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onefish33
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posted January 21, 2017 12:33 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for onefish33     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm almost 41, understand that my Saturn in 7th house has everything to do with me getting married late in life. I've met this fellow and he's been divorced once, has a kid and is interested. What do you guys think? Thanks so much, onefish33.....always the romantic, despite the moon in gemini.

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posted January 21, 2017 04:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for PangolinParty     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I think it may be hard to tell without a synastry chart... you can calculate one on astro.com under the extended chart selections.

He has an interesting Neptune yod, though. Is he a musician? My brother has a yod with Neptune at the apex and he's very gifted, musically.

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posted January 21, 2017 06:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for onefish33     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi P...I'm not sure if he plays any instruments, but he used to smoke cigarettes a lot for many years and then quit. His father also died from lung cancer...so it made an impact on him.

I think this is the synastry chart...let me know what you think. Thanks so much for your help, onefish33.

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posted January 21, 2017 08:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for PangolinParty     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Personal planets falling on the angles tend to be very impactful...your Sun is hanging out by his DC, so at the very least, you appear to be an ideal partner in his eyes. His venus falling in your 7th house also makes him an ideal companion in your eyes. Your moon also falls near his MC.

Both AC in earth signs and both Sun signs in water makes you two very agreeable.

Neptune and Venus trine will bring an amount of idealization (and Neptune/Neptune conj.), which of course feels very dreamy, but make sure you spend time being realistic, too. The Moon/Neptune opposition will blur some lines, emotionally.

Saturn contacts are good for the long haul... His saturn opposes your Venus and Mercury, and your Saturn aspects his Mercury. Sometimes Saturn is heavy and uncomfortable, but it comes from a good place because any obstacles will serve your growth. There is a sense of responsibility towards each other.

Pluto conjunct Pluto = intensity.

I'm really interested in the N. Node/Uranus conjunction... Node contacts are supposedly fated, and in my experience, relationships I've had with nodal contacts have been pretty life changing... it looks like your S. Node would be right near his moon as well, so definitely a feeling of familiarity. You have both karma and dharma with this man. The involvement of Uranus will bring some excitement... or upheaval. Combined with the presence of that Pluto/Pluto conjunction, it looks like this relationship will be highly transformative for you both.

It can be said that any person with whom we have a meaningful relationship qualifies as a soul mate, since the whole point of relationships is to help us grow and develop individually (marriage partner is a different topic). If you are interested in soul mate astrology, I would educate yourself on midpoints and some asteroids, as well. Check out your composite and/or Davison charts and look for similar themes.

I am certainly not as knowledgeable as the majority of the members here, so I'm sorry if I couldn't provide you with the clarity you were hoping for.

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posted January 22, 2017 01:48 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for onefish33     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
P- you have provided me with much to think about and analyze, however...what do you think about our neptune connections? I don't want to wake up one day and then him leaving, just because.

Also...is the Pluto/Pluto connection intense (in a good way) or in a bad way? We do talk a lot on the phone and for hours. He says he's never done that with anyone.

And yes....I'm thinking about if this is my husband or not.

This is our composite...let me know And thank you for all of the analysis that you have provided me- I really appreciate it.

http://s79.photobucket.com/user/onefish33/media/astro_61gw_04_472_my_chart_p_his_chart.80211.24098_zpspklakbti.gif.html

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posted April 28, 2017 09:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for onefish33     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hello again- I'm hoping you get email alerts when people post to this forum. So the update on this guy is that he broke up with me last night (yes, in mercury retrograde) because he says he can't commit. Mind you, I never mentioned the word marriage, but he said he knew that if he was with me that meant that he was ONLY going to be with me & he's not sure if he's ready for that. So....do you think there is a chance that we will get back? He's very overwhelmed because he's currently looking for a job & also has an issue with being able to stay in the country to work- so he needs to work both of those things out. Please let me know...I appreciate al of your advice highly. Hugs, Onefish33

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posted April 28, 2017 09:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for onefish33     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hello again- I'm hoping you get email alerts when people post to this forum. So the update on this guy is that he broke up with me last night (yes, in mercury retrograde) because he says he can't commit. Mind you, I never mentioned the word marriage, but he said he knew that if he was with me that meant that he was ONLY going to be with me & he's not sure if he's ready for that. So....do you think there is a chance that we will get back? He's very overwhelmed because he's currently looking for a job & also has an issue with being able to stay in the country to work- so he needs to work both of those things out. Please let me know...I appreciate al of your advice highly. Hugs, Onefish33

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posted April 28, 2017 09:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for onefish33     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hello again- I'm hoping you get email alerts when people post to this forum. So the update on this guy is that he broke up with me last night (yes, in mercury retrograde) because he says he can't commit. Mind you, I never mentioned the word marriage, but he said he knew that if he was with me that meant that he was ONLY going to be with me & he's not sure if he's ready for that. So....do you think there is a chance that we will get back? He's very overwhelmed because he's currently looking for a job & also has an issue with being able to stay in the country to work- so he needs to work both of those things out. Please let me know...I appreciate al of your advice highly. Hugs, Onefish33

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posted April 28, 2017 09:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for onefish33     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hello again- I'm hoping you get email alerts when people post to this forum. So the update on this guy is that he broke up with me last night (yes, in mercury retrograde) because he says he can't commit. Mind you, I never mentioned the word marriage, but he said he knew that if he was with me that meant that he was ONLY going to be with me & he's not sure if he's ready for that. So....do you think there is a chance that we will get back? He's very overwhelmed because he's currently looking for a job & also has an issue with being able to stay in the country to work- so he needs to work both of those things out. Please let me know...I appreciate al of your advice highly. Hugs, Onefish33

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TheTruthIsTheWay11
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posted April 29, 2017 12:46 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for TheTruthIsTheWay11     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It sucks you're broken up right now. However, it sounds like something to be optimistic about, and I'm glad you posted your reply, because now I can help you with this.

