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DreamCatcher
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posted September 19, 2016 10:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for DreamCatcher     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted September 20, 2016 04:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Bump!

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posted September 20, 2016 09:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for DreamCatcher     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks Randal

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posted September 20, 2016 11:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Elysia     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by DreamCatcher:
Hi,
(although he seems "smitten" while I'm not sure) BUT- I feel he just wants to bed me. I could be wrong....

Omg, this is exactly what I was recently going through about some guy. Maybe there are similarities in the synastry/composite that I can point out(?) I'm no astrologer but I'll try to come back to see these charts in more detail n tell you what I see.

Meanwhile, here's a bump for the smart folks like Yun & Ceri to pitch in please.

ETA: Off the top of my head, you have a Mars-Moon quincunx. Male mars hard aspects to female moon can make moon feel like a piece of meat, even though mars may not intend it that way, so moon wants mars to take it slow . His mars was square my moon. (Although quincunx is not a hard aspect, it is an aspect of being out-of-sync in some way. I imagine a quincunx would be like: his physical energies make your emotional energies go "huh?")

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posted September 21, 2016 11:41 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for DreamCatcher     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Elysia:
Omg, this is exactly what I was recently going through about some guy. Maybe there are similarities in the synastry/composite that I can point out(?) I'm no astrologer but I'll try to come back to see these charts in more detail n tell you what I see.

Meanwhile, here's a bump for the smart folks like Yun & Ceri to pitch in please.

ETA: Off the top of my head, you have a Mars-Moon quincunx. Male mars hard aspects to female moon can make moon feel like a piece of meat, even though mars may not intend it that way, so moon wants mars to take it slow . His mars was square my moon. (Although quincunx is not a hard aspect, it is an aspect of being out-of-sync in some way. I imagine a quincunx would be like: his physical energies make your emotional energies go "huh?")


LOL And thanks for chiming in E!
It's funny- I don't really feel like a piece of meat. He's a Libra Sun, and he seems very gentle and considerate to me HOWEVER- I do sense the primal instinct and can tell that every time he sees me, he has the urge to rip my clothes off!! Oddly though- I like it and don't feel like a piece of meat...HAHAH.

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posted September 21, 2016 11:59 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Elysia     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
^Haha!

I see what you mean.. Maybe only the harsh aspects to an already (natally) stressed moon cause that kind of feeling..

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posted September 21, 2016 01:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for DreamCatcher     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I wonder -are there several positiv aspects ?

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posted September 22, 2016 02:12 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for girlwiththerainysoul     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi DreamCatcher!

I will analyze your charts within the next 12 hours 😉 ✌️

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posted September 22, 2016 07:59 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for DreamCatcher     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by girlwiththerainysoul:
Hi DreamCatcher!

I will analyze your charts within the next 12 hours 😉 ✌️


You are a GEM!

PS- Not to be greedy, but theres another man that I have been in contact with and we seem to have an AMAZING synastry...yet it's not going anywhere as of yet......wondering if I could bump that up for you to look at as well? Let me know if thats too much to ask??

I'd be happy to give you a psychic tarot read in a separate exchange thread I am quite accurate

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posted September 22, 2016 03:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for girlwiththerainysoul     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by DreamCatcher:
You are a GEM!

PS- Not to be greedy, but theres another man that I have been in contact with and we seem to have an AMAZING synastry...yet it's not going anywhere as of yet......wondering if I could bump that up for you to look at as well? Let me know if thats too much to ask??

I'd be happy to give you a psychic tarot read in a separate exchange thread I am quite accurate


thanx you just made me blush haha 😜

sure, post your charts with the other man too, and I'll try to do them tomorrow

I am sure you are accurate! at least your name sounds so I am excited to get my tarot reading yay! and please let me know when to ask my question!


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back to your analysis..

first, how you make each other feel (synastry):

he has sun and venus in your 5th, there is a big possibility here that you have already developed romantic feelings for him...

the attraction is real: with your sun conjunct his AC...he feels like competing with you, but also you give him confidence...you both activate the other's sun/moon midpoint (him with his sun opposite your point, and you with your mars and your moon squaring his)...he's got Aqua moon which is ruled by uranus, and your uranus is in his 7th, he feels like maybe he has met his soulmate!...he has his north node in your 7th, and you feel like you can guide him and give him a sense of direction in his life...you both have moon in the 10th, so there's a sense of similarity and understanding between you...with his juno conjunct your moon, talk of marriage can happen pretty soon, but whether they will actually go through it depends on other factors...his jupiter is in your 10th, and this a great aspect for a teacher-student relationship, or anybody who helps your career...it is also conjunct your moon, and it is a REALLY good aspect for friendship or to have someone as your role model and some one you can look up too...you have moon in his 11th, again a very good aspect here giving him the impression of having found "the one", because his moon is in aquarius...he sees you as a very dedicated friend...with his moon in your 9th, you're eager to look up to him and use his wisdom and exchange ideas with him...

