posted December 03, 2016 07:47 AM            

On the basis of my last blog article on the matter, I would like for us to decipher together what happened in your relationships where you experienced a touch of undying sexual chemistry (relationships that take over 5 years of living together as a couple) or other kinds of experiences/relationships when you think you experienced this "fire" or are experiencing right now. If you are interested in taking such a look at your charts, please post the synastry.

This is the article:

"Long-Lasting sexual attraction in synastry - basic checklist

General rules:

- More than one of the sexual aspects and at least a DW (double whammy), simple or combined.
- Mutuality

Number one aspect: Venus/Mars in DW or in combination with another erotic aspect (combined DW). *for example, Venus/Mars, Mars/Moon

Sexual aspects:

1. All Mars, in order, to: Venus, Moon, Pluto, Jupiter, Neptune, Saturn, Uranus, Sun, Mercury; from both sides, both Marses aspected like this.

2. Mars to an angle, especially ASC

3. Pluto aspects

More than two-three of these; the DWs/combinations should contain hard + soft, and soft aspects, at least a trine, a sextile, should be there, for longevity; especially the trine, the most longeval aspect; for example, a Venus/Mars, Venus/Pluto, Mars/Pluto trine does a great deal with this. But balance between hard and soft in the sexual part of the synastry is the most important thing: too much soft leads to boredom followed by separation, too much hard to intensity followed by separation.

4. 8th rulers in aspect or combinations with 8th/5th. 8th/5th overlays.

5. Also, 2nd house rulers or 2nd house overlays

6. Saturn and/or Pluto in some sort of connection to sexuality in synastry/composite

7. Only in addition to the planets, significant EROS (to personal planets and angles), and/or mutual aspects with personal planets/angels and erotic asteroids: Lilith, Lust, Amor, Aphrodite, etc.

Having many aspects on this list checked in the same synastry leads to long-lasting sexual spark and compatibility."

Keep in mind a checklist is just a framework for various permutations.

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I seem to have loved you in numberless forms...

posted December 03, 2016 01:43 PM            

I've never posted his chart for privacy reasons, but here are some things.

1. All Mars, in order, to: Venus, Moon, Pluto, Jupiter, Neptune, Saturn, Uranus, Sun, Mercury; from both sides, both Marses aspected like this.

My Mars is binovile his Venus.

2. Mars to an angle, especially ASC

His Mars falls in my first house, same sign. His Mars sextile my IC, trine Chiron-MC.

3. Pluto aspects

My Pluto conjunct his moon, his draconic Pluto conjunct my sun.

4. 8th rulers in aspect or combinations with 8th/5th. 8th/5th overlays.

Our 8H rulers are conjunct. My NN conjunct his NN in Scorpio, in his 5H.

5. Also, 2nd house rulers or 2nd house overlays

His Venus-Mercury-Pluto falls in my 2nd house. My ASC conjunct his 2H sun.

6. Saturn and/or Pluto in some sort of connection to sexuality in synastry/composite

Our composite, might be slightly off if my birth time is inaccurate:

20 Cancer Mars
20 Cancer Juno
21 Cancer ASC
20 Virgo Pluto (conjunct his Psyche, my Juno-Priapus)
21 Virgo Uranus
22 Virgo Aphrodite
21 Libra Venus
21 Scorpio Neptune (20 Scorpio, my NN)
21 Scorpio Lust (22 Scorpio, his Vertex)
22 Pisces BML

Composite sun, moon, Mercury, NN, and Chiron also between 19-26°.

25 Leo, his Mars-Eros
26 Libra, composite sun
26 Sag, composite moon

2 Aqua, my Eros-Angel
4 Aqua, composite Tantalus
5 Aqua, my Mercury

7. Only in addition to the planets, significant EROS (to personal planets and angles), and/or mutual aspects with personal planets/angels and erotic asteroids: Lilith, Lust, Amor, Aphrodite, etc.

This could go on and on, I put a few in above.

15 Taurus, his SN
16 Virgo, his Lust
15 Cap, my sun

6 Sag, my Venus
10 Sag, his Tantalus
12 Sag, my Neptune

28 Pisces, my Tantalus
28 Virgo, his Jupiter

posted December 03, 2016 01:56 PM            

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My husband and I.

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posted December 03, 2016 01:59 PM            

Your considerations are in line with my observations so far.

posted December 03, 2016 02:16 PM            

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Originally posted by Aunt Anomalia:
Video or didn't happen.

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posted December 03, 2016 02:18 PM            

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here are some things.

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His Mars falls in my first house, same sign.

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posted December 03, 2016 02:27 PM            

He's Leo Mars, Virgo Venus.

But thanks for thinking of me.

ETA: Oh I'm curious what I might've forgotten?

posted December 03, 2016 02:27 PM            

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Originally posted by Selenite:
This looks fun I'll come back in 4 more years so I can play...

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Hi can we see the prospects at least?

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I seem to have loved you in numberless forms...

posted December 03, 2016 02:30 PM            

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Originally posted by Enneline:
Thank you sooo much, LeeLoo

Your considerations are in line with my observations so far.

Also, i have never seen mututal sexual attraction without any venus/mars and venus/pluto contacts, even considering minor aspect like semi-sequares, etc.

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Thank you, love

Hi, Auntie, nice to see you at the party waiting for the webcam proofs now

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I seem to have loved you in numberless forms...

posted December 03, 2016 02:32 PM            

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Originally posted by Faith:
Hi Enneline!

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Teaser? Where's the trailer? hehehe

Hi Faith and thank you, I am going to study the sexiness now...

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I seem to have loved you in numberless forms...

posted December 03, 2016 02:45 PM            

Faith, I was convinced his Mars completed a grand cross for you and your Mars was trine his Moon *defeated face*

Btw, care to include your Davison? The sign, house and aspects of Mars and 8HR, 8H placements if present plus Pluto, Eros and Priapus aspects.

Right, Priapus. What does the guy do in your synastry and composite? In case you don't remember what to type in: h22.

posted December 03, 2016 03:28 PM            

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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
Teaser? Where's the trailer? hehehe

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LOL

I kinda knew I was going to regret posting here...

posted December 03, 2016 03:35 PM            

Well I'm sorry to be confusing, but at the same time that has been my goal, to not make his birth data completely obvious.

Our Davison:

- Virgo Mars trine Cap moon
- Virgo Uranus rules the 8H; Uranus conjunct Pluto opp Pisces Saturn-Chiron

The rest is pretty similar to the composite.

Priapus

Mine is conjunct Juno in Virgo, conjunct my ex's sun. I lost my virginity to him, and I know what you are wondering now. ROTFL

Not answering.

posted December 03, 2016 03:40 PM            

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I lost my virginity to him, and I know what you are wondering now.

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Our Davison

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posted December 03, 2016 04:43 PM            

If you mentioned a Mars-Priapus conjunction or something like that in his natal THEN I would wonder.

posted December 03, 2016 04:46 PM            

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I seem to have loved you in numberless forms...

posted December 03, 2016 04:48 PM            

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Originally posted by Aunt Anomalia:
I have, why?

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Okay

No immature joking with you then

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Originally posted by Aunt Anomalia:
If you mentioned a Mars-Priapus conjunction or something like that in his natal THEN I would wonder.

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*snickering* I have stories about that but...

Pure thoughts

posted December 03, 2016 04:56 PM            

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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
It's so difficult to just describe photos, one could feel lost...I think Enneline had a good exemplification hehehe

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