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Topic: Someone I Thought Was My TF
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thingsgoneby Knowflake Posts: 26 From: Registered: Jul 2016
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posted August 09, 2016 02:36 AM
Edit: Guys, I just realized that maybe it's better to just let this be. So, I'm removing the charts altogether. It just occurred to me after discussing with you, well, that it really doesn't matter. Thanks though to the people who replied!If the webmaster wants to remove the thread that's fine by me! IP: Logged |
yungang_grotto Knowflake Posts: 3084 From: intimate sky dot net Registered: Mar 2014
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posted August 09, 2016 03:19 AM
It's very hard to read when you've "aspect lines to all"... I understand the compulsion to do so though Would be helpful to see the composite and Davison charts, and the natals separately, we can all give a better interpretation with more clear information. Thanks IP: Logged |
thingsgoneby Knowflake Posts: 26 From: Registered: Jul 2016
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posted August 09, 2016 04:05 AM
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thingsgoneby Knowflake Posts: 26 From: Registered: Jul 2016
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posted August 09, 2016 04:07 AM
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thingsgoneby Knowflake Posts: 26 From: Registered: Jul 2016
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posted August 09, 2016 04:12 AM
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AscTaurus Knowflake Posts: 1187 From: Pretoria, Gauteng,South Africa Registered: May 2009
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posted August 09, 2016 07:57 AM
Wtf is a tf? IP: Logged |
thingsgoneby Knowflake Posts: 26 From: Registered: Jul 2016
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posted August 09, 2016 08:29 AM
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comdoc Knowflake Posts: 485 From: Tucson Registered: Feb 2015
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posted August 09, 2016 08:45 AM
Twin Flame. Mirror Soul. Both souls were once the same soul. quote: Originally posted by AscTaurus: Wtf is a tf?
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DopGang Knowflake Posts: 2688 From: INTJ Registered: Jun 2015
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posted August 09, 2016 11:37 AM
quote: Originally posted by thingsgoneby: I have thought about this a lot, weighing the pros and cons posting our synastry, although somewhere deep down I know this is why I joined Lindaland. Sorry for creating a bunch (well, three) threads, but since I got such helpful answers from my last synastry inquiry I wanted to see if someone could interpret this connection. I’d appreciate your help so, so much.Meeting the person in question was one of the weirdest, most powerful experiences of my life. I had never heard of the TF concept, but once I did (a year after) I immediately thought: "This is it, no doubt about it". Every single ”criteria” was there. The initial meeting. The similarities. The otherworldly emotions. Before him I would have raised my eyebrows skeptically if someone had told me about the TF concept, but strangely it resonated with this meeting. I no longer believe in the concept (like, I really, really don’t believe in the concept at all, and think it can be highly damaging), though I believe in the experience. I’ve wondered for so long. Why did this meeting have such a massive influence on me? Why can’t I forget about him and move on? Why was everything about this connection very TF like? I want to move on, I really want to. But these questions are bugging me. I don’t know the exact birth time, there’s no way for me to know. I would love your input in any case, hoping to finally be able to put this behind me. I'm the inside wheel, he's the outside.
