posted October 01, 2016 10:49 AM            

Had a relationship just like that...

posted October 01, 2016 11:02 AM            

todd, I know you like feedback so I'm feeding back on everything that applies to me and my ex:

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A really passionate love exists between them with Venus and Sun conjunct the node .with Mars square these, the emotional expression is strong. Jupiter opposed to Venus shows a potentially committed relationship or marriage.

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Yes we were like that.

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Uranus conjunct Venus adds to the amazing passion but can make a committed relationship difficult .Saturn square to Jupiter and venus/uranus also indicates resistance to committing. This can mark a off and on relationship.

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Exactly. For us, off and on. Couldn't stay together or apart. He described it as a rubber band which never breaks...sometimes the two sides come together, sometimes far apart, but always connected.

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a very sensitive and healing affect to the relationship.

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You nailed it, todd.

Thank you for validating my experiences, I appreciate it very much.

ETA:

Just to show why I barged in here and assumed it applied to my relationship, too, here's our composite, with his birth time unknown:

posted October 01, 2016 11:43 AM            

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Originally posted by athenaia:
Wow Faith you weren't kidding! How mindboggling it's practically the same composite with the moon only one sign away from Ceri's friends. Talk about eerie synchronicity.

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Thanks athenaia, that's me and my "ex-soulmate."

posted October 01, 2016 12:15 PM            

"A really passionate love exists between them with Venus and Sun conjunct the node ."
They are not a very passionate or demonstrative couple and never have been. however what they are is DEEPLY COMMITTED. Thiers is a very deep profound natural partnership, but one that places most emphasis on shared support and lifegoals (family mostly) and values, and to some more romantic souls might feel a bit devoid of passion or eroticism really, I think what people nowadays call passion relaly is that erotic sexual vibe.
They are passionate about their life together, but not in the way the big novels are written.

"upiter opposed to Venus shows a potentially committed relationship or marriage."
Yes, deeply so.
This opposition is the result of a synastric Double whammy, too.

"This aspect invariably shows they have experienced similar unusual coincidences in their separate lives that gives the impression that they may be soul mates or connected karmically."
In my view they definitely are. In theirs? NOt so much. They don`t view themselves in spiritual terms at all. Well she might be open to it, first of she is half Irish and secondly she is friends with me. lol
For him, death means . that you are being eaten by worms. Whereas she is more conventionally religious. But they are openminded about each other`s view in that regard, even though they donīt share it.

"This can mark a off and on relationship.
Not at all. Once they got together, they were together. NO on and off. Committed for 16 years, hardly spent a day apart. However initially she was very hesitant to get into the relationship at all. But once she made the choice, she was all in, too.
He was simply completely in love with her, without being too demonstrative, other than being a friend to her. But he told her, almost pragmatically. lol
She was not so much "in love", though she loves him dearly.

The saturn/moon midpoint is opposed to the mercury /sun midpoint so they may have already talked about commitment or marriage ."
Yes, maybe I failed to mention, but they have been married for 12 years.

"With the sun/moon midpoint opposed to the ceres/psyche conjunction, the need to nurture each other is pronounced and his annoyance is likely superficial. "
Hmm, never experienced him annoyed, and he is just supportive of her, and vice versa. the need to nurture each other is very emphasized yes.

"Mars is sextile Pluto and trine to Neptune giving a very sensitive and healing affect to the relationship. "
Yes. For both this is the case.

posted October 01, 2016 12:16 PM            

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Originally posted by Faith:
Pardon my intrusion but Ceri, you must've known I was going to....

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posted October 01, 2016 12:22 PM            

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and to some more romantic souls might feel a bit devoid of passion or eroticism really, I think what people nowadays call passion relaly is that erotic sexual vibe.

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Does she tell you that, or is it just how they appear to you?

I don't mean to sound challenging, I'm just curious.

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He was simply completely in love with her

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posted October 01, 2016 01:56 PM            

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Originally posted by Faith:
Thanks Ceri.

I feel like I know him personally. LOL

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Haha, I wonder why that would be!

As for your question - and not fair you edited before I finished reading- both actually. They are not demonstrative around each other, but she also told me that she doesn`t have these "in love" feelings for him and is not what most people would call passionate about him; nevertheless he is such a core part of her life.

It`s just not what people expect. To be honest my parents are a tenfold more affectionate and demonstrative with each other, still you can feel that my friends love each other deeply, in a way that some consider boring, cause it feels so much like, I donīt know, natural? Like something that just is, so you donīt really think about it much?

However, nevertheless they must have a good thing going, 4 kids is all I am saying!
But actually every single one of their kids was being planned, and well I donīt thin I should talk too much about it.

I mean probably it also comes down to how we define: being passionate and in love.

But if we are looking for butterflies, weak knees, the "you complete me" sorta thing, or the "I`ve got to touch you or I will die/ get crazy etc" then we need to look elsewhere, not here in this relationship.

posted October 01, 2016 02:02 PM            

Why were my ex and I like that then?

Maybe more soulful with the Taurus moon/Pisces moon combination.

My sun possibly on his sun/moon midpoint, completing a grand earth trine by sign.

posted October 01, 2016 02:09 PM            

I'm feeling messy over this, maybe it's my chest cold and lack of mobility because of it.

But I'm really sensitive to the idea that any of that could have been...delusion on my part.

posted October 01, 2016 02:18 PM            

Still she sais she never was "in love" with him, but it could be that she has a different notion of what that means than other people do. lol

As for you and your exsoulmate, there maybe comes something else into play, maybe the Moon is that important, or the angles are, I don`t know. Or midpoints.

posted October 01, 2016 02:39 PM            

No time for rehashing old stuff.

I don't mean to keep you here, talking.

posted October 01, 2016 04:38 PM            

I'm being melodramatic, self-pitying, and maudlin.

Big difference.

You have a point though....

posted October 01, 2016 05:22 PM            

So it`s not just you, it`s in the air.
Curiously enough yesterday I have been thinking about her mother as well, with that kind of disbelief you know?

So count us in to the melancholic sad feelings.
especially her of course.

LIving the same composite twice?
So did you feel the same for the other?
No of course you didnT. Did you?

posted October 01, 2016 05:30 PM            

Yeah something in the air.

Sorry your friend is sad ......

I'm not satisfied with a chest cold, why not just go for broke and get pneumonia? I can't stand being in the house and want to walk out in the cold & dreary.

So....Wuthering Heights of me...

posted October 01, 2016 09:34 PM            

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Originally posted by Ceridwen:
oh yeah, I hear you.
My friend was inclined to the great primal fears as well (in her case revolving around dying soon and in worst case scenario at the same time as her husband, leaving 4 kids - I think I could calm her a bit, but of course those fears are real, no matter how unlikely and unfounded - though we know that in some rare cases unfortunately worst case scenarios do happen. But not this time!
Well Tr Pluto is once again closing on squarin her Moon, and with Tr Moon today on her n Pluto-MErcury-Venus-Mars and later opposng her Tr Moon, not a cheerful day either.

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I feel bad for her. I think her transit is worse than mine! Tr Pluto square moon and her mother died.

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Originally posted by Ceridwen:
Tr Pluto to the luminaries is never a lightweight.
Funny enough I just realize that P1 slid into my life when Tr Pluto was squaring my Moon and P/Mr Sag was doing so when Tr Pluto was conjunct my Sun. lol

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I don't want to sound overconfident because I'm not out of the woods yet.....

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Coming up....

I will hog your thread even more with another story, about Virgo #2.

But it could be interesting, to show the patterns...like what do these similar composites all have in common?