posted November 02, 2016 05:07 PM            

To me, it says sexual attraction. Sun trine Mars, Moon trine Mars, Mars trine Mars... but then there is Sun trine Moon, and Saturn on DSC and Saturn on SN. My Saturn to his Mercury, his Saturn to my Sun and ASC. A lot of Saturn. This is glue. His Venus in my 5th house, and his Sun and Mars in my 6th. (Not romantic, but something I am fond of given my heavy 10th in Virgo focus. The other thing I saw was that our Valentines are trine.

I see the Moons are not connected, and our Venus' are inconjunct. So while not unaspected, they are not getting major aspects. I think there is a Pluto trine Moon, but I don't know his birth time. I suppose his Moon is inconjunct my Venus too. I have narrowed it down a little because this man is an extrovert, and many of the other times have him fall below the equator of the chart. That doesn't fit with my view of him. But, regardless, disregard his ASC and exact moon degree. His moon is between 6 and 17 Aqua, but I really feel it is close to the middle.

So, can anyone else give me their thoughts? Thanks!

his chart:

posted November 05, 2016 04:31 PM            

Together we had a ton of energy. We talked nonstop and we had so many derailed conversations because we would start talking about one thing and it would organically change into something entirely different. We don't really share the same interests (def Venus issues) but it was still fun just to talk and hang out. In fact, we are quite opposite in thoughts, but yet similar in expression of thoughts. This has to be the mars mars trine, and the moon and sun trines to mars as well. All this compatible energy despite not liking similar things.

Interestingly, I am not quite sure what to think. I am so used to expecting that immediate spark to indicate romantic interest or something that tells me this is relationship quality, that I don't know what it is like to just have something that starts nice but allows room for growth. I like him, we had fun, I would be interested in going out again. But there was not an instant connection. But, then again, every time I have had that instant connection spark, it has always ended, never permanent. Maybe seeing where this goes is worthwhile? I think if it didn't turn romantic later that we would definitely be friends.

Never had venus in my 5th, and thats supposed to be something. But I have always liked something in my 8th, ruled by Taurus/Venus, and he's not really hitting my Venus strongly.

posted November 06, 2016 06:58 AM            

Nodes are also on your asc/dsc axis.

posted November 06, 2016 04:07 PM            

You're right. But I read the description for venus in 4th and it doesn't entirely fit. I had a hard time imagining him in a setting with my family. I like him, but from the date he doesn't come across as someone I would be interested in. And he definitely doesn't appear to be someone who would mesh with my family.

But I have always had relationships that started with intense attraction. So maybe this is something that builds?

I just was astounded by all the Saturn and Mars action. I do feel very comfortable around him, but I wasn't overwhelmingly drawn or attracted to him. Do I find him attractive? Yes. But I didn't spend the night thinking about kissing him.

I am wondering if all the Eros and passion aspects are translating in to action, but not necessarily sexual energy? Again, maybe it builds with time?

posted November 08, 2016 07:15 PM            

And do inconjuncts count, too?

So many wide orbs. I am not really investing in this relationship, just looking at the charts. I made the first move, but he was interested and took the lead (strongly) from there. I love to look at charts pre and post experience so I can try to learn more from them.