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Topic: Would less distance make things easier? Need help or advice pls
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3l3n
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posted December 28, 2016 04:21 AM
  
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Sylven
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posted December 28, 2016 05:04 AM
The beauty of long distance is that you really get the chance to focus more on self. All the security she needs she must find from within first.
How many times have you actually 'been' together? In real life? So what are your needs? Meet them. Take a breather and find the answers within.  Can you post the charts individually? I see a lot of red (growth) and no personal planets in 4th, also Moon opp Moon. And, you can never loose what's right for you. IP: Logged |
3l3n
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posted December 28, 2016 05:33 AM
That is true Sylven, and thank you for your response.IP: Logged |
3l3n
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posted December 28, 2016 05:35 AM
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posted December 28, 2016 02:56 PM
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Empty Spaces
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posted December 28, 2016 05:10 PM
Her time of birth is right?IP: Logged |
3l3n
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posted December 28, 2016 08:25 PM
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Originally posted by Empty Spaces:
Her time of birth is right?
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Empty Spaces
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posted December 29, 2016 09:00 PM
I have gemini moon in 1st house exactly like her and my emotions are difficult to handle as well.It goes high then go down in 2 seconds lol I don't know what advice to give you though I still trying to control it.
Just wanted to share so you can possibly understand her better.# venus/uranus aspect in composite and synastry.It is a long distance sign,at least is what I heard here these days.Very interesting! IP: Logged |
3l3n
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posted December 30, 2016 08:11 AM
I know a couple of gemini moons and have got a taste of how they may act/react at times. I didn't know 1st house moons are so sensitive.Does my Moon conj the DC Composite and hers conj the AC have something significant to say? Yes, I agree with the venus/uranus aspect signifying distance. I had this also with my previous long distant relationship.
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3l3n
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posted January 02, 2017 05:11 AM
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MoonMystic
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posted January 02, 2017 11:29 AM
Wow. My sincere apology. Are you certain it's done? I was going to ask if you could share the transits you both are currently experiencing. Is it too late? Maybe so you'll understand in the future you could study the atmosphere in your transits?IP: Logged |
3l3n
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posted January 02, 2017 11:52 AM
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Sylven
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posted January 02, 2017 02:53 PM
Dear 3I3n,I am sorry to hear that!! Also sorry i didn't reply sooner. I was not in the mood and actually, what do I know to give you advise? I wasn't sure. What I do want to share, but you never asked for so please tell me if you find this appropriate or if you think I am out of line, is this.
Something makes you find love long distance or out of reach and hard to get. Like as if you don't allow yourself beautiful love. Someone who can and may get close to you emotionally. It seems you attract these situations to be forced to love self completely and unconditionally. You have north node conjunct sun in pisces. Like you are familiar with no boundaries and endless flow, not knowing where you end and the other begins. The task seems to set firm boundaries. I am not the kind of person who wants to or can judge or set things in stone, not with astro nor without astro. There is always a way especially when there is love. Only you know what's right for you. But are your needs being met or are you sacrificing or denying your emotional needs (Sat sq. Moon)? Love should never be a one way street right? You deserve a woman who trusts you and loves you for YOU, the beautiful person you are, unique and awesome!! But when you don't see this yet yourself you will attract situations. Take what you feel resonates and leave the rest. Really, tell me when I am out of line. There seems to be a balance thing going on. Moon opp Moon and Sun opp Sun *even when the orb is wide*. It's the femine and masculine balance. Read up on that. I wish you all the best!! Hugs!! IP: Logged |
FatedCinderella
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posted January 02, 2017 04:07 PM
Sylven
He find love abroad due to his planets in 9H
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Sylven
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posted January 02, 2017 05:22 PM
Yeah, if you think astro comes first, before the individual/soul and free will. I think it's otherway around. We choose our charts to live or work out a theme/things.IP: Logged |
FatedCinderella
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posted January 02, 2017 09:31 PM
Of course we have choices but I don't think there is something wrong about dating people from another place.Maybe she just didn't find a good match for her, which is fine cuz people find problems even in the neighborhood.I mean even when they live close and everything seems perfect.Packed 9th house or even just one strong planet in 9th house can represent attraction to people from a different background.From a different country,then obviously long distance,that doesn't mean you are searching for problems. Uranus aspects from natal can also lead to attraction into something different.That is perfectly normal to me.Loves comes in all forms and places 💚 IP: Logged |
Sylven
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posted January 03, 2017 04:40 AM
Yes, yes and yes!! And it doesn't only apply to long distance loves, we all have this frequently in relationships. Alll comes down to self love. wrong timing, falling in love with someone who is taken etc.. It's really nothing unusual. I have had this myself and probably still do in circumstances. I think it's cool to look at why the attraction to people from far exist in the first place. And yes, it can work out perfectly fine. A lot of us need space and are not willing to live together and are perfectly satisfied this way. Clearly 3I3n was not. And maybe I am over exaggerating but I felt I should put it out there. Again, it's nothing big and doesn't only count for 3I3n. It's for all of us. Unconditional love and self love.  IP: Logged |
3l3n
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posted January 03, 2017 05:40 AM
I appreciate your responses
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3l3n
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posted January 03, 2017 05:47 AM
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Originally posted by Sylven:
Unconditional love and self love.
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