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colorful butterfly
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posted January 02, 2017 04:58 PM
  
I am very curious as to what is going on here. I recently posted about my coworker who likes me but supposedly he is interested in a friend of mine per another source. The other day he asked me did he do anything to put me off so I asked him? He said no, he was a flirt but he wan't with anyone. I tease him all the time and he makes me nervous but I enjoy him. I am just curious as to what our synastry looks like and what anyone thinks of it. One thing that I did notice is that my Saturn sits on his venus. I don't want to be a wet blanket and all but, I just think we should really get to know each other first. I do however hear that he is a really good guy and I am extremely tired of jerks. He has an aries moon and my moon is libra. I am unable to post the charts , I have tried but it will not go threw but if anyone wishes to do so I would greatly appreciate that. I was born July 2 1979 at 12:35 pm in greensboro nc and he was born July 30 1975 in Pinehurst nc in the morning. He is not for sure of the exact time. IP: Logged |
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posted January 03, 2017 11:10 AM
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Faith
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posted January 03, 2017 11:31 AM
I'm biased because I was in love with someone born within a few days of your guy, and I don't want that to influence what I tell you. But I can put up the charts.   IP: Logged |
Faith
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posted January 03, 2017 11:34 AM
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colorful butterfly
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posted January 03, 2017 01:50 PM
Thank you so much Faith!!! Please by all means, biased or not I still wouldn't mind your interpretation. I am one to take in all the facts of things and form my own conclusions but I am always thankful for others advice and imput. Any help or thoughts are better than none at all in my opinion.IP: Logged |
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posted January 03, 2017 02:45 PM
Well the composite is only an approximation.But if there is really a stellium of sun-moon-Mercury-Venus, and if it's in one of the relationship houses...that's a really great start. I also love Mercury conjunct Mercury, and your moon sextile his sun. And I love the Rabbit/Goat compatibility. But I don't know. I like to see certain things, that's my own bias and lack of experience with charts maybe, and I'm not finding these things. It's not to say the relationship can't be good. But it's harder for me to imagine how this affects you emotionally. As a Cancer with moon conjunct Pluto in your first house, I am just hoping for something that is emotionally strong and healthy. His Saturn squaring his moon gives me a bit of concern, but then again, if you don't know his birth time, he may be a Taurus moon. And that kinda changes a lot. The Saturn-Venus conjunction on your NN plus composite NN square the sun, these look important and possibly good for longevity. But the sun isn't strongly aspected otherwise, unless it aspects an angle (we don't know.) I am just leery of Saturn-Venus, as I suspect it can glue people together who might be happier apart. I honestly don't know, there are good and bad things to see here. And my own personal experience makes me want to caution you, because the guy I was with born at the same time was SO charming, it's like he almost swallowed my soul....and then spit me out. And I would like to spare others that experience, if people born in proximity to each other are really alike. (I will delete this last part later.) IP: Logged |
colorful butterfly
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posted January 03, 2017 05:30 PM
Faith,Thank you!!! I appriciate you taking the time to post the charts and for your advice and interpretation. I have a book called the secret language of relationships and it branches birthdays off into weeks, like decons I guess. I just dated a guy on and off for about a year who was born on July 28 and it has made me very intimidated the it comes to the guy at work because of them being born in the same week. Although I know couples who are together despite this book saying otherwise, I am sure it all depends on what the natal chart calls for as well. I have had Saturn\venus with someone else, it's was a very comforting aspect for the length of the duration. The guy that was born July 28 just seems more like a player, very sensitive to his own emotions and insensitive to mine at times. He was very charming when I first met him but turned out to be something totally different than what I first met. I enjoy my time with him but I do feel we lack somethings because the relationship is so on and off, I just see threw the games he plays and calling him out makes him mad about it. We also have Saturn Conjunct Mars. IP: Logged |
Faith
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posted January 03, 2017 09:03 PM
Quick note:I meant I was with someone with almost the exact same chart as this 1975 Leo here. Was the other Leo you dated born in 1975, too?  Be back later. IP: Logged |
colorful butterfly
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posted January 03, 2017 09:17 PM
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Originally posted by Faith:
Quick note:I meant I was with someone with almost the exact same chart as this 1975 Leo here. Was the other Leo you dated born in 1975, too? Be back later.
