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SunAscendant
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posted September 10, 2016 09:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SunAscendant     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
What does someone's Sun/Moon midpoint conjunct my Ascendant and their Moon/Saturn midpoint conjunct my Venus mean?

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posted September 11, 2016 02:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted September 11, 2016 03:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for girlwiththerainysoul     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by SunAscendant:
What does someone's Sun/Moon midpoint conjunct my Ascendant and their Moon/Saturn midpoint conjunct my Venus mean?

the second one: venus person can bring a sense of security and emotional balance for the moon/saturn person

the first one: your presence and the way you look/dress and your overall daily lifestyle really inspires the sun/moon person and they may tend to idolize you or look up to you

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posted September 11, 2016 03:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for yungang_grotto     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
^ true. My sun/moon midpoint is conjunct my daughter's father's ascendant and opposite my current significant other's ascendant (yes, they have ascendant descendant exactly flipped...). I definitely really like them both, the way they present... the aura which surrounds them... it entrances me, is very much in keeping with my deep inner feeling of an ideal person...

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posted September 11, 2016 04:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SunAscendant     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by girlwiththerainysoul:
the second one: venus person can bring a sense of security and emotional balance for the moon/saturn person

the first one: your presence and the way you look/dress and your overall daily lifestyle really inspires the sun/moon person and they may tend to idolize you or look up to you


Aw that sounds so deep and romantic.

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posted September 11, 2016 05:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for yungang_grotto     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It's pretty nice. I bet they're pretty into you.

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posted September 11, 2016 08:55 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SunAscendant     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by yungang_grotto:
It's pretty nice. I bet they're pretty into you.

Well he hasn't said anything haha. I've tried talking to him but he doesn't seem interested. Maybe he's shy (Cancer sun AND moon). I was thinking of asking him to hang out, but I'm afraid his shy Cancer sun & moon might dislike my Venus in Aries asking him out, plus I don't know if he even likes me and I don't want to embarrass myself

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posted September 11, 2016 10:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for yungang_grotto     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ah... could be shy yeah, or excessively weird and in their own world, as Cancer is wont to be...

Importantly, if you don't have the birth time you can't know the Sun/Moon midpoint... the Moon travels pretty quick in a day, about 15 degrees...

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posted September 11, 2016 10:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SunAscendant     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by yungang_grotto:
Ah... could be. Importantly l, if you don't have the birth time you don't have the Sun/Moon midpoint... the Moon travels pretty quick in a day, about 15 degrees.

I do have his birth time. I made some small talk and mentioned astrology and he said his mom is into it so he knows his birth time haha. I am a Cancer rising though, don't forget that . I may have Venus in Aries, but my shy Cancer rising and Pisces Mars makes me a little apprehensive at times.

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posted September 11, 2016 10:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for yungang_grotto     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
But you probably knew that? I still forget sometimes and have to stop myself looking for this midpoint when I don't have the exact birth time... so I thought I'd mention.

Edit- I see your reply now

Well.. it depends on the rest of the comparison of course.

Moon/Saturn on your Venus might partly... holographically... explain his apparent coolness to your charms... he might be taking it all pretty seriously.

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posted September 11, 2016 10:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SunAscendant     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by yungang_grotto:
But you probably knew that? I still forget sometimes and have to stop myself looking for this midpoint when I don't have the exact birth time... so I thought I'd mention.

I do know his birth time. His mom is into astrology so she has done his chart and he's seen his chart thus he knows his birth time lol

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posted September 11, 2016 10:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SunAscendant     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by yungang_grotto:
But you probably knew that? I still forget sometimes and have to stop myself looking for this midpoint when I don't have the exact birth time... so I thought I'd mention.

I do know his birth time. His mom is into astrology so she has done his chart and he's seen his chart thus he knows his birth time lol.

EDIT:
Maybe he's being the strong, silent type, but he has sociable Libra rising and Venus and Mars in outgoing Leo conjunct (albeit at 29 degrees about to enter the shyer sign of Virgo)

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posted September 11, 2016 10:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for yungang_grotto     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have found the fear of embarrassing myself is the main thing standing in the way of experiencing my wildest romantic dreams.... I still have to coach myself out of my own shyness to express my desires and to flirt (with my boyfriend.. lol...)...

Point is, if they're the right person, they'll love you speaking your deep inspirations, and if they're not, well, you'll know... It's very rewarding taking the risk... It's worth it...

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posted September 11, 2016 10:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for yungang_grotto     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
One other thing I've learned.. dont let your idea of yourself based on your birth chart prevent you from doing things you want to do!

Of course you are capable of being sensitive if you want to be! Venus in Aries is rather forward and blunt especially compared to a Cancer, but that's far from a deal breaker... if there are other positive indications... And anyway, it's Venus!

But my initial point is that I've learned through a LOT of trial and error, not to use astrology as an inhibiting lens on what I can do.

In fact I have a visualization for getting OUT of the predetermination mind frame, and it's very useful...

Point is, if you can dream it, if you're inspired to do it, you can do it! Even if you don't think it's in your chart... It's SOMEWHERE in there, you just haven't seen it. You can do anything you can do... if that makes sense.

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posted September 11, 2016 10:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SunAscendant     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by yungang_grotto:
One other thing I've learned.. dont let your idea of yourself based on your birth chart prevent you from doing things you want to do!

Of course you are capable of being sensitive if you want to be! Venus in Aries is rather forward and blunt especially compared to a Cancer, but that's far from a deal breaker... if there are other positive indications... And anyway, it's Venus!

But my initial point is that I've learned through a LOT of trial and error, not to use astrology as an inhibiting lens on what I can do.

In fact I have a visualization for getting OUT of the predetermination mind frame, and it's very useful...

Point is, if you can dream it, if you're inspired to do it, you can do it! Even if you don't think it's in your chart... It's SOMEWHERE in there, you just haven't seen it. You can do anything you can do... if that makes sense.


You're right. I think that I sometimes get bogged down by the chart and make up excuses >.<. I don't know what to even say to him though. I don't know how to start a conversation haha. We met through a meetup group, but I don't know how to start a conversation with that topic haha

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posted September 11, 2016 11:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for yungang_grotto     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Awwe... You DO have Venus in Aries follow your instincts! Actually just being completely honest about wanting to hang out and not knowing what to say and that you feel shy might actually be the thing to break the ice... honesty and sincerity are always beautiful and disarming, and as he is probably shy, and probably in a meet up group to meet people... he will probably REALLY appreciate it! Just a thought.

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