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Topic: Fascinating encounter: Magnetic attraction and repulsion
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viiv28
Knowflake Posts: 140
From: kaspichan
Registered: Jun 2014
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posted August 12, 2016 02:45 PM
  
Dear everyone, help me understand why I felt extremely attracted to this guy the moment I saw him?
The story is as follows. When I saw him, he came to my house for some unrelated unpleasant business. he is a friend of the woman, whose house I live in. He said one word to me and then left. After a few days later that he came to ask me for a mixer or smth, I gave him and he left. A third time I saw him on the street, as I was going to meet with a friend, this time we talked a bit more and he invited me to his place for tea. the following day he added me on facebook and came to "pick me up" (we live in the same building). He was quite kind and I could sense the attraction. However he is vegan, and I am very antivegan. I also dont eat a lot of animal products, but hate these types of labels. And hate people judging other people based on their diets. The attraction also made me feel very uncomfortable. I am engaged to be married and we are also trying to get pregnant with my fiancee. After having a fight at his place about veganism, we started arguing about something else and then mad a bet . I won the bet, he came to pay the money again and brought me a banana and continued this time with more sexually explicit conversation. I again got uncomfortable and slammed the door in his face. Then we started having fight on facebook, where I accused him of being a poser and what not. And after many hours of tirades on both sides, he deleted me and told me to never bother him again. I cant stop thinking about him.
this is the chart:
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viiv28
Knowflake Posts: 140
From: kaspichan
Registered: Jun 2014
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posted August 13, 2016 07:48 AM
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athenaia
Knowflake Posts: 1781
From: USA
Registered: May 2015
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posted August 14, 2016 05:07 PM
Sun trine Sun and Venus trine Venus means you both see eye-to-eye extremely well. They're an instant friendship (as evidenced in your post), there's the soothing feeling of being understood, of having similar tastes, similar philosophies, and similar ways of expressing love. Moon opposite Moon.. well, that's very sexy. It creates this competitive friction, but if taken too far, can be relationship destroying, especially after the soothing energy of being understood gets swept away with this incompatibility. I have a hunch - he's the "live and let live" Pisces Moon that just goes with the flow, and you're the nitpicky Virgo Moon that wouldn't drop it? His Sun/Mercury/Venus falls into (what I assume) is your 11th house - instant friendship and camaraderie. Your Sun/Mercury in his 3rd house - he enjoys you as a good conversationalist. This is enhanced by Mercury trine Mercury - you guys are effortlessly on the same page. Jupiter square Jupiter - conflicting philosophies
Your Venus on his SN - you guys knew each other in a past life, hence the glowy otherwordly familiarity IP: Logged |
todd
Knowflake Posts: 4988
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Registered: Jun 2009
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posted August 14, 2016 06:30 PM
Uranus conjunct mars on one and Uranus conjunct venus on the other.
Uranus is the classic symbol for magnetic attractions and repulsions.
a composite would show this clearer.
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viiv28
Knowflake Posts: 140
From: kaspichan
Registered: Jun 2014
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posted August 16, 2016 10:41 AM
hey thank you veyr much for the replies!!!I am adding the table for the aspects and the composite. IMG]http://i67.tinypic.com/ify1x3.png[/IMG]
I see that there is uranus-venus very exact conjunction and pluto venus very exact opposition
also pluto square mars
What else can be an explanation? Thank you I will also post me and my fiance's chart, we get along so well but no such passion. IP: Logged |
viiv28
Knowflake Posts: 140
From: kaspichan
Registered: Jun 2014
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posted August 16, 2016 10:58 AM
Additionally, I do not intend to sleep with him, since I do not want to cheat on my fiancee and I like very different men than him, he also starts the conversation in direction of sex, but then says that I want him, but he doesnt want anything from me.
He also said that he treats me like he treats everyone that I am attractive and have charisma, but nothing special to him etc etc
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viiv28
Knowflake Posts: 140
From: kaspichan
Registered: Jun 2014
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posted August 16, 2016 11:14 AM
oh here is the composite with the "other" guy. 
and here is the synastry with my fiance:
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viiv28
Knowflake Posts: 140
From: kaspichan
Registered: Jun 2014
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posted August 17, 2016 12:06 PM
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