Going by the indicators that you gave, my wife and I completely fall in line with them. That said, I don't think about that much. While she is my wife, that's ultimately a legal and spiritual binding to me. Others may view it differently. Outside of that, I really don't think about who is technically what to me. They are special to me, brought a lesson, gave me joy, sadness, or all of those things. I don't think in absolute terms like this person or that person was some kind of rarity that I'll never find again. Everyone is a rarity that you'll never find again. I don't know. Probably I'm not making sense and talking in circles. I can't say whether or not TF even exist. I haven't thought about it much. It seems like it can become an almost unhealthy obsession that ultimately doesn't change your relationship to them, unless you allow the obsessive thoughts change the way you interact with them. I like to just let things flow, kick back, and relax. Sure, relationship endings can be excruciating, but eventually you look back and realize that it didn't kill you after all. IP: Logged |
margym0o Knowflake Posts: 754 From: Canada Registered: Jul 2014
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posted August 09, 2016 11:50 AM
Your charts are still a little hard to read with the ASC aspects (I'd remove them) and while I can't offer much in the way of "confirmation" of a TF meeting, I think you already know how you feel, and once you've experienced it I think it speaks for itself.I wouldn't even try to label it, I would just consider him someone to be a part of your "soul" group and appreciate the connection as such. You don't have to lament over it or justify it to anyone or to make it out to be more than it is, you just know... I'm saying this because I've experienced it too, and I've spent YEARS trying to justify what my connection with him means, even if it's not in a romantic sense. It's tough to justify, as a woman, a connection with another man that ISN'T romantic in this day and age. People automatically try and force it to be, and people who aren't "spiritually inclined" tend to laugh at those who claim to have such connections. I agree with most of that list and it rings true in my case with this man. We met online, playing a video game (mutual hobby in younger years) while living in different countries. The moment I heard his voice, it was so familiar. We became fast friends but didn't actually meet in person until almost 2 years later. The comfort was INSTANT. It was like seeing an old friend - no awkwardness at all. We did end up dating for almost 3 years, I had moved to be with him but in the end he just wasn't what I needed at the time and it felt more like friendship than a romance. We parted on good terms and remain friendly to this day. I try to remain respectful of my current partner and keep communication with him to a minimum, but I think about him quite often. This bothered me at first but I've grown to accept that the connection with him will always exist, in whatever capacity it's meant to. IP: Logged |
thingsgoneby Knowflake Posts: 26 From: Registered: Jul 2016
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posted August 09, 2016 12:05 PM
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thingsgoneby Knowflake Posts: 26 From: Registered: Jul 2016
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posted August 09, 2016 12:17 PM
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Tryptamine Newflake Posts: 20 From: Registered: Jun 2015
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posted August 09, 2016 01:13 PM
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I'm saying this because I've experienced it too, and I've spent YEARS trying to justify what my connection with him means, even if it's not in a romantic sense. It's tough to justify, as a woman, a connection with another man that ISN'T romantic in this day and age. People automatically try and force it to be, and people who aren't "spiritually inclined" tend to laugh at those who claim to have such connections.I agree with most of that list and it rings true in my case with this man. We met online, playing a video game (mutual hobby in younger years) while living in different countries. The moment I heard his voice, it was so familiar. We became fast friends but didn't actually meet in person until almost 2 years later. The comfort was INSTANT. It was like seeing an old friend - no awkwardness at all. We did end up dating for almost 3 years, I had moved to be with him but in the end he just wasn't what I needed at the time and it felt more like friendship than a romance. We parted on good terms and remain friendly to this day.[/B]
Wow, I have a similar experience going on. We met playing a video-game roughly december last year and I'm flying to see her on sunday. I'm both excited and terrified. I basically started playing the video-game as a distraction from some intense stuff I was going through (really ****** time for me) and now it's like I've been swept through a whirlwind, I felt more emotions recently than I have my entire life I think, haha. It's really intense. We have moon/venus venus/pluto conjuncts and some other stuff going on in our synastry. IP: Logged |
yungang_grotto Knowflake Posts: 3084 From: intimate sky dot net Registered: Mar 2014
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posted August 09, 2016 03:02 PM
Sorry I couldn't be of more help... I can imagine how hard this would have been, and how amazing the synchronicities which bring.us together are... there's nothing wrong with being amazed but yes these boxes we put ourselves in are not always to our ultimate benefit... labels and roles will be quickly outworn as we grow and evolve but they serve their purpose while they're around. You no longer think of him that way, but you did, and you discovered that conceptual framework was incorrect, or not fully workable within the reality you experienced... so you had to adjust some things, and that's ok too. Life is a creative process, some trial and error is the guts and muscles of it... you learn... you learn what your core energy really is about... and tap into that with people for a time, link your ring to theirs so to speak(castaneda), and create magical realities together... it is always miraculous when we experience a deep connection and much synchronicity. Honour that, don't be too worried about labels... just be yourself .and loveIP: Logged | |