Oh I see, no he was born in 71. I can give you his information if you'd like or there is a thread here that Todd looked at for me about him. He was born July 28 1971 Fort Ord CA at 2:58 am.
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colorful butterfly
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posted January 03, 2017 11:48 PM
Anyone else care to comment on the guy from work? IP: Logged |
colorful butterfly
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posted January 04, 2017 01:15 AM
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Originally posted by Faith:
Quick note:I meant I was with someone with almost the exact same chart as this 1975 Leo here. Was the other Leo you dated born in 1975, too? Be back later.
Faith ,
The leo born in 71 that I have a Saturn\mars conjunction with, my progressed mars entered Cancer Dec 22 from being in mars in Gemini. I know mars in Gemini means scattered energy where when it progresses into Cancer it becomes more focused. Saturn\ mars I read means focused energy. Cancer mars energy has to be turned outward vs inward and is at a fall. Just curious if you would like to look into it and see what you think on this. Also something in our synastry I remember reading was one of the purposes for us meeting was to change old patterns to become more productive in our lives, my progressed moon just entered pisces which is about letting go. His progressed sun will enter libra in about 5 to 10 years, I am thinking that his Saturn that maybe I am here to show him how to get along better with others or atleast how to respect women better. I empathize with him because I have the same ego sometimes but I know it doesn't make things right. I do remember an astrologer telling me I would have a stabilizing affect on him when it comes to the action that he takes, I thinking this is to stabilize him emotionally or something even though I am a Cancer and we are the most emotional sign of the zodiac. My ceres is in Aries conjunct his chiron falling in my 8th house and in his 11th also conjunct his pof. Just makes me think that people sometimes enter our lives to just push us in the direction we are suppose to go, sometimes in good ways and other times not so good ways.
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tessacha
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posted January 04, 2017 03:02 AM
Where do I get a chart like that? IP: Logged |
Faith
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posted January 04, 2017 07:50 AM
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Where do I get a chart like that?
They are free at astro.com. To post: Click on the chart after you've made it, copy it to an image posting service like imgur.com. Photobucket is way too glitchy and slow, in my experience. Copy and post that image here using [img]your link[/img] IP: Logged |
Faith
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posted January 04, 2017 07:59 AM
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Originally posted by colorful butterfly:
I have a book called the secret language of relationships and it branches birthdays off into weeks, like decons I guess. I just dated a guy on and off for about a year who was born on July 28 and it has made me very intimidated the it comes to the guy at work because of them being born in the same week. Although I know couples who are together despite this book saying otherwise, I am sure it all depends on what the natal chart calls for as well.
I own and love that book but it makes me crazy sometimes. I'm too impressionable, too susceptible to taking it seriously, especially when it's right so often. I need to consciously distance myself from the book but it's difficult considering my synastry with the author (long story!) My husband is also Week of Authority, by the way.  I just read your reading online and it doesn't look too promising, does it? With neither of these men. Hmmm
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colorful butterfly
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posted January 04, 2017 07:20 PM
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Originally posted by Faith:
I own and love that book but it makes me crazy sometimes. I'm too impressionable, too susceptible to taking it seriously, especially when it's right so often. I need to consciously distance myself from the book but it's difficult considering my synastry with the author (long story!)My husband is also Week of Authority, by the way. I just read your reading online and it doesn't look too promising, does it? With neither of these men. Hmmm
How do you deal with your husband? Based off the first guy, they can be really difficult and do what they want to do? I completly understand as far as the book and yes there is some truth there. My reading? like personal readings? IP: Logged |
colorful butterfly
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posted January 04, 2017 07:26 PM
I just read your reading online and it doesn't look too promising, does it? With neither of these men. Hmmm[/B][/QUOTE] I think maybe you mean you looked at the chart online, hmmm I guess so. I have to be a Cancer lol IP: Logged |
colorful butterfly
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posted January 20, 2017 12:52 AM
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Originally posted by Faith:
Well the composite is only an approximation.But if there is really a stellium of sun-moon-Mercury-Venus, and if it's in one of the relationship houses...that's a really great start. I also love Mercury conjunct Mercury, and your moon sextile his sun. And I love the Rabbit/Goat compatibility. But I don't know. I like to see certain things, that's my own bias and lack of experience with charts maybe, and I'm not finding these things. It's not to say the relationship can't be good. But it's harder for me to imagine how this affects you emotionally. As a Cancer with moon conjunct Pluto in your first house, I am just hoping for something that is emotionally strong and healthy. His Saturn squaring his moon gives me a bit of concern, but then again, if you don't know his birth time, he may be a Taurus moon. And that kinda changes a lot. The Saturn-Venus conjunction on your NN plus composite NN square the sun, these look important and possibly good for longevity. But the sun isn't strongly aspected otherwise, unless it aspects an angle (we don't know.) I am just leery of Saturn-Venus, as I suspect it can glue people together who might be happier apart. I honestly don't know, there are good and bad things to see here. And my own personal experience makes me want to caution you, because the guy I was with born at the same time was SO charming, it's like he almost swallowed my soul....and then spit me out. And I would like to spare others that experience, if people born in proximity to each other are really alike. (I will delete this last part later.)
