posted August 31, 2016 02:54 PM            

Just wondering how many of you had loads of relationship drama due to friends of your partner causing problems at every opportunity?

If you did, which transits, progressions or SR finally put an end to it and the bad influences left the scene?

My ex and I both have Neptune transiting our 11th. He has a certain group of friends that are no good for him - or me - yet he sticks to them like crazy glue. It hardly helps that his natal Moon is in his 11th in Aquarius. Yes, he is emotionally distant, but for some reason sticks loyally to the worse kind of "friends". Like an addiction.

His upcoming SR will have Saturn conj Juno in the 11th on his 9th. SR Venus, Mars and Neptune (all Pisces) in the 2nd will all be sitting on his natal 11th.

Other thing that stands out in his upcoming SR is Sun, Merc and Pluto in his 12th on the natal 9th. This would indicate psychological issues popping up among other things.

Can any of you recall what made you or your partner see the true colors of certain friends and end those relationships for good?

posted August 31, 2016 06:10 PM            

We have Venus/Scorpio/7th square Saturn/Leo/4th.

We actually have some beautiful house positions in our composite, yet here we are broken up due to bad influences in his life.

We have Sun, Merc, Venus, Jupiter, Vesta and ... Uranus in the 7th. All in Scorpio. Uranus in itself is not a problem as we are not that conventional, but it definitely keeps causing separations.

posted August 31, 2016 06:35 PM            

His Moon in Aquarius in 11H should do the opposite of what you think - exactly what he's doing, being friends with everyone, accepting all with open embraces never mind that he's detached.

posted September 08, 2016 10:07 AM            

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Originally posted by CapriciousCapricorn:
You meant 'I will take care of the rest' right? ) Just noticed it says 'it' not 'I'

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LOL. I would love to 'take care of them' mafia style, but no that is not what I meant. If 2 of them get out of his life then they will take most of the others with them as well. It is not simply that he likes odd people. It's the users and scum I have a problem with as they keep taking and hate me for standing up to them while he prefers to cower in a corner.

posted September 08, 2016 12:09 PM            

We have a few of those, and some 10th house planets in composite including sun, sometimes it felt like our relationship was "in the public eye" and subjected to scrutiny. Weird coz we're pretty low-key about our relationship.

Friends... Heh around the time when we first got together, TR pluto was going through both of our 12th house. There were problems with some of his friends. I remember telling him that it was ok, those people and I didn't have to like each other, just being civil was enough. So except for once or twice when they threw shade and I gave them a piece of my mind, I didn't pay attention or interact with them much. It was ok until they tried to mess with our relationship, that was when he cut ties with them for good. He got to that decision on his own after they showed their true colors, which was good coz if he couldn't, I would have packed my stuff.

posted September 08, 2016 12:40 PM            

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Originally posted by 12muddy:
I've read that synastry square, oppositions that involve mercury can manifest as other people causing problem for the two who are in relationship.

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Thanks 12muddy. I just checked ours and my Mercury in the 5th is opposite his 11H Moon.

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Originally posted by 12muddy:

It was ok until they tried to mess with our relationship, that was when he cut ties with them for good. He got to that decision on his own after they showed their true colors, which was good coz if he couldn't, I would have packed my stuff.

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Yes, this is it. When they constantly cause trouble. There has been no end to it over the years. Their efforts have been very active.

One section of his "friends" - the worst of the 2 sections - are involved in some cult like thing and they are very good at confusing him and messing with his mind. He'll be fine, but once he has been around them it is as though he has been brain washed and following their instructions. Neptune is transiting his 11th and quintile his natal Venus 9th. Natal 9H also has Sun and Neptune in it. It seems he is a soft target for such types? He is not religious though yet they control him so easily when he has been around them. I have observed some of their tactics over the years and it is classic cult stuff. They tried the same garbage on me, but it didn't work at all.

I guess the question then becomes: when will this ease up?