the overall "romantic" compatibility I have to say is pretty low...there are a few important inconjunctions which denote complete differences and an impulse to find out what the other is about, but once the relationship is past the initial stages, the two realize that they hardly find the other "pleasant", as there is also unaspected personal planets between you too which makes each feel like "something is missing"...there isn't also enough respective aspects between each of their female/male planets (for instance, you have sun conjunct mercury, but neither his venus nor his moon make aspects to his mercury..his moon is trine pluto, a rather very important aspect he looks for in a woman, but neither your sun nor your mars aspect your pluto)...his moon aspects none of your planets, and this shows the great emotional void he feels in his interactions with you..your chiron is on his AC, and there is chance that you consider the way he dresses/looks/behaves to be wrong and want to criticize or "fix" him...your saturn in his 5th, especially conjunct his venus, is a pretty hard aspect to have...it possibly blocks out all emotions, and must be really hard for him, as venus rules both his sun and his AC sign...his neptune squaring your moon, is one of the hardest aspects...they both feel a great deal of selfless, dreamy, movie love, but this aspect is bound to make their daily life very unsettled and "foggy"...there seems to be no way to achieve clarity when it comes to making decisions...the moon person always is afraid of losing the neptune, and neptune person sometimes gets overwhelmed with expectations...moon person feels like they can never trust the neptune person...

*** what you said about the sexual tension between you too, and that you feel like he wants to have sex with you, I strongly think that is your lilith conjunct his sun...I know because I have experienced this aspect 5 times! (3 conjunction and 2 oppositions)...it somehow keeps happening in my life because of my natal t-square between lilith, moon and venus, with moon at the apex...only recently and thanks to astrology I have been able to figure out what this is that I feel, when I meet a man whose sun touches my lilith, that I feel like bringing him to his knees, using him and then leaving him! sounds horrible I know but I also liked it!..this aspect is on my list of the things I need to work on to change and control at least a bit the patterns in my life and relationships...back to you and your lilith conjunct his sun...he sure feels scared of you, but sexy scared! it is as if deep down he wants to be used by you too!...this aspect is very raw, animalic and primal...


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posted September 22, 2016 03:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for DreamCatcher     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
WHOA! THANK YOU <3

This is so freaky accurate! He is in a position to really help my career! I've been a little nervous because I don't want the attraction to ruin the potential work that can come from him.

Also- I do feel that this would be a three month sexcapade, and that's it....so your interp sounds VERY accurate!!!

Thank you again!
I'm going to start a thread for you with the other (better) soulmate synastry/composite and see what you get..

Would you like to ask your question through here or prefer to go through email? I'm good either way.

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girlwiththerainysoul
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posted September 22, 2016 03:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for girlwiththerainysoul     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
what will manifest if you officially date (the composite):

with jupiter on the AC, you feel really great about being with the other person, they make you feel good about yourself and you make them feel confident too...with moon in the 10th, the couple seem like a rather emotional and fluffy one! and it fits since you both already seem like such a person with both your moons in your 10th...with moon opposite saturn, there can be problems in fertility...the female may not wish to have children with that particular male (may not see him as the father of her possible future children)

with jupiter in the 1st, opposing neptune in the 7th, there seems to be an ever present sense of guilt, where the two feel like they should sacrifice themselves and dedicate themselves totally to the other person, or thing will break up...

the sun is in the 3rd...not a very sigficant or romantic position (I have seen that the happiest couples have composite sun in the angular house, especially the 7th) and doesn't make: first enough aspect (makes only a sextile to mars) and then makes no aspect to the moon or venus..the male may be very passive or "neutral"..

saturn in the 4th can make the family life feel like a burden, and venus there too loosely conjunct saturn can do very little to brighten up the spirit..

mars squares neptune...to be honest, the only way I have seen it play out has been in relationships with abusive males...becaue this aspect is bound to make the person turning his back to compassion...looking at his chart, he does have hard jupiter aspects, and hard jupiter aspects can make people really heartless unless they are spiritually mature and enlightened...

chiron squares venus...somehow any effort to make romantics gestures lead to hurtful and painful situations...chiron is also opposite uranus (which essentially rules divorce, separation and distance)...any effort to try to act rational about daily life (uranus in the 6th) again brings about pain...with uranus square venus, the romance may be on and off...there can be moments cerebral and creative romance with soon shuts off and the two prefer to keep a distance in love..

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posted September 22, 2016 04:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for girlwiththerainysoul     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by DreamCatcher:
WHOA! THANK YOU <3

This is so freaky accurate! He is in a position to really help my career! I've been a little nervous because I don't want the attraction to ruin the potential work that can come from him.

Also- I do feel that this would be a three month sexcapade, and that's it....so your interp sounds VERY accurate!!!

Thank you again!
I'm going to start a thread for you with the other (better) soulmate synastry/composite and see what you get..

Would you like to ask your question through here or prefer to go through email? I'm good either way.



you're very welcome :-)

I am not sure how I can send you emails here on this forum...but I am okay with asking my question here too :-)

you can also give me your email address so I can send you my question

many thanks 🙏 ❤️‍

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posted September 22, 2016 05:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for DreamCatcher     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
[QUOTE]Originally posted by girlwiththerainysoul:
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you're very welcome :-)

I am not sure how I can send you emails here on this forum...but I am okay with asking my question here too :-)

you can also give me your email address so I can send you my question

many thanks 🙏 ❤️‍[/

please let me know when you note my email so I can take it down asap

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posted September 22, 2016 06:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for girlwiththerainysoul     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

I got it! thank you very much :-)

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posted September 22, 2016 06:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for DreamCatcher     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You're welcome

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