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Topic: Can anyone figure out this synastry for me?
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Libracorn Knowflake Posts: 331 From: Born in Saturn, grew up in Venus Registered: Sep 2013
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posted October 03, 2016 06:33 PM
So I used to be really close friends with this person, but we fell off after graduating from high school. But we now attend them same college. We do not talk to each other (as a matter of fact we will literally walk past each other like we've never met) but from time to time, he'll see me on campus and he'll stare. He also views my social media posts quite often but I won't view his. I don't understand the message he's trying to deliver to me.His Moon sextiles my Neptune exact and sometimes I can feel what he's thinking, so I may have an idea. Synastry (I'm on the outside):
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Randall Webmaster Posts: 70550 From: Saturn next to Charmaine Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 04, 2016 11:25 AM
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LaceyLeigh Knowflake Posts: 939 From: Registered: Jul 2014
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posted October 04, 2016 07:58 PM
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athenaia Knowflake Posts: 799 From: USA Registered: May 2015
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posted October 04, 2016 08:12 PM
quote: Originally posted by LaceyLeigh: How do you know he's viewing your profile?
She might be talking about Snapchat - you can see who views your images/videos on there Why not extent the hand and say hi? As a Scorpio he's always going to be on the defensive and rely on having a pokerface on. As the Libra.. why not take a chance? Plus the composite Sun + Moon is in Scorpio so you probably have a big effect on him and intimidate him somehow. I do love that you're both born on new moons. Not only that, but your Sun/Moons are also semi-sextile to each other. I've heard that's a fated aspect in synastry.. IP: Logged |
Elysia Knowflake Posts: 2013 From: Gotham Registered: Aug 2015
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posted October 04, 2016 09:11 PM
How are you resisting that Venus-Mars conjunction? You also have a merc-NN conjunction -- wouldn't be a bad idea to reach out to him, I suppose. Also, the Venus-Jupiter and Mars-Jupiter trines are real sweet. So is the composite Moon-Jupiter. You make each other feel good. The composite seems kinda volatile, however. I don't know how to read them, but I'm guessing a square from the biggies Uranus & Neptune to comp Mercury requires you to tread carefully. i.e., if you do communicate, be clear and honest as possible. And the mars-pluto square, possibility for big blow-outs or for you guys to be at cross-purposes. The Venus-Saturn opposition receives beneficial aspects from Uranus & Neptune (if I'm seeing it right) - so if you embrace the unpredictability and slight nebulousness, it might help you get things "off the ground" - which is usually an issue with Saturn oppositions/squares in the composite. @athenia, Yeah.. semi-sextile signs have a lot to learn from each other. Might be a bit of a staccato process though : like, one step forward, then a tentative pause. Another step forward, exhale. There might not be a "flow" like the more harmonious aspects, but these mini-stages of relating keep people coming back for more. IP: Logged |
Libracorn Knowflake Posts: 331 From: Born in Saturn, grew up in Venus Registered: Sep 2013
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posted October 04, 2016 09:29 PM
quote: Originally posted by athenaia: She might be talking about Snapchat - you can see who views your images/videos on there Why not extent the hand and say hi? As a Scorpio he's always going to be on the defensive and rely on having a pokerface on. As the Libra.. why not take a chance? Plus the composite Sun + Moon is in Scorpio so you probably have a big effect on him and intimidate him somehow. I do love that you're both born on new moons. Not only that, but your Sun/Moons are also semi-sextile to each other. I've heard that's a fated aspect in synastry..
Hey Athenaia, Yes, it's Snapchat I'm talking about. He views my posts very often especially when I post selfies (it's creepy). And I'm a little on the pokerface side too. I'm a little too stubborn to reach out to him first. But literally, it's his fault we stopped talking, but I'm scared to reach out to him first.. I was thinking about chatting him on Snapchat, but what if he doesn't respond to me? That'll suck, I think I'll go ahead and block him from that point hahahaha. And yes, we're both born on new moons which I think makes it harder for us. New Moon people are really self-sufficient and stay in their own lane, and two people like that will create a stubborn relationship. One person may want to do things their way without worry about the other's idea. And what do you mean by a fated aspect?
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Libracorn Knowflake Posts: 331 From: Born in Saturn, grew up in Venus Registered: Sep 2013
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posted October 04, 2016 09:35 PM
quote: Originally posted by Elysia: How are you resisting that Venus-Mars conjunction? You also have a merc-NN conjunction -- wouldn't be a bad idea to reach out to him, I suppose. Also, the Venus-Jupiter and Mars-Jupiter trines are real sweet. So is the composite Moon-Jupiter. You make each other feel good. The composite seems kinda volatile, however. I don't know how to read them, but I'm guessing a square from the biggies Uranus & Neptune to comp Mercury requires you to tread carefully. i.e., if you do communicate, be clear and honest as possible. And the mars-pluto square, possibility for big blow-outs or for you guys to be at cross-purposes. The Venus-Saturn opposition receives beneficial aspects from Uranus & Neptune (if I'm seeing it right) - so if you embrace the unpredictability and slight nebulousness, it might help you get things "off the ground" - which is usually an issue with Saturn oppositions/squares in the composite. @athenia, Yeah.. semi-sextile signs have a lot to learn from each other. Might be a bit of a staccato process though : like, one step forward, then a tentative pause. Another step forward, exhale. There might not be a "flow" like the more harmonious aspects, but these mini-stages of relating keep people coming back for more.
