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Topic: Synastry and Composite with my Ex (Sweet Nostalgia)
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thingsgoneby
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Registered: Jul 2016
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posted January 03, 2017 02:59 PM
  
I ask too much these days …Yet, I was suddenly struck with a case of nostalgia. My EX! What’s he doin’? How’s he doin’? Why did we even break up? You know the drill  I just wanted to inquire about our synastry and composite. What do you think about it? What kind of dynamic do you think our relationship had? How long were we together, do you believe? Did we fight a lot? I’d love to provide feedback. Sometimes it's interesting to ask about a synastry or composite you can verify the reading of. My TOB may or may not be correct (BLUE). I don't know his (RED).
 [If anyone would like to take a shot, please don’t quote, thank you. You never know. He’s exactly the type who’d be interested in astrology, even if he wasn’t into it back then  ] IP: Logged |
todd
Knowflake Posts: 1195
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posted January 03, 2017 07:31 PM
hi ya
the composite shows the classic aspects of intense attraction that becomes a off and on relationship at best.
the venus/sun/eros conjunction gives the spontaneous attraction, but with the opposition to Saturn, there was always a hesitation.
mars/chiron is opposed to Uranus which shows his independence and his off handed way of dismissing the chemistry between you. this is and aspect of back handed compliments, that is just when you feel the love, he would od or say something to slight the romantic connection .mercury square to Jupiter suggest you and he just didn't see everything in the same light .
pluto square to Jupiter shows that in the end ,he felt his ambitions in life would be limited by a close relationship. this aspect often shows that personal ambitions doom a relationship. sometimes if you were both in the same professional or educational situation., you can both grow in a parallel manner. but rarely if ever does pluto and Jupiter square lead to growing together todd IP: Logged |
thingsgoneby
Knowflake Posts: 251
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Registered: Jul 2016
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posted January 03, 2017 10:42 PM
Yay, todd. I was hoping you’d comment. So I’m very grateful for your reading. Thank you!Attraction and love were definitely there, and a curiosity to explore each other I believe. You’re right though, it wasn’t a great relationship for growth. But as a matter of fact, it was I who was the one who held back due to some unfortunate circumstances in my personal life. I think he perceived this, as you say, a hinderance to his own growth, yeah … It was a bit all over the place. And we had some fundamental differences in the way we related to the world. I do believe we taught each other some things, but in the end both of us were probably aware that it wasn’t going to be for the long haul. It was more like a long term fling than a stable relationship. We never settled down. Thanks! It was interesting seeing the relationship through an astrological perspective. IP: Logged |
thingsgoneby
Knowflake Posts: 251
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Registered: Jul 2016
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posted January 04, 2017 12:59 PM
Some more questions concerning the synastry: I think the exact Vesta conjunct Sun aspect was a bit interesting to see. How does that play out? Is it a loving aspect? Is it Sun who loves Vesta or the other way around? And how about Moon conjunct BLM?I think also, in the composite. Not sure if it's a coincidence, but I see that Sun and Venus is applying in a 2 degree orb and we were together pretty much exactly 2 years - but that's not how orbs work, I assume. It was just a bit curious  IP: Logged | |
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