posted August 03, 2016 05:35 PM            

We've known each other for ages but only recently met in person... and now this guy is extremely persuasive and would not stop himself until he is convinced whether or not we could be a couple. His ultimate aim is to create a family and have a child. He thinks his time is ticking away and is extremely pushy to find (out if i am) the right woman.

If you would see his natal chart... he is Pluto-Uranus dominant. Pluto makes trine aspects to his Sun, Venus and Mercury and Uranus squares his Sun, Moon, Mars and Mercury...

While i admire his strong character he comes off too strong at times and i can't always keep up with his abundance of chaotic energy.

His Venus is exactly conjunct my Ascendant and Pluto trines it. The rest of his personal planets fall in my 1st and 7th house. He is clearly attracted to me physically and we have a very strong intellectual connection.

However, i do not believe we could be in a relationship. He is too dominating and impulsive. I also don't dig the fact that he is a Pisces Sun opposite Virgo Moon conjunct my SN...

What do you think?

posted August 11, 2016 05:07 AM            

Haha i like outdo ideas, should be my next name

I wanted to have an update before i respond here, so it has taken a while...

He contacted me out of the blue around the 21st of June, same with the other guy...loving those Uranus activations

We didn't meet until later in July and we recently met 2 days ago and spent a wonderfully crazy day together... i think we are both getting into each other...
He is also moving in to where i live so there will probably be attempts at creating a relationship of some sort

I really cringe when i see Pluto square Jupiter, especially when it's so exact... i have this square with quite a few important people... even with my mother and father (the opposition with him)... i guess this is the ultimate separation factor.

However there are still a few good aspects in this composite - Mars trine Saturn, Moon, Jupiter... Saturn trine Moon exact.
Not liking the Mars square Neptune though
Some of our synastry is also intense.

I also wondered if there's an indication for this composite to be activated now as a passing phase in our lives, bringing us together for the time being as both of us have concluded long-term relationships with other partners?

posted August 11, 2016 03:16 PM            

you are going to get yourself into a emotinalhole if you think thisis leading to a relationship.
the south node transited the eros/psyche midpoint on july 2. this transit is etrenmely idealistic and emotional. with the south node a aura of innocent childlike trust and love was around the chart.currently the south node is heading toard a trine to venus on oct 19 nd a conjunction with eros on nov 1. soth this magical affection andenchantment has a good couple od months to go. but these feelings do not change the overall selfishness in the relationship. have a good time but stay unattached because as soon as you start thinking of a future together, the magic will end.

posted August 12, 2016 09:50 AM            

I will take your advise seriously and try to stay unattached and get invested as little as possible, while enjoying whatever it will be for as long as it may last.