posted November 25, 2016 01:20 PM            

And the composite, just in case

posted November 25, 2016 04:47 PM            

It's actually posted above , I added some asteroids as I found out some other asteroids since the original post.

posted November 26, 2016 12:16 PM            

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Originally posted by DreamCatcher:
Thank you

It's actually posted above , I added some asteroids as I found out some other asteroids since the original post.

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posted November 26, 2016 12:30 PM            

While it doesn't have 'the lock' (5/8 overlay), it DOES have enough activity directed into both, AND a MOON-MARS conjunction, which is 99% of the time, a sign of an attraction. Honestly, from the MARS side. You mean he's not pursuing you at ALL? Not even 'playing games' ?

I especially like the VALENTINE conjunct VALENTINE across your DSC and his 9H, and the AMOR-AMOR, across the 12H and, this time, your 9H. Very spiritual.

I am noticing one VERY big thing, however, which is no minor detail.

Your PLUTO on his MOON. Now, as the PLUTO in a PLUTO-MOON opposition, I can say that we definitely 'feel something'! and it's unfair to claim we ALWAYS have 'the upper hand' -- even if we do.

But this calls for extreme emotional honesty. Your relationship isn't likely to GET anywhere without 100% emotional honesty. That's JUST what PLUTO-MOON demands, and the conjunction can be TOO intense for MOON if they haven't reached a particular level within themselves.

The wide SATURN-PLUTO is another interesting conjunction. Across the 5/DSC, this could be sublimated into sex, or even playful banter, but note that it's an intense influence that belies deep power struggles. PLUTO may feel as if it can never please SATURN, and SATURN is always waiting for PLUTO to just 'listen to him already, because he's wiser / older / stronger' etc.

posted November 26, 2016 03:27 PM            

Thank you so much ! Yes I feel the "games" might have started. Here's the thing: what you say about emotional honesty?? So true! I called him and left a message for "professional" reasons. That was two weeks ago and he has not returned my call, which I am upset about because my intention with that call was to open up the lines of communication to get to the crux of this attraction. It feels very Fated and deep, and psychically I know he feels it. He's commented on the connection but in a very indirect way, seems like he's feeling me out .

Of course right when I , Pluto, decide it's time to be real and upfront about my feelings ( without scaring him away ) he does not respond.

I look at this as rejection. So the only way I see him is professionally. And at this time there's not reason to communicate.

He is older than me, but that does not mean he's ready for the intensity this "connection" can bring. I just find it sad and hard to fathom that after the way we connect mentally and how strong the physical attraction feels ( I want to rip his clothes off but have maintained my composure) I wonder : does he feel that too??? Then why doesn't he pursue or at lease respond??

So basically- this seems like a hot affair at best with some level of deep connection ?

I'm scared to reach out again, yet scared to let go......

posted November 26, 2016 11:32 PM            

And sorry to bug you but me being pluto , Im' completely obsessing. I've been thinking of writing him an email since I don't have the opportunity to see him right now....I don't know if I should do that.....it wound't be too heavy, something along the lines of "I know you commented that you feel a strong connection to me and I didn't say much in return. Truth is, I've got XYZ going on and didn;t how to tell you that at the time as I was caught off guard. Just do know that I feel quite a connection to you as well, and that we are "supposed" to connect in some way"..

Would that scare the pants off him , with him being the moon and the man? Should I leave this alone? Man- I wish I could get him off my mind! It feels pointless

posted November 28, 2016 01:22 PM            

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As a Pluto in a Pluto opposite Sun-Mercury, sextile Moon, quincunx Venus situation, I want to chime in and say that if you act on everything you're thinking of in these posts, then he might feel like you're pressuring him too much. There might be a connection that deep, but remember that since you're Pluto, you will be the one pressing for intensity.

Depending on what kind of person he is, you might be able to send him that message and get a desired response, OR he might be the type to mistrust your forwardness (especially since he has those Cap placements), see them as out of control, and run away. Even if you are not that intense, you should guard against coming off that way because you are Pluto, after all. He might think you're trying to force him to respond emotionally.

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posted November 28, 2016 03:29 PM            

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Originally posted by DreamCatcher:
Thanks for your comments Selenite!! I think that I fear scaring him off as well. So what you are saying makes sense. With me as the Pluto, I guess I can overwhelm but I've been trying REALLY hard to play it cool up until this point....I have not said or done much. In fact, he has in a round-about way referenced the strength of the connection he feels to me, but he's not being 100% direct and I kind of clammed up and did not really respond. SO I have some regrets. I reached out "lightly" since then ,and he never responded . I don't get it...I guess since I'm Pluto , I feel so obsessive about it....you think he is feeling it??

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posted December 07, 2016 11:16 AM            

Now I`m not too good at interpretations yet, so someone else might look into this.. but from my feeling it describes the following situation:

The 2nd house, among other things, also stands for sexual intercourse in a physical sense. whereas the 8th house describes sex in a very intimate almost soulful way. with your c-neptune there, it might be that your initial reaction towards each other is so spiritual that your sexual attraction stays on that metaphysical level. You do both feel the attraction, but it`s hard to act on it.

So if you happen to actually form a relationship with each other, your purpose would be to bring your sexuallity "down to earth." Having sex (especially with mars on the nn) in a very physical way, concentrating on the body and everything that goes with it. Experiencing sex almost in an innocent, simple, direct way. No innuendoes. No hidden agendas. The direct, primal, honest approach. You actually find that same theme in your moon conj his mars/nn conjunction.

And since your planet aspects his NN, it`s mostly the NN person who`s hesitant to formalize the personal contact. Depending on how far along he is on his NN journey, there`s always some reluctance involved.

now aside from astrology .. have you ever thought about him being maybe already involved with someone else? is there another person in the picture.. this could also explain his hesitation..

posted December 07, 2016 08:55 PM            

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Originally posted by ana_bee:
sorry to bust in, but I`ve noticed your composite NN in 2nd house conj mars. and you have composite neptune in 8th house opposite mars.

Now I`m not too good at interpretations yet, so someone else might look into this.. but from my feeling it describes the following situation:

The 2nd house, among other things, also stands for sexual intercourse in a physical sense. whereas the 8th house describes sex in a very intimate almost soulful way. with your c-neptune there, it might be that your initial reaction towards each other is so spiritual that your sexual attraction stays on that metaphysical level. You do both feel the attraction, but it`s hard to act on it.

So if you happen to actually form a relationship with each other, your purpose would be to bring your sexuallity "down to earth." Having sex (especially with mars on the nn) in a very physical way, concentrating on the body and everything that goes with it. Experiencing sex almost in an innocent, simple, direct way. No innuendoes. No hidden agendas. The direct, primal, honest approach. You actually find that same theme in your moon conj his mars/nn conjunction.

And since your planet aspects his NN, it`s mostly the NN person who`s hesitant to formalize the personal contact. Depending on how far along he is on his NN journey, there`s always some reluctance involved.

now aside from astrology .. have you ever thought about him being maybe already involved with someone else? is there another person in the picture.. this could also explain his hesitation..

Good luck!

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Thanks Ana! From what he said, he was single, BUT truth be told I'm not sure I believe that....

I always thought NN was where we are headed and South Node was the hesitation? Is that wrong?

I can definitely see what you are saying about the spiritual component and bringing it down to earth. Makes a TON of sense. Thank you!