posted November 02, 2016 03:44 PM            

they have nice sun sun sextile and moon sun trine but his venus makes squares to her moon and mercury

his north node conjunct her venus at 4 degree does this count?
what would you say about this synastry is this a fated connection?
she thinks it is and she knows i put it on the forum i put the orbs very wide
hope anybody can tell me a little bit

posted November 02, 2016 04:52 PM            

it's only my intution i can't really expain why i'm mistrustful ( i have neptune in 9th house my intution always is very strong )
he das gemini ac and venus in his first house this is one point who made me careful cause venus in gemini is very flirty flattery and can change lovers often (i don't want to stereotype this placement but in worst case it could be) also his venus mars trine can show he is a little bit a player
also venus opposite saturn can show some troubles with women
an mars square pluto can show some aggressive behavior physically or psychologically

she has a pisces sun and venus
her mars is in saggitarius and moon in virgo

we don't know her exact birth time
but she is very dreamy and creative person

posted November 02, 2016 07:31 PM            

thank you so much for your help

posted November 02, 2016 08:48 PM            

When we have a relatively 'soft' and flowing synastry between two people, but one of those people has a rather harsh natal chart, as this person does (Mars Pluto is not a walk in the park), the composite/Davison charts do reflect the underlying incongruity between the nicey-nice synastry and the rather tumultuous inner/secret world of the party with the really rough birth chart.

I haven't seen your friend's chart (I should have asked for it).

The potential in this kind of situation is that she will get along with him really well and it might take a while for the incongruity to surface in her conscious awareness. By that time she might be very involved and she might try to deny the realities which are coming forth, but once they become impossibly to ignore she might indeed get quite hurt by the revelation that this person is not entirely who he seemed to be when it was just him and her... no matter how genuine that was, and how much he likes the person he is when he's with her, the relationship itself can't be sustained on good personal chemistry. The composite reveals that there are things being kept from both parties, and they're likely to be particularly infused with energy. Now of course, there is the potential for an EXTREMELY spiritual relationship here, but the amount of focus on unconditional love, purity, and dedication to spiritual motives would have to be pretty total.

Of course this composite does resonate with his natal, if that birth time is correct, and hers (Pisces Sun, right?)... in some ways, so it will be attractive. But the hard aspect between the luminaries in opposition and Neptune do make for a high likelihood of some sort of painful and very dramatic revelation.... which could be a bridge to trascendental love, etc. (I don't want to totally deny the possibility), and yet the potential for problems is also very real.

posted November 02, 2016 08:55 PM            

The relationship has a huge amount of power and electric energy which often short circuits and isn't brought fully into the foreground; this could either alleviate issues or cause tension to bubble up in unexpected ways which are difficult to deal with (Mars quincunx Uranus, Sun quincunx Pluto).

It does look intense and romantic. But your suspicion is likely well founded.