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Topic: Venus square Saturn from Daddy's perspective
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Aunt Anomalia
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posted October 24, 2016 11:28 AM
  
If you are Saturn in this aspect, how do you think it affects/affected you? I'm interested in all kinds of relationships.Are there any other hard aspects to your Saturn in that synastry? ------------------
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Orange
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posted October 24, 2016 01:21 PM
I am interested to hear about that too, as I am apparently the child here being the Venus in our Saturn-Venus conjunction.
I have to admit that "daddy" reference has been used numerous times, yes.ok, I guess we gotta sit back and wait on some daddy to come and chime in. meanwhile, you can ask about how Venus feels, to kill some time... IP: Logged |
Aunt Anomalia
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posted October 24, 2016 01:53 PM
"you can ask about how Venus feels"
$hitty, duh  ------------------
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Orange
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posted October 24, 2016 01:57 PM
i hope Satty will come in this thread and chime in and lets hope they feel $hitty too. Its only fair. IP: Logged |
LaceyLeigh
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posted October 24, 2016 04:50 PM
I have this aspect with my mom. She definitely comes off as very child-like. I have to frequently remind her that she needs to wash her hands, clip her fingernails, get in the shower, flush the toilet, etc. She doesn't listen, but I do it anyway. My Saturn also opposes her mars and squares her Mercury. She constantly complains about how I hate her, and that I act like I'm repulsed by her. I was very close to her growing up, but as we grow older, I can feel myself repelling away from her. I do believe that the Mars/Saturn opposition has a lot to do with this. I have the square with my oldest sister, as well - same signs - and I actually really enjoy being around her. I'm not that close to her, but she's 20 years older than I am, so we never had the chance to bond like most sisters do.
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florence
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posted October 24, 2016 05:59 PM
I hate being Saturn. I don't want to dampen anyone or limit them .. It's a fear of mine to be in that role because I associate that curtailing with being unloved. how I've seen it play out in my case .. I desperately want to be loving and show love but saturns like an iron gate that comes down in fear. It's basically been a surrogate for my natal Venus-Saturn square aspect.Anyway, I've not thought of the other as childish but I have felt all the responsibility - to make it happen, to prevent it ending, to repair myself, to understand etc etc I've been Venus and that was so hard. I don't think it's harder for Saturn. However saturns a role I'm not comfortable being in. IP: Logged |
Aunt Anomalia
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posted October 31, 2016 03:31 PM
Thanks for sharing. Anyone else?------------------
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EmGem
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posted October 31, 2016 08:13 PM
What if it's a DW? 😐
It's early stages so I can't tell yet how it feels. But I'm a little worried...IP: Logged |
ChildofVenus
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posted October 31, 2016 08:16 PM
Why are you worried?
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Originally posted by EmGem:
What if it's a DW? 😐
It's early stages so I can't tell yet how it feels. But I'm a little worried...
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EmGem
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posted October 31, 2016 09:29 PM
^^ saturn restricting the love venus tries to show. halting that free flowing love. But only that it would be coming from BOTH people. maybe not allowing something to properly manifest. IP: Logged |
12muddy
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posted November 01, 2016 08:01 AM
Nothing much. I have cap saturn, square two of my friends' aries venus, square some friends' libra venus, oppose others' cancer venus, conj some's cap venus. On top of my head, one of these people have a stellium of aries square my saturn/venus/asc. Two other have libra stellium squaring my placements... There are more, but these three are the ones I can remember atm. We argue and disagree on things sometimes. Same with other friends who don't have saturn square venus/other placements with me. Oh, actually I have never argued, or raised my voice, or had any kind of conflict with one of the two aries venus I mentioned above. We've been friends since childhood. Sometimes they tell me when they make a mess. But usually it's not that big of a deal, and they learn from their mistakes. As far as I know, none has ever done anything "bad" in my book. I don't even get involved, unless they want me to. The only thing "saturn" about it, is that they come to me for help and see me as a reliable friend. They seek me and I answer. , I I looked up on the internet about this aspect and how it may feel to the saturn person. I can't relate to the descriptions I found. IP: Logged |
ChildofVenus
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posted November 01, 2016 09:21 AM
Is the Saturn person ALWAYS like this? It's not as bad if the two people have Venus/Saturn aspects in their natal chart as well.
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Originally posted by EmGem:
^^ saturn restricting the love venus tries to show. halting that free flowing love. But only that it would be coming from BOTH people. maybe not allowing something to properly manifest.
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girlwiththerainysoul
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posted November 01, 2016 10:30 AM
oh I was daddy once  It was a good, productive and beautiful relationship but I knew that I eventually found him too shallow and childish. he has natal pluto and saturn in scorpio in his 1st house, and in no way he comes off like this in society, but I think that when it came to his interactions with me, my saturn really brought out his venus's childish sides. it still took quite some time for him to show this, but eventually he became this spoiled schoolboy who did nothing but giggle when I was trying to have a conversation with him! after the breakup which happened 3 and a half years ago, he has remained single since. I wonder if this is the longevity of saturn hovering over. or it could simply be his taurus venus refusing to let go. the only other stressful aspect his planets made to my saturn, is his pluto square my saturn by 5 degrees. also, my saturn squares his venus by 3 degrees.
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ChildofVenus
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posted November 01, 2016 08:21 PM
So what if the Venus person is a lot older than the Saturn person. And the Saturn person is a female and the Venus is a male? Is she still referred to as "daddy"?IP: Logged |
apollo6284
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posted November 01, 2016 09:48 PM
I have this aspect with my mother with me being the Venus. To sum it up, it's not a pretty relationship  For her, I seem to appear as irresponsible and too childish for my age. Well, that, but I AM her child lol! IP: Logged |
ChildofVenus
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posted November 01, 2016 10:22 PM
I have this aspect with someone and I'm Saturn. I use to think the guy was childish and certain things he did got on my nerves. It still does sometimes but I've decided to just accept him and just try to overlook certain things. IP: Logged |
EmGem
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posted November 02, 2016 03:00 AM
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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
Is the Saturn person ALWAYS like this? It's not as bad if the two people have Venus/Saturn aspects in their natal chart as well.
i think so. try warming up to an ice block lol. but if you have it natally then maybe its not such a full on energy and you'd be used to it. IP: Logged |
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