posted January 20, 2017 11:33 PM            

Conjunction Sun (me) - Mars (him)
Square Mars (him) - Pluto (me)
Conjunction Moon (him) - Pluto (me)
Sextile Sun (him) - Pluto (me)

We have talked before. He was really nice and seemed to be attracted to me. But I cut ties. I wasn't ready, something felt too intense. I could feel the intensity just by staring at him; his eyes seem to ring a bell. Just not sure what.
Someone please shed some light? I can't stop thinking about this guy, and I hardly know him

posted January 20, 2017 11:55 PM            

You seem to know astrology pretty well if you can recognize aspect patterns.

It's hard for anyone to help you analyze what's going on without actual charts to see.

posted January 21, 2017 10:26 AM            

I'm assuming you have his birth time right and speaking as if it is....if you don't have his birth time, I may have to revise this later.

Okay, while studying this kite with some coffee in my system and more clarity of mind, I see it's not a kite. The orbs are too wide. It seems there is an air grand trine, but the orbs are pretty wide there, also. I think most people wouldn't count it. However, my opinion is, even a loose grand trine indicates a smooth, easy-flowing energy and nice rapport. Because this is in air signs, you might feel like your potential together is limitless (air flows along without stopping.) Maybe this is one reason you wonder if you are soulmates?

You two have those overlapping red t-squares in synastry:

Gemini Jupiter conjunct Jupiter
Virgo sun conjunct Mars
Sag planets conjunct Sag planets

The transiting stellium in Pisces is turning this t-square into a grand cross, supplying a feeling of completion and also some psychic resonance. Maybe that's why you feel this way:

"Whenever I look into his eyes, it feels like time stops."

Composite Vertex on the DSC is supposedly another marker for soulmates, and you see, you two also have Venus there. I can't tell the degree of your Libra sun, it looks like it's conjunct composite Mercury, but also close enough (perhaps) to the DSC-Vertex-Venus conjunction, that you feel it strongly, and it seems to be essentially a part of you. Like something about you two...is a part of you. And another thing, which is contingent on his birth time: north node conjunct IC. That could give a strong feeling of "destined to be together" if not physically than emotionally (IC in Cancer). It looks to me that something is complete here. Complete trust or complete understanding. So no wonder you wouldn't be jealous...if you two have NN on the IC, you don't need much more from him to feel like your connection is secure.

Hope others answer!

posted January 21, 2017 06:18 PM            

It's not at all unusual for the Virgo woman (man) to find herself (himself) feeling comfortable with a Libra of the opposite sex.

Apparently it's fairly common with all the neighboring sun signs. Certainly a Venus-Sun conjunction assists.

Even straight Virgos and Libras of the same sex often experience this attraction. Maybe it's something like a "good neighbor" feeling.

With opposite-sex relationships, what develops following the Comfortable Phase is anybody's guess.

Linda Goodman did a great job of describing the possibilities in her book, Love Signs.

PiperDay, I know exactly what you're talking about when you say you can't stop thinking about the person. I experienced nearly the same situation recently with a woman, though it was not a neighboring sun situation.