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Topic: Instant Connection and Depth - What do these synastry and composite say to you???
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mnm1978
Knowflake Posts: 29
From: Nashville, TN
Registered: Aug 2014
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posted November 02, 2016 10:52 PM
  
This person and I had instant chemistry. The kind that makes you look back at everyone before and say WTF was I thinking and where was this kind of person before. Hard and fast and sweet and honest and emotionally open. But we both had horrible marriages and there are fears there that were heightened by us both acknowledging we actually felt something real. We are trying round two after trying to be kind to each other (so we thought) and let the person go so we could each get what we needed. The sticking and crying point that caused this discussion was him saying through tears that he had no idea when he would ever be ready in the future to think about marriage again, while my point was I wasn't sure I could invest as much of myself as I was on someone who couldn't even conceive of considering a possible future with me. I didn't need definite, but at least something more than the words never ever. He had been talking to his mom about me and taking pictures of us together and talking to people out in public who assumed we were a family and were openly praising how good we looked together. Basically his panic about never being ready to be serious again wasn't matching up with his actions that showed he was diving headfirst into it after only a few weeks together.We spent three miserable weeks not communicating and just recently reconnected. He has changed his tune without any question from me to a more acceptable place of "I'm not worried about lengthy timelines, nor am I trying to rush into anything". But we acknowledged we are going to try again and see where it goes. Wondering what the synastry and composites say to people out there in Lindaland. Am I just spinning my wheels here, because this feels very real. And I can't figure out why it's hyperlinking the images instead of embedding them here.
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Randall
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From: Saturn next to Charmaine
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 03, 2016 01:06 PM
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mnm1978
Knowflake Posts: 29
From: Nashville, TN
Registered: Aug 2014
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posted November 05, 2016 06:57 PM
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