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woodenrosary
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posted November 08, 2012 11:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for woodenrosary     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hello

I've never understood this aspect or what it's usually said to mean?? My Moon is exaclty inconjunct(quincunx) a guy's Uranus. I love him more than anything in the world, but dating normally is just never gonna work for us. Our personalities are almost opposite. It has been over 2 years, and still I can't find anyone who I care about the way I care about him. We are still in contact, but we're not close at all. We also have a Moon-Mars conjunction.

Is it true that Moon-Uranus contacts messes with the development of emotional bonds? Love to hear your experiences with it ~

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starfairy
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posted November 08, 2012 11:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for starfairy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
When your Moon makes a hard aspect (conjunction, square, opposition​​​​​​​​​​ to another person’s Uranus, the relationship is likely to be unstable and subject to sudden, unpredictable changes. As the Moon, person, you find the Uranus person highly exciting and electrifying at first. You were probably attracted to each other suddenly, and may have blurted out your feelings to one another immediately. However, over time, the Uranus person may begin to withdraw affection. Why is this?

Well, the Moon person has a way of making the Uranus person feel “trapped”. The Uranus person resents any hint of emotional dependency from the Moon person, which can to an on-off energy between the couple. When the Moon person begins to show dependency, the Uranus person withdraws, but may return after he has had enough distance. The Uranus person’s behavior may make the Moon person nervous and put her on edge. As such, the Uranus person is likely to see the Moon person as immature and overly-sensitive, while the Moon person is likely to see the Uranus person as unstable and unreliable.

The trine and sextile​​​​​​​​​​ aspects between one person’s Moon and another person’s Uranus are easier to handle. This aspect indicates sexual attraction, as well as excitement and fun. You allow each other freedom in emotional expression, and encourage each others’ independence. You feel emotionally liberated by one another. This aspect keeps things from getting dull and boring, which goes a long way in a long-term relationship.
http://astrolady.wix.com/astrolady#!moon-uranu-aspects-in-synastry/cdx4

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libraschoice77
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posted November 09, 2012 01:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for libraschoice77     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Oh yes, true this one makes for an electric type of attraction, almost lightening bolt. You see the other person as being exciting and different in a good way. Even though its a fervent connection, its not really lasting unless you have some Saturn in the synastry mix. Have this aspect along with Sun conjunction Uranus with my husband, and its a good thing we have some Uranus in our synastry or I really believe he would be bored. He has a few Uranus aspects in his own natal chart. It all depends on the type of natal chart the person your interested has, if they have alot of Saturn or Pluto placements going on, then they probably would feel uneasy with any Uranus in synastry.

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woodenrosary
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posted November 09, 2012 11:41 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for woodenrosary     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Interesting... thanks a lot to you both!!

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Lioness
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posted November 10, 2012 12:42 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lioness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My ex husband and my self have Uranus opps moon
by one orb..
I am Uranus.

I think starfairy said it well...
I felt very trapped, I did feel like it depended on me.. Like if he wanted
ME to be his knight in shinning Armour. I did see him as inmature and childish.

We stayed together for 15 years...
BUT we were seperated all of a sudden.. Though through a series of events.

I think Saturn kept it going.. I was never planning to leave, nor where we talking about divorce..

My uranus opps his Moon
his moon sextile my Saturn
His saturn sq my venus

Composite Uranus is un-aspected.

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astrofan123
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posted November 10, 2012 01:57 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for astrofan123     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I also agree with Starfairy said

my moon sextile my husband's uranus
his moon conjunct my venus

fights yes, but never big
it was like that since beginning and 12 yrs now still that way

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Faith
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posted November 10, 2012 07:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Faith     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Moon-Mars conjunction might be the cause of the instability, too.

Who is the moon, woodenrosary?

In my experience, it's harder to be Mars, you can sense that you are getting on the Moon person's nerves but it can be totally mind-boggling, how to stop it.

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woodenrosary
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posted November 15, 2012 08:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for woodenrosary     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sorry! I did not check this for a few days. Faith, I am the moon person. He is the mars. The conjunction is in Taurus... house 11.

Thanks again.

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sweet-scorpion
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posted November 15, 2012 08:55 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sweet-scorpion     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I am sorry you're going through this.

I had Moon square Uranus in composite with someone recently and he caused me a LOT of emotional distress. In synastry I can see it happening in a similar way.

No emotional stability is not healthy. The Moon-Mars conjunction is a raw joining of sensual attractions which is probably why you feel you can't pull away. I had this with the same person I mentioned above and it kept us together despite needing to pull away.

So yes... I think Moon-Uranus hard aspects make one person feel like the other cares little about being there for them, and being emotionally supportive which can hurt like hell. It did for me.

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fiola
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posted September 19, 2016 05:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for fiola     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I am the uranus person, and i feel like i'm the one who's needy and not getting enough attention from him, but he's an aqua sun conjunct rising, so that might be why he's all "uranusy" on me

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posted September 20, 2016 02:11 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Sylven     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I had this one. The conjunction and other way around the trine. It was instant attraction!! Instantly kissing, holding hands, friendship and admiration. Like a fairy tale. We had to part after 3 days and the next year I saw him again. He shielded himself, afraid (pluto/scorpionic) because he was afraid I'd hurt him. Me, I am more the uranus type.
14 years later met on Facebook, it started where we left off and we SUDDENLY fell for each other again. Hard and deep!! This was when Uranus was square our suns (suns are opposite in synastry).

We took each other to a higher plan. Definitely a very good thing and VERY special!!!

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charlie
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posted September 20, 2016 05:17 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for charlie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Me: Scorpio NN, IC, Uranus
Taurus Jupiter, Chiron

Husband: Taurus Moon, Saturn

Lotta things going on there...

We have a lot of Uranus individually and even more in synastry, incl the "bad aspects". Thing is, we are both REALLY peculiar humans and we have just kinda accepted all the craziness and therefore we leave each other alone. I struggle, despite having a Cap Moon, with his VERY Saturnine ways (he also has a Cap Mars) and I know I unsettle him with my Uranian ways but at the end of the day, roots are strong and we know where "home" is and that's all that matters.

We are very electric together and I know others feel this. Some can't stand it, others are fascinated and can't seem to get enough

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girlwiththerainysoul
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posted September 20, 2016 07:56 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for girlwiththerainysoul     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

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Sylven
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posted September 20, 2016 09:58 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Sylven     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by girlwiththerainysoul:
[b] she felt like I slipped away and that she can never feel secure with me

* the only way I think uranus/moon can work is a double whammy.


Yeah, sounds like something along the lines this man in my case felt like. That I couldn't be trusted enough. My Uranus was smack on his Moon.
We had the double whammy (trine and conjunction) and it didn't work, not yet tough and doubt it ever will, in this life.

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Randall
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posted September 20, 2016 04:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Moving to Interpersonal Astrology.

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