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Topic: Love at first sight ? - aspects
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mooninaries94 Knowflake Posts: 921 From: another dimension Registered: Jan 2016
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posted August 24, 2016 01:43 PM
Hey, I met a guy several days ago and something very weird happened when I first saw him, I felt like I knew him before, this feeling was very strong. Besides since that day I don't seem to take him out of my head. Is there any aspect on our synastry which could explain this sensation ? Thanks in advance. IP: Logged |
fiola Knowflake Posts: 70 From: Registered: Dec 2013
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posted August 24, 2016 01:53 PM
Instant attraction are tricky !You have your N.N conjunct his asc, your vertex conj his venus, your sun conj his moon is a very lovely aspect to have, just watch out of uranus, it's all about sudden starts and ends, and it's in opposition to mars. I have this aspect with my current boyfriend and it's playing out in sudden bursts of lust or fights, while other times we barely feel the attraction, and we're just annoyed with ne another. IP: Logged |
mooninaries94 Knowflake Posts: 921 From: another dimension Registered: Jan 2016
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posted August 24, 2016 02:02 PM
quote: Originally posted by fiola: Instant attraction are tricky !You have your N.N conjunct his asc, your vertex conj his venus, your sun conj his moon is a very lovely aspect to have, just watch out of uranus, it's all about sudden starts and ends, and it's in opposition to mars. I have this aspect with my current boyfriend and it's playing out in sudden bursts of lust or fights, while other times we barely feel the attraction, and we're just annoyed with ne another.
Thanks for replying, @fiola. Could we say this is an one-sided attraction ? IP: Logged |
margym0o Knowflake Posts: 762 From: Canada Registered: Jul 2014
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posted August 24, 2016 02:56 PM
quote: Originally posted by mooninaries94: Hey, I met a guy several days ago and something very weird happened when I first saw him, I felt like I knew him before, this feeling was very strong. Besides since that day I don't seem to take him out of my head. [b]Is there any aspect on our synastry which could explain this sensation ? Thanks in advance. [/B]
I don't see this being very fulfilling for you long-term. Too many holes (unaspected planets) for both of you. It may feel compelling at the onset with the "fated" markers (Node, Vertex etc.) and the planetary overlays are nice for attraction (assuming the birth times are correct), but there are missing pieces to the puzzle. The Uranus square to your Venus and opposition to your Mars definitely creates some buzz, but the overall synastry has to be strong to weather the ups and downs these aspects can cause (especially the Venus/Uranus square). Can you post a composite as well? IP: Logged |
mooninaries94 Knowflake Posts: 921 From: another dimension Registered: Jan 2016
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posted August 24, 2016 03:40 PM
I understand. And yep, both birth times are right.Here is our composite. IP: Logged |
mooninaries94 Knowflake Posts: 921 From: another dimension Registered: Jan 2016
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posted August 25, 2016 10:12 AM
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girlwiththerainysoul Knowflake Posts: 28 From: C H Registered: Jul 2016
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posted August 25, 2016 10:41 AM
this love or attraction at first sight: his moon conjunct your sun, your sun square his sun and his mars in your 8th house -----------------a few pieces of advice: in composite you have chiron opposite saturn which can make this relationship too limiting and painful for the both of you.
your moon is too far away from him, and he will almost never be able to care for your emotional needs. it could work if your moon were in libra or his in aquarius. lots of planets in the 8th composite house, especially the sun and the moon, can point to a "secret"-themed relationship with constant fears of being cheated on which may or may not turn into reality. you have a natal t square between mars, venus and saturn plus saturn in the 5th house. sex and fun for you is often presented with obstacles and that may be why you attract saturnian types (he is saturn conjunct ascendant). you have natal moon square neptune, so beware of feelings that may seem like love but actually aren't. also women with mars square venus usually attract jerks (my best friend is like this).
he is much older than you and is a taurus sun with scorpio ascendant which makes him need to be in public all the time (sun opposite ascendant). many scorpio ascendants have mc in leo which may turn them into power hungry people, so maybe that is why he is attracted to your powerful leo. he has saturn in scorpio and may have started having sex very late, that may be why he looks for younger women. your sun is 3 signs away from his AS, and this is an aspect that usually exist between child and parent so that the child (asc) would feel a slight sense of fear toward parent (sun). I am not sure if it is a good aspect to have between lovers though as it may make the AS person hold a lot back. he has sun square moon too and may have a really bad temper. plus he is scorpio asc and you are libra asc, and you will look at the world very differently. overall watch out and try to get him talk about his life goals as well as his past, before getting into something serious with him. ------------------ pisces moon taurus midheaven leo ascendant taurus sun cancer mars and venus
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mooninaries94 Knowflake Posts: 921 From: another dimension Registered: Jan 2016
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posted August 25, 2016 11:36 AM
Thanks for giving a look, @girlwiththerainysoul. I'll analyze him well before starting anything, even when I'm madly passionate, I'm very careful. He's 9 years older than me, I don't mind the age gap, as well as I already dated guys much older than this. I think my Saturn in the 5th plays role in both cases.IP: Logged |