Lindaland
  Interpersonal Astrology
  This girl is starting trouble at work with me..can we get along??

Post New Topic  Post A Reply
profile | register | preferences | faq

UBBFriend: Email This Page to Someone! next newest topic | next oldest topic
Author Topic:   This girl is starting trouble at work with me..can we get along??
ScorpieScorp
Knowflake

Posts: 760
From: USA
Registered: Aug 2013

posted November 25, 2016 10:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ScorpieScorp     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi,

Started a new job a few months ago, and this girl has been feeling threatened by me--DESPITE the fact I have done nothing to make her feel that way.

She is trying to now make "nice" with me, but I just don't trust her now (long story, she is WAY insecure)...

Can you see any light at the end of the tunnel (since we HAVE to work together and she is well established at the company)...(ignore all the Cupido stuff, it was still there from another reading I did with a co-worker who I am attracted to.. )

Help!

Don't know her birth time...I'm on the outside..She's the first person on the aspects chart...

IP: Logged

Randall
Webmaster

Posts: 72855
From: From a galaxy, far, far away...
Registered: Apr 2009

posted November 26, 2016 09:36 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Bump!

IP: Logged

ScorpieScorp
Knowflake

Posts: 760
From: USA
Registered: Aug 2013

posted November 28, 2016 07:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ScorpieScorp     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yes, No?

IP: Logged

polkadotstars
Knowflake

Posts: 842
From:
Registered: Feb 2015

posted November 28, 2016 07:37 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for polkadotstars     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Eek- Her Mars on your Moon :-/

IP: Logged

llewsacm
Knowflake

Posts: 657
From:
Registered: Mar 2015

posted November 28, 2016 10:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for llewsacm     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yeah, but it is in Libra so the coworker is concerned about equality/fairness. If she views any interactions in the workplace that are unjust, shes going to come out and say something about it. There should be some understanding of that nature with your moon there as well. Maybe she's trying to grab your attention somehow with the things she feels at unjust at the office.

IP: Logged

llewsacm
Knowflake

Posts: 657
From:
Registered: Mar 2015

posted November 28, 2016 10:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for llewsacm     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sometimes she says things and then kicks herself for it. I mean she beats herself up for it, but no one else really understands why. She's hard on herself this way.

IP: Logged

ScorpieScorp
Knowflake

Posts: 760
From: USA
Registered: Aug 2013

posted November 29, 2016 01:26 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ScorpieScorp     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by llewsacm:
Sometimes she says things and then kicks herself for it. I mean she beats herself up for it, but no one else really understands why. She's hard on herself this way.

What aspects show that?

What else can you tell me about how to work with her best/ how she will react in general?

IP: Logged

llewsacm
Knowflake

Posts: 657
From:
Registered: Mar 2015

posted November 29, 2016 11:18 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for llewsacm     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Merc/saturn. Is she in a leadership position? If not, that's what she's probably after with her sun/pluto conj. Your mars may be irritating for her.

IP: Logged

ScorpieScorp
Knowflake

Posts: 760
From: USA
Registered: Aug 2013

posted November 30, 2016 01:19 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ScorpieScorp     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have Mercury Sq Saturn...so what about that?

IP: Logged

llewsacm
Knowflake

Posts: 657
From:
Registered: Mar 2015

posted November 30, 2016 07:55 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for llewsacm     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Well, how do you think it influences you? I think that's a question you need to ask yourself. That would make your Saturn square her mercury as well so its worthwhile to explore how that natal square integrates into your daily life.

IP: Logged

ScorpieScorp
Knowflake

Posts: 760
From: USA
Registered: Aug 2013

posted December 02, 2016 05:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ScorpieScorp     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by llewsacm:
Merc/saturn. Is she in a leadership position? If not, that's what she's probably after with her sun/pluto conj. Your mars may be irritating for her.

She's not, but has been there for a while and is doing quite well. But she seems to have a constant chip on her shoulder, extremely negative, always complaining. Wants people to think she's a big deal.

I think I came in and shattered some glass--so she saw me as a threat but also a potential ally.

Either way, I avoid her--I hear she is drama.

But I see we have Pluto aspects--makes me wonder if this is fated and I have to deal with her.

IP: Logged

All times are Eastern Standard Time

next newest topic | next oldest topic

Administrative Options: Close Topic | Archive/Move | Delete Topic
Post New Topic  Post A Reply
Hop to:

Contact Us | Linda-Goodman.com

Copyright 2000-2016

Powered by Infopop www.infopop.com © 2000
Ultimate Bulletin Board 5.46a