24 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for firewater89     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

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todd
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posted July 30, 2016 06:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for todd     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
you charts expired
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firewater89
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posted July 30, 2016 08:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for firewater89     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I can't figure out how to post the pictures lol

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firewater89
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posted August 01, 2016 11:01 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for firewater89     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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you charts expired
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I got it fixed

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yungang_grotto
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posted August 01, 2016 12:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for yungang_grotto     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm into the first chart, and I think you're probably into him too. I can see
the attraction to the other guy being compelling too, your water planets really resonating with his Scorpio stellium, but also it is likely volatile and liable to have issues, like a deck of cards with that Scorpio stellium in your 6th... you aren't heavy on Scorpio energy and it might be a lot with your Mars square those points. Venus-MC feels really good, and you probably like the way he presents in the world quite a bit.

As far as the first chart goes, Moon~ Ascendant is touted as being one of the very top of the heap aspects for romantic compatibility... not one that gets talked about in the board much, but Pat Geisler says so and a study carried out by Carl Jung found this to be the most common shared aspect in romantic partnerships. Not sure how valid that is, but you can see why. Moon-Ascendant means that the self expression and environment of ascendant is deeply in tune with the moon's emotional needs and somatic comfort zone... quite good. You really get him, and he really gets you. Talk about connection. As long as birth times are correct?

And then with him we also have Mars,Venus ~ Ascendant as well, and Venus Ascendant is another one I would say is especially awesome, and Mars Venus Ascendant is just steamy... although also there could be issues with your anima/animus and the balance of their inner masculine and feminine which would be brought to the fore by the relationship. Likely enjoyable though and you probably really like him, the way he is.

I like the Jupiter Chiron conjunction too.

I can see how the other one is nice too, for sure... but mypersonal pick would be number one.

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firewater89
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posted August 01, 2016 12:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for firewater89     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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And then with him we also have Mars,Venus ~ Ascendant as well, and Venus Ascendant is another one I would say is especially awesome, and Mars Venus Ascendant is just steamy... although also there could be issues with your anima/animus and the balance of their inner masculine and feminine which would be brought to the fore by the relationship. Likely enjoyable though and you probably really like him, the way he is.


Both our birth times are correct. And yes I really do like everything about him. But he's with someone else.. Our situation is really complicated.

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yungang_grotto
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posted August 01, 2016 01:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for yungang_grotto     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm hoping that I didn't affect your opinion of the second synastry too much with my comments about the Mars square and the intensity of all that Scorpio. There is likely much I am not seeing and honestly I think that every two relationships are so different and I usually prefer to honour them separately. I was taking thus as a kind of test but that is my mistake, my ethics with astrology should have prevented me doing that and I should have looked at each chart independently instead of trying to compare.

I like in the second one how your.Jupiter is conjunct the Vertex and NN. Very nice. He probably feels pretty darn good about you.

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posted August 01, 2016 01:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for yungang_grotto     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
If you would post the composites (and Davisons, please) we would have much more information about the nature of each relationship, in their total manifestation. The synastry is useful but it's the composite which does show us the alchemical union of your individual selves, the substance and conditions created when you relate...

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posted August 01, 2016 01:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for firewater89     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by yungang_grotto:
I'm hoping that I didn't affect your opinion of the second synastry too much with my comments about the Mars square and the intensity of all that Scorpio.

To be honest I haven't made up my mind about either of them lol I just know I have strong connections with both of them





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posted August 01, 2016 02:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for yungang_grotto     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You don't necessarily need to choose which one is better. They are both important to you, in unique ways.

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yungang_grotto
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posted August 01, 2016 03:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for yungang_grotto     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Saturn Uranus on the Sun Moon midpoint axis of the composite with TJ (pretty sure) explains the attraction/delay/constriction which prevents you being together at the moment and also the electricity which is inherent in the connection. Could possibly be a long term sustainable excitement, and/or very stimulating feelings of frustration tis karmic... (Everything is though so la la la, lol)... will look more later.

Interested in what todd will say if he returns (hi todd )

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firewater89
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posted August 01, 2016 11:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for firewater89     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by yungang_grotto:
Saturn Uranus on the Sun Moon midpoint axis of the composite with TJ (pretty sure) explains the attraction/delay/constriction which prevents you being together at the moment and also the electricity which is inherent in the connection. Could possibly be a long term sustainable excitement, and/or very stimulating feelings of frustration tis karmic... (Everything is though so la la la, lol)... will look more later.

Interested in what todd will say if he returns (hi todd )


So you do think there's a good possibility him and I may end up together? I was looking at his transits and he's got Neptune transiting his 7th house and it's Rx...

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firewater89
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posted August 01, 2016 11:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for firewater89     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Also is there any significance to his Saturn being in my empty 7th house?

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firewater89
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posted August 02, 2016 12:49 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for firewater89     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It's just frustrating everyday that him and I aren't together and I'm trying to figure out the reasons why it's just hard for me to move on from him

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yungang_grotto
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posted August 02, 2016 11:12 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for yungang_grotto     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I can't give a definitive answer on whether two people will end up together based on these charts alone, I think I am getting to the point where I could confidently say whether there is a high probability of long term compatibility/a strong need to continue associating closy in this lifetime, but this would mean looking at midpoints, progressions, draconic charts, etc etc.

Even then it would be irresponsible to say for sure one way or the other, it's outside my ethical boundaries as an astrologer. I don't think it's necessary or fair. If your soul truly wants to know the answer and it's the right thing I'm that moment, you will know. I can be part of that but I can't just hand you the answer. sometimes uncertainty itself is a door... There are lessons here for you, useful things you couldn't learn without the current situation being exactly as it is. It is perfect, even if it feels impossible. Astrology can help you see how perfect it is, and speed you some.on.The path of understanding which will free you up for joyful action and presence in the moment...

I do offer in depth relationship compatibility readings, in which I can guide and give a much deeper understanding of the dynamics at play as well as forecasting when things might develop or change, etc. However this is expensive because I can't give really excellent answers which lead to effective counselling without hours and hours of work.

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