Faith, I think this guy may be like that for me. I looked and his moon, jupiter falls into my 8th house and I am not sure but his pluto is close to my moon? Long story short, he very much pursued me but work put me off some with how things can go there. I actually ended up seeing the other Leo which I regret but I felt like I have been seeing him on and off for the past year, that even though I like the guy at work I just wasn't sure. I am really standoffish (saturn) I guess but for me just not sure about him. Well he withdrew for whatever reason, he said because he didnt want to smother me? I started to think maybe I was over reacting and to give him a chance. I actually felt like that after seeing the other guy like I just made a mistake. I suggested that he take me out the next day, he told me he would like to and was going to text me. He never text me . I sent him a text the next day and he never responded. The next time I saw him he told me he didn't even realize I was working which made me almost snap at him, I just brushed it off not saying anything.He never said anything about my text , just nothing. So I smiled and put on the best poker face I could muster up. Today I saw him and blew him a kiss to which he blew one back at me but then later at just seemed like he was flirting with someone infront of my face. I don't think he realizes how upset I am about everything or that he even offended me. I don't understand any of it or why he is acting like he is considering he pursued me? I think you are probably right that this week is not meant for me, I am wayyyyy to sensitive and serious. I just don't understand any of it? He seemed crazy over me and then just like that like meh' I'm just wandering is it because I didn't just rush into sleeping with him, he seems very open about sex btw. The other guy was like that too but I feel more comfortable with the guy at work, I just don't want to get hurt. IP: Logged |
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posted January 20, 2017 09:39 PM
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I just don't understand any of it? He seemed crazy over me and then just like that like meh'
Ugh  Same experience I had with my ex. IP: Logged |
colorful butterfly
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posted January 21, 2017 07:17 PM
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Originally posted by Faith:
Ugh Same experience I had with my ex.
Hate things went that way with your ex * hugs* IP: Logged |
colorful butterfly
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posted January 26, 2017 11:45 PM
Faith, I just have to update you on the guy at work. He seemed to come back around for a moment, he told me that he just wanted to see if he could stay away from me for a week. Then told me that he couldn't stay away. I talked to him and flirted with him for a little bit then the other day, he sent me a text telling me that he had a friend that was becoming more than just friends. He didn't want to continue to lead me on I guess. He apologized and told me that I was a wonderful woman , that he hopes I find someone. I replied wishing him well and hoped everything worked out, that I couldn't say it didn't sting a little but I have been in the same spot before so I know what it's like. He never responded (kinda sucks seeing how he told me he wanted to break down my walls and seemed so sure of everything) I couldn't help but laugh because I knew something was wasn't right by how he was acting. I guess it's safe to say he just wanted to sleep with me. I am just hopeing in time things will work out to where we can just be friends and able to laugh\joke with one another seeing how he just tried to pursue me for only a short period. Men can be funny though, I am afraid he will think if I am playful that I will want more which is insane but men can be very immature sometimes. I think if I ever run into this week of Authority the future, I will run for the hills!!!IP: Logged |
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