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Topic: Venus conjunct Venus, Mars trine Mars but no cross aspects...
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Gabby
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posted September 08, 2016 03:21 PM
  
What's the effect when they don't cross aspect?
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CapriciousCapricorn
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posted September 08, 2016 06:29 PM
You mean no aspects between each other's Mars and Venus? Lots of people don't have any Mars-Venus either, is it really such a big deal? You have 2 marriage aspects then, that's a lot. Maybe if you are concerned about the lack of sexual aspects, then look for male Moon Venus - female Sun, Mars. IP: Logged |
mereiposa
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posted September 08, 2016 07:08 PM
What about Jupiter, Sun, Pluto or Moon to Mars? Are you concerned about the possibility of no romantic attraction? IP: Logged |
Gabby
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posted September 08, 2016 09:30 PM
Yea i was concerned about a lack of chemistry...but i dont know maybe they could still have it. I just dont see a lot of Venus conjunct Venus without it aspecting Mars.They have
Venus(s) opposed her Jupiter
Mars(s) trine his Moon- makes grand trine
Venus(s) trine his Saturn
Venus(s) square his NN IP: Logged |
Lotis White
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posted September 09, 2016 02:14 AM
I think Venus/Venus and Mars/Mars actually would give a lot of chemistry, especially if they both occur in the same synastry. There's raw energy attraction (Mars), and affection, and mutual appreciation of the others beauty (Venus). It's enough to create an attraction.I do prefer the masculine/feminine planet aspects (like Sun/Moon, Mars/Venus, Mars/Moon, and Sun/Venus) because of the dynamic they create... One initiator and one receiver. But Venus/Venus and Mars/Mars should still do the trick for plain old attraction itself. They'd have more of feeling like two friends/peers in love, rather then one initiator and one receiver sort of dynamic. I certainly wouldn't throw stones at these aspects. IP: Logged |
CosmiqPhuz
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posted September 09, 2016 02:32 AM
Having Venus conjunct Pluto natally myself, a Venus/Mars aspect in synastry for me isn't a big deal IMO. I definitely feel it, and it's nice, but it's too light and fluffy for me. Besides Pluto, I even find aspects like Venus/Moon, Mars/Moon, Mars/Ascendant, and Venus/Neptune more captivating. It would be nice to go a week without my natal Venus/Pluto and see how a Venus/Mars feels though. I bet it's fun.
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Originally posted by Lotis White:
But Venus/Venus and Mars/Mars should still do the trick for plain old attraction itself. They'd have more of feeling like two friends/peers in love, rather then one initiator and one receiver sort of dynamic. I certainly wouldn't throw stones at these aspects.
I've actually found this quite true in my experience - the friends/peers in love. Could be a good thing in this modern day and age... IP: Logged |
CapriciousCapricorn
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posted September 09, 2016 05:34 AM
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Originally posted by CosmiqPhuz:
I've actually found this quite true in my experience - the friends/peers in love. Could be a good thing in this modern day and age...
I think THAT is exactly what the problem is. Friends/peers..they already have that..you need sexual chemistry for things to go further. Or they will just stay friends in the end. I really don't view Venus/Venus as attraction aspect. Best friends aspect for sure. Mars/Mars..could be, sexy competition ) But Mars Moon double whammy is nice.
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Lotis White
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posted September 09, 2016 07:02 AM
Although, when I said friends in love I wasn't refering to platonic feelings all. It's more like neither one is the truly chaser and neither one is the truly chased. With Mars/Mars and Venus/Venus it's more of an equal mutual attraction, but there can be romantic chemistry with these aspects. You know those cheesy romances where the guy goes all out to get the girl, doing everything to impress her because she's illusive or hard to catch... That's masculine/feminine planet type stuff. This as compared to those romantic comedies where two best friends fall in love but don't know how to admit it to each other for a while before they get together. Neither one seems to chase to much more then the other... They take turns. That's Venus/Venus or Mars/Mars. Of course other aspects in synastry can always modify this. IP: Logged |
CapriciousCapricorn
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posted September 09, 2016 07:58 AM
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Originally posted by Lotis White:
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You know those cheesy romances where the guy goes all out to get the girl, doing everything to impress her because she's illusive or hard to catch... That's masculine/feminine planet type stuff. This as compared to those romantic comedies where two best friends fall in love but don't know how to admit it to each other for a while before they get together. Neither one seems to chase to much more then the other... They take turns. That's Venus/Venus or Mars/Mars.
