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Selene
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posted October 08, 2016 11:10 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Selene     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I looked through the charts and found one thing that particularly took my interest right now.

In my relationship with R, we feel totally 'home' with each other. Our emotional needs are well met. He somehow manages to satisfy my Leo Moon for what it wants - being in his center of attention, giving me compliments, we can act childish sometimes and it's so great. He lacks Fire in his chart - no planet or even point. Zilch. Nada.
His Moon is in Cancer. And i satisfy his emotional needs very well, he has said that to me that he feels at home with me and that he feels especially close to me emotionally. I always care for him and make sure he's ok and we don't shy out to show our affections to each other, bonding both physically and emotionally. I haven't had such a high level of intimacy with anyone else before. I have only Pluto in Scorpio, nothing else in Water. So what gives? (My Pluto trines his Moon, though, and his Pluto squares mine).

What could be the reason we compensate for each others lack of element?

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Randall
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posted October 09, 2016 04:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Bump!

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Starry~*
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posted October 11, 2016 04:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Starry~*     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi Selene, I think you're on to something! I guess a good "balance" would be attracting those who have qualities that you lack..you can definitely learn something from them.

I've also noticed that ALL of my previous BFs were very earthy. I had 3 of them with mars/venus or one of them in Cap. They also have very active saturn in their chart. I, on the other hand, lack earth. I need that stability in my life, and I get into a serious commitment with all these earthy guys.

Another weird topic -- all of them were AIR VOID..or lacking planets in AIR elements. Me? I'm loaded with Sun/Moon/Mars in Libra. They needed to learn to be a bit more lighthearted...or learn to see things more objectively. What they needed was a breath of fresh air in their lives - pun intended.

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