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Topic: Do you see possessiveness in this synastry?
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MahaKali
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posted September 05, 2016 03:31 PM
  
Can you tell me what is the first thing you can notice when you take a look at this synastry? What here indicates obsession between these two people, what possessiveness and from which one of them? Red chart, time incorrect.deleted IP: Logged |
CapriciousCapricorn
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posted September 05, 2016 07:05 PM
Nice practice but it's 50/50.. I'm not sure. It can be either. But blue is more sensitive and vulnerable in this relationship (because of unforunate synastry).SO Red is more obsessive. Blue suffers more because blue is not how red wants them to be. IP: Logged |
MahaKali
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posted September 05, 2016 07:38 PM
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Originally posted by CapriciousCapricorn:
Nice practice but it's 50/50.. I'm not sure. It can be either. But blue is more sensitive and vulnerable in this relationship (because of unforunate synastry).SO Red is more obsessive. Blue suffers more because blue is not how red wants them to be.
How do you think Red person wants Blue to be? I wonder to hear opinion, before I say mine.
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CapriciousCapricorn
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posted September 05, 2016 07:52 PM
Blue is mixed, weird to red. Sensitive but detached in love. Blue seems unreliable to red, does what he/she likes. Believes this shouldn't be a bog deal. I think maybe red just doesn't feel blue is serious about him/her, that this is not how you love someone. That you should be this and that, behave like this and like that. So Blue feels there is a lack of understanding and that red wants to change them. And that it's not fair. And maybe it's really not fair.IP: Logged |
MahaKali
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posted September 05, 2016 08:11 PM
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MahaKali
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posted September 08, 2016 06:48 PM
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llewsacm
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posted September 08, 2016 08:45 PM
With the square, the attraction is strong both ways. It may be that one tires of the other at some point based on this aspect alone or that it may be more than they can handle to put it a different way. The man's sun falls in her 8th and bml conjunct her moon, so she's feeling it pretty heavy. She has a Scorpio ascendant so sun in her 8th should feel really nice and jarring perhaps at the same time. I wonder what's going on with their composite. And what exactly are you being asked to help with? There's a good age difference here...is that causing concern? IP: Logged |
MahaKali
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posted September 10, 2016 08:16 AM
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PainInTheWorld
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posted September 14, 2016 05:27 AM
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PainInTheWorld
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posted September 15, 2016 04:45 PM
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girlwiththerainysoul
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posted September 16, 2016 09:09 AM
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Originally posted by PainInTheWorld:
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what I first noticed:
his sun in her 8th
his venus on her MC
his venus conjunct her chiron
his venus square her pluto she feels hooked and under spell, he feels like he has finally found a woman who will obey him. the composite shows a relationship with very little amount of genuine affection or mutual compromise, it rather shows one where the male has the upper hand and will control the female. although I believe that both parties will have their needs met in this relationship (mutual aspects between male/female planets and each of the luminaries in each individual's chart) if they can handle the following aspects which have caused the initial attraction, but tend to blew up in the long run:
marses square
venuses opposite
mercuries opoosite (because these aspects gives them squares to each of their personal planets in the composite) * if I were her though, I would just run! because like I said, this is hardly romantic imho and is purely based on control, and that chiron conjunct venus WILL cause lots of pain.
I would go as far as saying that it depends on this aspect alone and whether they can both handle it which determines if the relationship will last.
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PainInTheWorld
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posted September 16, 2016 01:27 PM
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MahaKali
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posted September 17, 2016 07:46 AM
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PainInTheWorld
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posted September 20, 2016 06:14 AM
I don’t find Composite chart so important. Synastry will tell everything and personal chart. Analyze their Natal charts separated and then take a look at synastry. I said my opinion before.Also want to say that communication is very important in relationship, but most people forget about Mercury, only pay attention on Venus, Moon.... Even if they have opposition, they have very good aspects between their Mercuries and other planets, do not focus only on one aspect but whole chart. IP: Logged |
girlwiththerainysoul
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posted September 20, 2016 07:21 AM
in the composite:juno squares the sun and trines the moon...there are chances that the female hopes this relationship to lead to marriage (also with venus in the 7th), but the male refuses to get committed and just wants to have fun and wants her for sex (also with sun in the 5th) with saturn opposite the AC, there is hardly a chance that they each want to be acknowledged publicly with the other as a couple. with mercury square neptune, there's hardly any honest communication between them. they can't fully trust each other. IP: Logged |
girlwiththerainysoul
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posted September 20, 2016 07:23 AM
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And also agree with girlwiththerainysoul. He maybe wants to have control a bit, but doesn't look to me like total control freak, maybe he wants to feel secure just like her. I think he also has good manners and can be pretty nice if feel someone has true feelings for him. I don't know to read Composite chart, tell me, how you saw their relationship is based on control, I wonder?[/B]
in the composite, the sun/mars midpoint is opposite pluto and also on DC IP: Logged |
MahaKali
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posted September 20, 2016 09:56 AM
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Originally posted by girlwiththerainysoul:
in the composite:juno squares the sun and trines the moon...there are chances that the female hopes this relationship to lead to marriage (also with venus in the 7th), but the male refuses to get committed and just wants to have fun and wants her for sex (also with sun in the 5th) with saturn opposite the AC, there is hardly a chance that they each want to be acknowledged publicly with the other as a couple. with mercury square neptune, there's hardly any honest communication between them. they can't fully trust each other.
I said above, his birth time is unknown, so Composite houses are incorrect, like his AC.
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MahaKali
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posted September 20, 2016 09:58 AM
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Originally posted by girlwiththerainysoul:
in the composite:juno squares the sun and trines the moon...there are chances that the female hopes this relationship to lead to marriage (also with venus in the 7th), but the male refuses to get committed and just wants to have fun and wants her for sex (also with sun in the 5th) with saturn opposite the AC, there is hardly a chance that they each want to be acknowledged publicly with the other as a couple. with mercury square neptune, there's hardly any honest communication between them. they can't fully trust each other.
I said above, his birth time is unknown, so Composite houses are incorrect, like his AC.
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MahaKali
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posted September 20, 2016 02:25 PM
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