Lol yees  you described what yo mean so well! Only I feel this is where they (Venus/Venus aspects only) belong - either 1) very young age (school, college, uni etc) or 2) very old age (where people need life partner rather than love partner). IP: Logged |
CapriciousCapricorn
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posted September 09, 2016 07:59 AM
Or maybe also 3) adults who are romantic or naive or dreamy and imaginative?? That might work for them too IP: Logged |
CosmiqPhuz
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posted September 09, 2016 10:45 AM
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Originally posted by CapriciousCapricorn:
I think THAT is exactly what the problem is. Friends/peers..they already have that..you need sexual chemistry for things to go further. Or they will just stay friends in the end. I really don't view Venus/Venus as attraction aspect. Best friends aspect for sure. Mars/Mars..could be, sexy competition ) But Mars Moon double whammy is nice.
Seeing that a lot of relationship/marriage problems stem from inequality issues (I have to do everything, he/she's so lazy, he/she never pays, etc), I don't see it as much of a problem. The "friends in love" feeling would make each other feel more like equals, making it easier to foster mutual respect, I think. Maybe it depends on the people? I do have Mars/Moon double whammy with someone (trines both ways) - it IS nice!
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hypatia238
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posted September 09, 2016 06:45 PM
I think is weird when people don't have Venus to mars aspects and end up together, I think that is very important but that is just me maybe bc I have Venus conjunct mars and mars is one of my chart rulers. All my relationships have Venus to mars aspects and when that isn't there it feels like something vital is missing.IP: Logged |
hypatia238
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posted September 10, 2016 01:26 AM
Interesting I seem to have all of the above come to think of it:
Venus to Venus
Mars to mars and
Venus to mars double whammyWith husband:
Venus conjunct Venus
Mars square mars
Venus square mars and
Venus conjunct mars With Ex:
Venus sextile Venus
Mars trine mars
Venus sextile mars and
Venus trine mars With Mr.Aqua:
Venus trine Venus
Mars trine mars
Venus trine mars double whammy IP: Logged |
hypatia238
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posted September 10, 2016 01:33 AM
Apparently Venus to Venus, mars to mars and venus to mars double whammies are all crucial for me to last long term with someone and want to commit to them.Further it's interesting that my husband's and Ex strongest planet are both Venus and Mr. Aqua's is Mars and my Rising ruler is mars and pluto and DC ruler is Venus. IP: Logged |
Gabby
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posted September 27, 2016 12:08 PM
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Originally posted by Lotis White:
Although, when I said friends in love I wasn't refering to platonic feelings all. It's more like neither one is the truly chaser and neither one is the truly chased. With Mars/Mars and Venus/Venus it's more of an equal mutual attraction, but there can be romantic chemistry with these aspects. You know those cheesy romances where the guy goes all out to get the girl, doing everything to impress her because she's illusive or hard to catch... That's masculine/feminine planet type stuff. This as compared to those romantic comedies where two best friends fall in love but don't know how to admit it to each other for a while before they get together. Neither one seems to chase to much more then the other... They take turns. That's Venus/Venus or Mars/Mars. Of course other aspects in synastry can always modify this.
This is exactly how it's playing out...they meet in the middle both putting exactly the same amount of effort into each other. They don't play cat n mouse, they just expose their feelings n the other does the same in return. It's very sweet n very stable. No games, no stress just a soft, sweet, effortless give n take.
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Gabby
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posted September 27, 2016 12:14 PM
His aqua Moon is conjunct Eros, forming a grand trine with his libra Mars n her gem Mars...IP: Logged |
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