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dreamscomeslow
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posted January 08, 2017 06:04 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for dreamscomeslow     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Elysia
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posted January 08, 2017 06:43 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
What happened here?

I'm seeing a lot of attraction here, what with your Mars opposing his Sun, Venus trine Pluto, moon in the same sign of his Sun (even if not conjunct, that adds some familiarity).

However, his Venus only receives a trine from your Venus, in case I'm missing something. But even if that box is not ticked, elementally I think you guys are pretty compatible. You sun can ground his moon, your moon can support his sun. He makes you feel good with that Jupiter on your sun.

Were there heated arguments? His mars in your third, your mercury opposing his Pluto. Did one or both of you come across as trying to change the other person's point of view a bit too much ? Or was he pushing you away, seeming too distant? Suddenly cutting off communication or something like that? Venus square Saturn makes me think there's some "distance" in one of those ways.

ETA: Wow, his sun on your Dsc! That's hard to walk away from.

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posted January 08, 2017 09:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for dreamscomeslow     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

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posted January 08, 2017 10:31 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hey, thanks for responding..

I'm sorry this is causing you so much pain. Sometimes our relationship dynamics can be really messed up.

I see you've added the composite.

ETA: Okay, composite, here we go..
There's a great synergy there with a grand trine between Venus, Jupiter & Uranus.
The Jupiter-Mars and Jupiter-Venus aspects are buoyant, making you hopeful, sticking around for the *good* times, which can be jolly good indeed. You feel very energised together, yet your drives might be somewhat out of sync. Or they might be uncoordinated despite *wanting* to be in sync. One way this could manifest is like when one person thinks they're meeting at the restaurant at 8 and the other thinks they's supposed to catch the movie at 9. You see? Neither wants to stand the other up, but it happens nonetheless.
Another way this could manifest is the two of you simply having different energy levels.

All that is not a major source of worry, though - since you have Venus-Jupiter to smooth things over and a Moon-Saturn to give you the staying power. It is a loose conjunction, though, and since the birth time is unknown it might not even be there. But Moon-Saturn can add to a certain emotional heaviness and coolness. Being unable to express quite what you're feeling. This is a conjunction, which I take to be a (relatively) positive aspect. In that you feel, it's okay, we got time - no need to deal with this right now.

The inability to, or unwillingness to communicate about feelings is exacerbated by the Mercury-Saturn square. Explains why there's not much arguing.. Communication might be lacking because one or both of you feel judged by the other (?). And at times, just don't know what to say to each other(?) I'd say - if either is the case, holding back on speaking your mind won't do you any good. Probably better to talk things out (but hey, I don't even follow this myself in real life, just sayin' )

The Pluto on the composite north node is a heavy hitter. It receives a supporting sextile from the Sun's ruler, which is great - might indicate a *positive* transformation on the cards. I wish we knew the time, so we could see the houses this affects!

Overall, you have some really good things going for you there..just need to work past the issues, I suppose.

Bear in mind though, I'm only an amateur here. I can give you just my opinions and heaps of sympathy.

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posted January 08, 2017 10:58 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
The Descendant is an important angle in the natal. It represents, traditionally, your "other half". The type of person you attract and are attracted to.
This is, in fact, shown by the 7th house in it's entirety - which for you seems to be shared between Capricorn & Aquarius.
Having said that, the Dsc itself is a special angle. The sign there, it's ruler, and the aspects they make in your natal flavour your expectations of your partner. (Look to your natal Dsc, Saturn and how they are aspected for more clues).

You can read more about the Descendant on these sites -
Dsc in the Signs,
Keen.com Article on the Asc/Dsc axis.

Hope this helps.

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posted January 09, 2017 07:50 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Faith     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Elysia

Hi dreamscomeslow,

I like this synastry and composite.

One of the more serious issues in my amateur view seems to be the Mercury-Saturn square that Elysia pointed out, in the composite chart. Communication difficulties.

The other is the cardinal grand cross formed by your Mars and Mercury with his sun and Pluto. Tension there possibly coming to a head somehow, maybe in a subterranean way, since earth signs can be so non-confrontational with each other.

Possible ups and downs because of the composite sun squaring Uranus, with his moon widely conjunct Uranus. Also I just have to say that I don't like his Saturn squaring your Venus, that can feel so killjoy sometimes.

I can see why there has been some lag time, and I can see why there is still a lot of mutual respect and the effort to keep it going and try again.

That composite grand trine of Venus-Jupiter-Uranus just looks so positive and fun.

Honestly cannot see how it will play out, but I wish you luck!

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posted January 11, 2017 02:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Yin     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You edited so my response made no sense.

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