posted September 16, 2016 06:39 AM            

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Originally posted by calliope23:
What would the relationship be/feel like for two people with Suns as well as Moons in opposite signs in their natals?

Specifically, the Sag/Gem axis (suns) and Cancer/Cap axis (moons)?

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hi calliope23,

based on my personal experience, these kinds of relations begin with lots of attraction and lots of learning from each other happens.

but in the long run, the attraction begin to fade and instead turns into resentment. it almost never leads to lasting happiness, because both realize sooner or later that they are fundamentally just completely different.

these relationships with the luminaries and/or personal planets opposites, are on-off at best, and if that is what they look for and they each don't mind a certain type of distance between themselves and their partner, only then it can work.

but it can never be a truly intimate relationship.

posted September 16, 2016 12:02 PM            

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Originally posted by calliope23:
Thanks so much for the insight!

Actually, in the composite of this relationship the sun and moon and not opposite. Sun is in the 11H and moon is in the 12H, so there probably is that sense of keeping things from one another which could lead to distrust, much like always wondering what it would be like to be with someone else would leave you feeling distrustful of the relationship, even if you were never to share those feelings with the partner.

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oops I got it totally wrong though! I thought you meant that they each have a natal sun opposite moon aspect in their own chart.

so apart from the last part, all else I said still stands. and even if they don't each have sun op moon natally, their composite WILL have sun square each of them and moon also.

posted September 16, 2016 02:59 PM            

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Originally posted by girlwiththerainysoul:
oops I got it totally wrong though! I thought you meant that they each have a natal sun opposite moon aspect in their own chart.

so apart from the last part, all else I said still stands. and even if they don't each have sun op moon natally, their composite WILL have sun square each of them and moon also.

and with their composite sun in the 11th, is signifies that they are really better as friends. or that they will start as "friends first" and then begin to fall in love.
composite moon in the 12th makes this relationship not a much satisfying one for the female, unless it aspects the composite pluto

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No prob! You're good at this

One person does have moon opposite sun in the natal and the other's has no aspect in the natal, but yes, what I meant was that in the comparison between the two people's charts, their moons are in opposite signs (one moon in Cap, one in Cancer) and their suns are in opposite signs (one in Sag, one in Gem).

When the composite sun squares each of their natal suns/moons, what does that mean? That the relationship creates tension for them each on an ego/emotional level? I've never thought about comparing the composite to the individual's natals, what an interesting concept.

I'm not sure if you are interested, but if you'd be willing to take a look at their synastry or composite, I would be happy to offer you a tarot reading in exchange

posted September 16, 2016 04:36 PM            

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Originally posted by calliope23:
No prob! You're good at this

One person does have moon opposite sun in the natal and the other's has no aspect in the natal, but yes, what I meant was that in the comparison between the two people's charts, their moons are in opposite signs (one moon in Cap, one in Cancer) and their suns are in opposite signs (one in Sag, one in Gem).

When the composite sun squares each of their natal suns/moons, what does that mean? That the relationship creates tension for them each on an ego/emotional level? I've never thought about comparing the composite to the individual's natals, what an interesting concept.

I'm not sure if you are interested, but if you'd be willing to take a look at their synastry or composite, I would be happy to offer you a tarot reading in exchange

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wow that would be amazing!
thank you very much ❤️‍

posted September 16, 2016 05:04 PM            

Below are the charts:

posted October 19, 2016 07:58 PM            

I am so sorry that I am just now seeing this! Wow, you bring up some awesome things to think about! You are right, red is the female and blue is the male in this pairing.

Going to read your response again a few times over and respond more, but THANK YOU for such an awesome and in-depth reply!!!!