Hey Elysia,
Thanks so much for your feedback 1. I'm having a really hard time resisting the Mars-Venus conjunction, I think he is too. Per reasons stated in the above post (cyberstalking me etc.). My Mars and Venus falls into his 8th house so I know it's bothering him than it's bothering me. 2. What does my Mercury-NN conj contribute to the relationship? What does it even mean? lol 3. Yes, the Venus-Jupiter was felt very often, I couldn't stay mad at him for too long etc. but I also have the Venus-Jupiter trine natally. Soooo yeah lol And yes, our composite is definitely a mess. But communication is definitely our problem right now.
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llewsacm Knowflake Posts: 558 From: Registered: Mar 2015
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posted October 04, 2016 09:54 PM
Well, what do you want out of this? What purpose would it serve to reconnect? Are you attracted to him on a romantic or sexual level or both? You said you were close friends...what does that mean? To me, close friends never go away and walk past you like they never met you. He knows you can see him looking at your snap chat posts. That's his way of trying to communicate. If it were me, I would walk up to him and tell him how ridiculous it is that we go to the same school but act like we never knew one another and see how he is doing. From his placements I think he is trying to draw that out of you. Reconnect that way if you want. But you also need to figure out what you want by reestablishing this connection. Do that first. IP: Logged |
Libracorn Knowflake Posts: 331 From: Born in Saturn, grew up in Venus Registered: Sep 2013
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posted October 04, 2016 11:53 PM
quote: Originally posted by llewsacm: Well, what do you want out of this? What purpose would it serve to reconnect? Are you attracted to him on a romantic or sexual level or both? You said you were close friends...what does that mean? To me, close friends never go away and walk past you like they never met you. He knows you can see him looking at your snap chat posts. That's his way of trying to communicate. If it were me, I would walk up to him and tell him how ridiculous it is that we go to the same school but act like we never knew one another and see how he is doing. From his placements I think he is trying to draw that out of you. Reconnect that way if you want. But you also need to figure out what you want by reestablishing this connection. Do that first.
When I say we were close friends that means we used to hang out a lot and he would always be with me. And per above, I'm just scared I'll be shunned. But what you are saying does make sense. IP: Logged |
Elysia Knowflake Posts: 2013 From: Gotham Registered: Aug 2015
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posted October 05, 2016 03:40 PM
quote: Originally posted by Libracorn: Hey Elysia,Thanks so much for your feedback 1. I'm having a really hard time resisting the Mars-Venus conjunction, I think he is too. Per reasons stated in the above post (cyberstalking me etc.). My Mars and Venus falls into his 8th house so I know it's bothering him than it's bothering me. 2. What does my Mercury-NN conj contribute to the relationship? What does it even mean? lol 3. Yes, the Venus-Jupiter was felt very often, I couldn't stay mad at him for too long etc. but I also have the Venus-Jupiter trine natally. Soooo yeah lol And yes, our composite is definitely a mess. But communication is definitely our problem right now.
I meant your Merc-NN conjunction falling on his NN. Things conjuncting/squaring the NN in synastry show important lessons in your life paths. NN is also a pointer to the direction in which one is headed, so your mutual growth is intertwined with *your* mercury.. at least that's how I think it all ties together.. IP: Logged |
LaceyLeigh Knowflake Posts: 939 From: Registered: Jul 2014
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posted October 05, 2016 05:22 PM
Thanks for the clarification, Libra. I don't have a snapchat, so I was a bit confused. Lol.I see your Sun conjuncts his Venus. Which seems fitting, even after separating from each other, he still seems to admire/hold a torch for you. IP: Logged |
Libracorn Knowflake Posts: 331 From: Born in Saturn, grew up in Venus Registered: Sep 2013
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posted October 05, 2016 06:08 PM
quote: Originally posted by Elysia: I meant your Merc-NN conjunction falling on his NN. Things conjuncting/squaring the NN in synastry show important lessons in your life paths. NN is also a pointer to the direction in which one is headed, so your mutual growth is intertwined with *your* mercury.. at least that's how I think it all ties together..
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Libracorn Knowflake Posts: 331 From: Born in Saturn, grew up in Venus Registered: Sep 2013
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posted October 05, 2016 06:09 PM
quote: Originally posted by LaceyLeigh: Thanks for the clarification, Libra. I don't have a snapchat, so I was a bit confused. Lol.I see your Sun conjuncts his Venus. Which seems fitting, even after separating from each other, he still seems to admire/hold a torch for you.
It's okay, I understand lol and yeah, I've realized in any positive Sun/Venus aspect the Venus admires the Sun very greatly.
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