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From: The Moon
Registered: Aug 2013

posted January 16, 2017 03:32 PM            

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This guy I am currently dating REALLY likes me a lot, and is really romantically attracted to me in a good way.... many of his planets touch my 11th house, and I feel he really gets me and boosts my confidence - in a friendly way

Me on the other hand, seems to only be touching all his more romantic and sexually spots (My sun, mars and mercury in his 1st house)

And we got a Mars square Mars exact, as well as my sun and moon square his mars... I do feel we are somewhat compatible, but I'm a bit afraid that he doesn't really touch any of my romantic houses (1st, 5th, 7th or 8th)

is that a bad sign or does the Mars-Mars aspect overwrite all that??

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From: From a galaxy, far, far away...
Registered: Apr 2009

posted January 17, 2017 12:43 PM            

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Bump!

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From: Canada
Registered: Jul 2014

posted January 18, 2017 09:34 AM            

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I don't think the Mars sq. Mars has much to do with it honestly. It can show heat and friction which is great for sex but over time it will probably show as incompatible drives or "ways of doing things" which may make working together a little difficult. With your knowledge of this aspect you will have to make a conscious effort to understand his point of view (if the relationship is worth it).

I wouldn't focus solely on planet overlays. How about aspects to the house rulers? There are also what they call "secondary" houses so let's say you have Aqua DSC, then an 11th house overlay could be significant also.

How is the composite looking?

But more important than this, how do YOU feel? This is priority #1. Forget the charts and trying to justify your feelings this way. Even the most picture-perfect synastries flop because "real life" takes over. If you feel strong romantic feelings for him, then ignore what the charts are telling you you should/shouldn't feel. It can become a self-fulfilling prophecy anyway...

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