posted January 09, 2017 04:12 PM            

From astrolady.wixsite.com

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Moon/Neptune: The hard aspects can indicate some difficulty. In this case, there is a tendency to misunderstand or confuse each other emotionally. The Moon person may tend to be emotionally dependent on the Neptune person, for the Moon person feels the Neptune person is his or her ideal mate.

The threat of emotional deceit is high when this aspect shows up in synastry. The Moon person may not see the Neptune person clearly; the Moon person may see the Neptune person for the emotionally wonderful, supportive person he thinks the Neptune person is. In order to keep the Moon person’s ideals alive or to gain emotional support or compassion, the Neptune person may “play along” by lying, playing the victim, or pretending to be someone he is not. Even if the Moon person suspects the Neptune person of deceit, they will make excuses for the Neptune person and pretend as though nothing is wrong.

Hard aspects also indicate a great amount of possessiveness and clinginess on the part of the Moon person. Both the Moon and Neptune are highly sensitive planets, which makes this relationship excessively emotional and co-dependent. This is especially damaging if Neptune becomes elusive and distant, as it will greatly upset the Moon person. While this aspect indicates a great amount of compassion and unconditional caring, it can also lead to hurt and disappointment due to lofty ideals of what each person thinks the other person is.

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posted January 09, 2017 04:42 PM            

She needs to get out of this mess quick. Stage an intervention or something because having a heroin addict as a lover is no joke. Unless he is self-aware and going into rehab (which I doubt) this could end in disaster.

As for the synatry:

She is a Gemini Sun/Libra Moon with Cancer sex planets. People like this have the potential to become dependent on relationships and rationalize why they should stay and hold on. Especially if she has the Moon/Venus square (I assume from the positions).

He is a Scorpio Sun/Mars - this conjunction makes for a person who can be self-centered and even self-absorbed in their view of the world. In Scorpio it can get quite bad because it's a heavy sign with many insecurities that is already introverted and could turn quite dark. The Leo Moon (conj AS) also amplifies this self-involvement. Honestly it's not surprising he's an addict - he's hurting himself and his loved ones but he doesn't "see" it or care.

Unfortunately this synastry is very "alluring" and it would be hard to let go unless she's made to see how bad it is for her.

Because they're born close to each other they have the same outer planets so they mirror each other's natal aspects - this could give a false sense of familiarity.

Red flags:

- His Neptune forming a T-square with her Moon/Venus - in a tragically ironic way this is like emotional heroin. The love might seems like magic but it's not real and will have dire consequences.

- Mars/Saturn DW - potential for dependence, abuse and a sense of duty, they shouldn't be allowed to form a strong bond because this will have them running back to each other even if they hate each other's guts

- Moon/Pluto square - more dependence and obsession

- Venus/Pluto trine - more sex magic

Her Mercury opposes his Sun/Mars which means they will have heated arguments and will both be stubborn so if she tries to get him off the stuff it it will probably end up in quarrels.

That Grand Trine between his Jupiter/Neptune-Uranus and her Mercury is a devil in disguise because he will probably be able to sweet talk her that everything is fine and maybe even be an influence on her.

Her Jupiter is square his Sun/Mars which is also a bad influence and indulgence enabling aspect.

They aspect each other's AS/DSC rulers so they probably feel like they're really in love with each other.

This is a real shame because if it wasn't for the horrific problem this is actually a riveting synsatry.