posted November 17, 2016 07:08 AM            

neither his sun nor moon are aspecting your moon. your sun neither.

no 7th house connections.

this isn't a strong synastry I'm afraid.

posted November 17, 2016 10:00 AM            

'My honest intuitive advice ( not just from the composite) is that if you are asking if you should end it, deep in your soul you have already ended it, and you know the answer . Think about it ( no judgement I've been where you are ).
The very best composites and synastries do not guarantee a good relationship. And the worst ones often endure! So while Astrology is very helpful in identifying patterns, it's not the end all be all. You need to trust what you FEEL.

posted November 24, 2016 11:59 AM            

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Originally posted by jadave:
Its a hard thing for me to understand, because I've learned not to possess and let one be free to live.
Its hard for me to understand what love is.

Only thing I know is, you must love yourself to love.

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posted November 28, 2016 03:34 PM            

I just don't understand why I do love him so much. I feel that he loves me too. Its unspoken. Different than other relationships. Maybe its neptune and a little Pluto?

posted December 16, 2016 07:58 AM            

Curious to how both indiviudials may be effected by the synastry? It states above that the synastry is not very strong? Would one feel more pull to stay together?

posted December 16, 2016 01:48 PM            

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Originally posted by jadave:
I feel like he cheats and is always gone, but at the same time I accept him for who he is. In my mind i rationalize by understanding we all have "issues to work out" within oneself. Its a hard thing for me to understand, because I've learned not to possess and let one be free to live.
Its hard for me to understand what love is.

Only thing I know is, you must love yourself to love.

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This here is one of the reasons as to why Sun-sign compatibility can never be underrated.

Is the tob for both of you accurate?As this is an assessment based on placements alone. And not on the houses.

Gemini and Cancer are looking for differing things in love. Gemini for novelty whilst Cancer for affection.

It is easy for Gemini to feel suffocated by Cancer's constant need for emotional connection and likewise for Cancer to feel insecure due to Gemini's more frivolous and hot/cold approach to them.

Unless you have Gemini placements, which you don't. I would have to say that would have you understand him better.

I really wish that Cancer was on his Venus or Moon and not on Mars. For it would bond him to you. Taurus on Venus is little comfort to your very emotional Sun/Moon combo.

You are very intense for him and you could feel your emotional needs not met. And he can come across very frivolous and inconsistent.

Should you leave him? Would there be ease or a load off your shoulders if you did? That only you can decide.

posted December 16, 2016 03:39 PM            

Following the ideology of composite gender assignments, you can say the Moon is the "female" and Mars is the "male." Both are well integrated into this composite as are the rest of the planets. Meaning there likely is a very strong bond here, for better or for worse. A strong bond doesn't necessarily make for a loving relationship however, but definitely impacts both individuals on some level and makes for a "memorable" encounter with that person. Hence why you feel as though you both truly love each other (Sun/Venus) but are struggling to get it together.

posted December 17, 2016 07:22 PM            

Our Draco moons oppose
My Draco sun conjunct his natal sun

How would that relate for sun-moon contacts

posted December 23, 2016 10:33 PM            

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Originally posted by jadave:
I feel like he cheats and is always gone,

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posted December 24, 2016 12:13 AM            

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Originally posted by cottonball:
Funny you should say that cause the first thing I noticed is Mars opposite Neptune. Also Natally he has the opposition too. And Moon opposite Uranus, he might have difficulty committing. Nothing is confirmed though. Maybe he's just very slippery and likes to hide away once in a while.

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I couldn't agree more.

Mercury/Mars opposite Neptune can be very distrusting (although the good side they are imaginative). Cancer mars can be sneaky and Cancer mercury can be not so honest especially if afflicted and in this case from the Neptune.

Is the DOB right? If it is, then I think the way you both are in the relationship is because he is an 8th house person and you have moon in scorpio. The familiarity of energy.

But for a long term satisfaction (which means there's nothing like "something is missing" feelings in the long run of the relationship), yes, you need sun/moon connection or moon/moon or moon/asc. Hard aspect or soft aspect. I don't know if a minor aspect can be counted.