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Readytochill
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posted November 13, 2016 04:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Readytochill     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My boyfriend and I have our Mercuries opposite each other in synastry. When compared to our Composite, it lays on the IC/MC axis.

I have Cancer Merc on the Composite MC and he has Cap Merc on the IC. I can't figure out how that manifests.

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AwakenSky16
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posted November 14, 2016 11:48 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for AwakenSky16     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Readytochill:
My boyfriend and I have our Mercuries opposite each other in synastry. When compared to our Composite, it lays on the IC/MC axis.

I have Cancer Merc on the Composite MC and he has Cap Merc on the IC. I can't figure out how that manifests.


Ok, I am not really good, but I try to not to be left you unanswered

In synastry (but I think you Know about it...) " Mercury opposite mercury with this aspect the conscious mind opposes itself as both partners see life through a dichotomy of opposites. The relationship may achieve a balance, but the individuals may never feel truly centered. Mental harmony results when you accept a universe of opposites. If each individual can truly acknowledge and recognize the validity of the other's thought streams, then this combination can bring both to an objective consciousness. If either of the partners is too personally attached to thoughts or opinions, this opposition can be a hindrance to communication and may the partnership intolerable." (Karmic relationships, Martin Schulman)
I think your natal mercury and his on MC/IC composite show how differents are your interest in communication in your couple (MC is more social and IC more private). Where is your mercury in composit ? I will say more to you...

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Readytochill
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posted November 14, 2016 03:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Readytochill     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by AwakenSky16:
Ok, I am not really good, but I try to not to be left you unanswered

In synastry (but I think you Know about it...) " Mercury opposite mercury with this aspect the conscious mind opposes itself as both partners see life through a dichotomy of opposites. The relationship may achieve a balance, but the individuals may never feel truly centered. Mental harmony results when you accept a universe of opposites. If each individual can truly acknowledge and recognize the validity of the other's thought streams, then this combination can bring both to an objective consciousness. If either of the partners is too personally attached to thoughts or opinions, this opposition can be a hindrance to communication and may the partnership intolerable." (Karmic relationships, Martin Schulman)
I think your natal mercury and his on MC/IC composite show how differents are your interest in communication in your couple (MC is more social and IC more private). Where is your mercury in composit ? I will say more to you...


You're too kind

We both respect each other's way of communicating. He's more logical and I'm more emotional. I communicate how I feel and he tries to rationalize it and help me through it. I have found that I start to think over my emotions more. He started opening about his feelings and communicates them better.

My Cancer Mercury is 1 degree away from our Composite MC. His Cap Mercury is 2 degrees away from the IC.

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AwakenSky16
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posted November 14, 2016 03:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for AwakenSky16     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Readytochill:

My Cancer Mercury is 1 degree away from our Composite MC. His Cap Mercury is 2 degrees away from the IC.


OUPS ! Sorry the language barrier is a bit difficult sometimes for me to understand and to be understanding... I would say in fact : where is your Composit mercury (I can give you an interpretation of Robert Hand if you are interested )?

Your mercury on C.MC is certainly about "opening" (extrovert) (like MC social and your communication have the emotional caracteristics of cancer) and his mercury on C.IC is more "introverted" (like IC private/home/security and communication feel more responsive/serious like cap.). is it looking good for you ?

If you have a good and sweet communication it's certainly show some other nice aspects... and you all both work to make it well

I find an interessant link about IC/MC but it's for natal interpretation. Nevertheless, I pick up this for you, maybe you can find some caracteristics in your relationship...
Remember MC is ext. and IC is Int.

MC CANCER - IC CAPRICORN (http://marianneohagan.com)

As a child you were shy and cautious in your approach. Your parents set the example and they disciplined you, they expected you to take responsibility and trusted you to do things correctly. You may have had fears of failing your parents; you wanted to please them in order to gain approval. You could have blamed yourself when family conflicts arose, with a tendency to withdraw. Family conflicts may have played on your feelings of inner control and security. Recognition was hard to gain in many areas due to family disciplines and standards. You may have felt distanced from some family members; perhaps you had little contact with cousins or relatives. Family disciplines were exercised through family business and/or family burdens. Your mother was very important to you but you may have felt your emotional needs were not met. You could have felt distanced from a parent who was either absent or worked very hard. You may have longed for the care and support of family involvement, but instead you may have felt an inner sense of isolation. You respected your parents, and you were disciplined – incorrect behaviour met with disapproval. You may have felt that others were recognised ahead of you; or that others could express themselves better than you; maybe if you expressed yourself, you would not be approved of; providing you were good, you were safe – this could have affected your 'self-esteem'. Your parents encouraged you to be self-supporting and encouraged you to work at a young age; the work provided may have been organised through your family. The world is your family but public concerns can dominate your private life and you can concern yourself over other people's positions and values. Your approach to other people is one of consideration and welfare. You understand the need for basic support and security and you care about the emotional needs of other people. You try to guide others towards their own security by giving them the tools to use in that which they are aiming for. By helping them you feel inwardly fulfilled. Your feelings run deep and you want to 'make things better' for the people who approach you in order to reduce their anxieties and uncertainties. You will try to help them get what they want, to make their lives more comfortable. You feel good about yourself when you help other people find their own security.

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