posted September 19, 2016 06:15 PM            

I need someone to look at our synastry, and composite (I included our natals too) to see if I should or shouldn't be moving in with him, if I'm clouded by our love and if this relationship will ultimately crash or if it will be solid. I want to make sure that I'm not just rushing into something without someone else's advice. Thank you!

Here's the composite:
[IMG]http://i273.photobucket.com/albums/jj203/cewlcaitycat/4f93b49a-a05f-41e4 -9e27-2c3dd9792672.png[/IMG]

Here's the synastry:
[IMG]http://i273.photobucket.com/albums/jj203/cewlcaitycat/efec9047-e01f-4a87 -8718-aca1a9fda6d7.png[/IMG]

Here's my natal chart:
[IMG]http://i273.photobucket.com/albums/jj203/cewlcaitycat/8e119533-423a-43bc -add7-62b9867aaeb5.png[/IMG]

Here's his natal chart: [IMG]http://i273.photobucket.com/albums/jj203/cewlcaitycat/791e143b-b9fb-40c0 -a08c-df5e453d5244.png[/IMG]

posted September 22, 2016 08:32 PM            

Dating 2 yrs, this is a logical progression, moving in. You will be able to spend more time together and of course save money, right? Use this to your advantage, and make investments for the future, You are good friends. It's sounds practical. You could have a nice home together, comfortable.

posted September 23, 2016 02:19 PM            

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Originally posted by PlutoSurvivor:
Moving in is not exactly a lifetime commitment, not to worry. you are young...20's?, he's older than you?

Dating 2 yrs, this is a logical progression, moving in. You will be able to spend more time together and of course save money, right? Use this to your advantage, and make investments for the future, You are good friends. It's sounds practical. You could have a nice home together, comfortable.

But where does it go after this ? That's your hesitation. Your cap sun and Leo moon make no aspects to him in synastry, even though the composite shows you could get along very well living together. hesitation may also be because you feel inside that this is going to teach you a lot about yourself, and about him. perhaps learn things about him that would shock you it may turn out differently than you dream it up to be. I would move in with him if I were you, my initial response, but I am not a composite-synastry expert. and can't guarantee in the long run that everything will have a fairy tale ending.I see it as a stepping stone and don't think you should take it so seriously. Perhaps someone else can do a more detailed analysis. My response is based on quick look at the charts.

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Thank you for your analysis! I think my Aquarius venus is being a commitment-phobe again. I do want to move in with him and I plan on doing that. I'm glad you think we will live together well.

posted September 23, 2016 03:00 PM            

* Her Moon 1LEO35 is sextile his Moon 5GEM19 (supports domestic harmony).

* Her Moon is sextile his Mercury 28LIB07 (orb, 3,5° - supports good communication).

* Her Sun 22S27 is contra-parallel his Moon 22N56 (and widely with his Mars 23N27 - some energy, some tension, totally normal).

* Her Sun is parallel his Uranus 23S07 (best friends aspect) and N.Node 23S23 (sense of a future together).

This is a mere sampling, but is a set of aspects showing some good things.

The composite looks reasonably good as well with about a 5:2 ratio positive to negative aspects in longitude - but that is not complete. I have not looked at the declinations.

Mergoatsun, if you really want confidence moving forward, I suggest you email me your birth data and let's get your chart lined up officially once-for-all. Then we'll do the synastry and/or composite. I'll make you a two-for-one deal at this important moment in your life. There are indications your birth chart may need to be set a few degrees earlier. With at least a definitive confirmed chart on your end, you've got a more solid basis for these things in the future.

posted September 23, 2016 03:43 PM            

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posted September 23, 2016 08:01 PM            

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Originally posted by Mergoatsun:
So I've been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years and we are moving in with each other in a week. For someone reason I've been feeling really uneasy, probably because I know this is a really big step towards commitment, and with my Aries in the 7th (prone to quick commitments) I just want to make sure I have other logical view points before I make this leap. I'm afraid that my love has completely clouded my view of my relationship. So I need to ask for help to decide if I really want to move in.

I need someone to look at our synastry, and composite (I included our natals too) to see if I should or shouldn't be moving in with him, if I'm clouded by our love and if this relationship will ultimately crash or if it will be solid. I want to make sure that I'm not just rushing into something without someone else's advice. Thank you!

Here's the composite:
[IMG]http://i273.photobucket.com/albums/jj203/cewlcaitycat/4f93b49a-a05f-41e4 -9e27-2c3dd9792672.png[/IMG]

Here's the synastry:
[IMG]http://i273.photobucket.com/albums/jj203/cewlcaitycat/efec9047-e01f-4a87 -8718-aca1a9fda6d7.png[/IMG]

Here's my natal chart:
[IMG]http://i273.photobucket.com/albums/jj203/cewlcaitycat/8e119533-423a-43bc -add7-62b9867aaeb5.png[/IMG]

Here's his natal chart: [IMG]http://i273.photobucket.com/albums/jj203/cewlcaitycat/791e143b-b9fb-40c0 -a08c-df5e453d5244.png[/IMG]

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the composite shows mars trine to venus, with the midpoint square the node, soithereis no mistaking the stable and intense sexual/emotional attraction between you. the sun/moon midpoint is conjunct to th evenus/mercury/ midpoint point which shows the relationship has always been light, laughing with openness and understanding.

on the other side of the coin there are some ominous signs of hidden distance and aims between you.
the composite has a stellium of the node/pluto and nessus with the mercury/Jupiter midpoint conjunct this stellium.

this is an aspect of great selfishness, in the sense that mbition and dvancement are the strongest impulse in this composite. though there are strong loving vibrations, the central thrust here is for personal not common or combined advancement.

this could show a past life connection, but either way there is a central unknown, or real intentions and aspirations re not being makde known.

mercury is square to satrun and th emidpoint if this square is square to mars so when there re disagreements ,he will not sway. all th ecompromise must come from you. and then with mars square to Neptune and Uranus, there are question as to whether e will remain faithful.
but the underlying theme is that this relationship is to his personal advantages and any advancement to new levels by him will strain the relationship, because he is ultimately looking out for himself only.
take a stern inventory and see what advantages you bring to his future, because even with the love and affection, this is a relationship based on using each other. you you must see the benefits to your personal life from this relationship. if all you see is him getting benefits and your compromising your ambitions, then the relationship is not healthy for you in the along run

with the venus/mercury midpoint at 11sag7 and the moon/sun midpoint at 12sag8, the near future will be all fun and games as the node squares these midpoints from now to the end of October.

todd

posted September 23, 2016 08:33 PM            

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