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Topic: Composite the end all???
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LiOnfshh78
Knowflake Posts: 36
From: Florida
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted January 13, 2017 11:02 AM
  
Davison or composite? We have a nice synastry but composite would be wonderful without uranus conjunct venus and sun. We had a short relationship 8 more the ago, and still cannot let go of each other. We always check on each other and wish we could be together, but I started seeing someone else although he still tugs at my heart. It was deep between us. I just feel like no matter what it won't happen for us because of ugly URANUS!!! Would post charts but it doesn't work on my phone. Has anyone had uranus in composite that lasted???IP: Logged |
margym0o
Knowflake Posts: 829
From: Canada
Registered: Jul 2014
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posted January 13, 2017 11:58 AM
Well I know it's been said before but Barack and Michelle Obama have Mars sq. Uranus in their composite, and they seem just fine!Don't let a 'bad' composite scare you off. Live your life, and listen to your heart. Sometimes I feel like astrology can be a self-fulfilling prophecy. We freak ourselves out over an aspect that traditional astrology says is negative without taking into account ALL factors - our own natals, the different relationship charts, transits etc. Astrology is a VERY complicated practice and is subject to opinion, which is why it's not a perfect science. There are so many real life factors that come into play too! You can have the most romantic synastry/composite with your brother, but it doesn't mean you should/will act on it! Likewise you can have a challenging chart with a lover, but some people need that spark to stay motivated and engaged. Like you're working towards something. A chart full of trines can spell boredom and complacency. I say let your 'real life' feelings be your guide. IP: Logged |
LiOnfshh78
Knowflake Posts: 36
From: Florida
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted January 13, 2017 12:49 PM
Thank you so much for your response! I cannot let go of him and he feels the same, I had a couple uranus flings before him, seems to be my norm now...? But it was deep with him, not just an airy superficial contact like with the others. We are 14 years apart, him older, we are different ethnicities so does that also explain the uranus in chart? Plus he travels alot unexpectedly for work. Sometimes with a few hours notice....I don't know, maybe we both need the uranus so it doesn't become stale. I have uranus in the natal and so does heIP: Logged |
Elysia
Knowflake Posts: 2379
From: Gotham
Registered: Aug 2015
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posted January 14, 2017 10:41 AM
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Originally posted by margym0o:
Well I know it's been said before but Barack and Michelle Obama have Mars sq. Uranus in their composite, and they seem just fine!Don't let a 'bad' composite scare you off. Live your life, and listen to your heart. Sometimes I feel like astrology can be a self-fulfilling prophecy. We freak ourselves out over an aspect that traditional astrology says is negative without taking into account ALL factors - our own natals, the different relationship charts, transits etc. Astrology is a VERY complicated practice and is subject to opinion, which is why it's not a perfect science. There are so many real life factors that come into play too! You can have the most romantic synastry/composite with your brother, but it doesn't mean you should/will act on it! Likewise you can have a challenging chart with a lover, but some people need that spark to stay motivated and engaged. Like you're working towards something. A chart full of trines can spell boredom and complacency. I say let your 'real life' feelings be your guide.
Hey I didn't know they had that aspect!  @LiOnfshh78,
I agree with what margym0o has said. It's not astrology that breaks people apart. People break people apart.
Plus, a conjunction is an aspect that offers more opportunity for co-operation rather than conflict. Even if the cooperation is a zany Uranian one. So what? A Uranus conjunct Sun-Venus can point to an unusual relationship, or a relationship that never loses its *spark* or novelty. Yes, it can manifest as being unstable - but isn't that the very nature of lightning? IP: Logged |
LiOnfshh78
Knowflake Posts: 36
From: Florida
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted January 14, 2017 05:03 PM
Wow! Thank you!!! I guess I never really thought if it in that light. It's just that everything you reason says it'll never last, starts and stops quite fast. We also do have some CRAZY kinda connection, random things that keep us connected. And just a couple weeks ago I was thinking of him, that exact instant, he called. I was so weirded out I couldn't even answer the phone. Talked to him the next day. He thought it to be strange alsoIP: Logged |
Yanmorg
Knowflake Posts: 1596
From:
Registered: Feb 2013
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posted January 14, 2017 07:46 PM
LIFE itself is unstable, unconventional, and changeable.. everything Uranus stands for. In my opinion, and from much personal experience, Uranus prominent charts just have to cope with this aspect of life a little more closely than others. Because life can also be stagnant, boring, steady, etc. Uranus is just in your face and you can either work with it or against it. That part is always up to you. You will always be in control of YOU even when you feel like you can't control anything or anyone else. Astrology is VERY complex like Margymoo stated. One aspect or even a few aspects doesn't make or break a person and/ or a relationship. There are many things to consider like transits (which can ruin an otherwise perfect synastry/ composite simply because of bad timing), midpoints, parallels, etc. live your life and be happy. You mess up your destiny by trying worry and predict the future. IP: Logged | |
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