I also recently met my Soulmate. It's been confirmed through Astrology, Numerology, a Psychic, and my own experiences.

Firstly, I find it interesting how you have Venus opposite Saturn and Mercury opposite Saturn. I also have those with my Soulmate. Venus opposite Saturn gets a negative reputation, but given the fact that I share this with my Soulmate, I believe it can also be positive.

Anyways, I'm seeing a lot here. His Jupiter and Mercury are conjunct your DC. That's a really good indicator. Your Sun signs are compatible. That Saturn conjunct Jupiter aspect is really positive. You have Venus opposite Venus, which is a classic love aspect, found in the charts of couples who marry. His Moon is conjunct your South Node, which shows a possible Past Life connection (as an aside, I also share this with my Soulmate). Your North Node also squares his Venus.

Actually, some of the things are Double Whammies. You have that Jupiter-Saturn conjunction, but also have the Jupiter-Saturn Trine. Just as you have Mercury opposite Saturn, there is also the conjunction. Double Whammies are good signs in Synastry, especially with Soulmate relationships.

There is a possibility here, honestly. Check the position of the Vertex and Part of Fortune, in your Synastry. Also check out the Draconic Chart. Magi Astrology can be useful too, although pretty complicated. If you check the Transits and Progressions for when you met, you might see some cool stuff. And the Venus Return and Solar Return can be revealing.

Don't worry about what's happening now. If the both of you are truly Soulmates, it will work itself out. My Soulmate is actually in a relationship right now, and the two of us aren't supposed to get together for about a year. So, you're really lucky to be able to have this type of stuff happening to you (assuming you are both Soulmates).

I'll check this out more later. I'm really tired right now. However, I hope the little I've been able to provide can help. Like I said, I believe it's a possibility. Also, it might be the reason why he broke it off. If what the two of you feel/have felt is anywhere close to what I feel/have felt with my Soulmate, it's a really intense connection. That intensity can bother someone, and make them feel like they aren't ready for it.

If you ever want someone to talk to, I'm here. I know how difficult it can be to experience such an amazing connection, only to find yourself waiting for it to fully manifest. Soulmate relationships aren't really common. Waiting for a Soulmate relationship, once the person has already shown up, is both the best thing and the worst thing ever. There is a depth of faith, hope, and knowledge that it will work out in the end. However, you're reminded each day that no matter what happens to you, nothing will compare. Of course, I can't replace the amount of understanding and love that you have with your Soulmate (once again, assuming you are Soulmates), nor would I want to. But, I can still be here for support, and help give you motivation for why your Soulmate will be worth the wait.

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posted April 29, 2017 02:36 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for colorful butterfly     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
With the moon conjunct his SN , you would have been his child in his past life.

I had a relationship with a guy where his moon was on my SN. I liked him very much but seems like he would get upset about things that I did not understand but he was illusive sometimes so I would not take him very seriously. This was over a year and half ago the last time he got upset about somethings, we have not spoken since. He wanted a relationship, to get married and to have kids. I can not have anymore children. etc.

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posted April 29, 2017 12:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for TheTruthIsTheWay11     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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With the moon conjunct his SN , you would have been his child in his past life.

I had a relationship with a guy where his moon was on my SN. I liked him very much but seems like he would get upset about things that I did not understand but he was illusive sometimes so I would not take him very seriously. This was over a year and half ago the last time he got upset about somethings, we have not spoken since. He wanted a relationship, to get married and to have kids. I can not have anymore children. etc.


That's a common interpretation of Moon conjunct South Node, but not really true, based on my own experience. Like I said, I have it with my Soulmate, and we never had that type of Past Life connection. We also have Saturn conjunct the South Node, and that interpretation doesn't fit either. I don't think Past Lives are that simple. Maybe the energies of Moon conjunct South Node and Saturn conjunct South Node are present, but I don't believe you can tell someone's exact connection by looking at a Nodal connection. At least, not a Nodal connection by itself.

And there are a lot of positive things written about Moon conjunct South Node. While your experience might have been unpleasant, there is probably another Synastry aspect (or series of aspects) that explains your experience.

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posted April 29, 2017 02:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for onefish33     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
@TheTruthistheWay11

Thank you for taking the time to look at our charts and for your insight. The issue here is that he says he doesn't want commitment- not because he's seeing anyone else (but I know he's looking online) or because he has something with someone else, but because he's unstable in his job situation at the moment. Do you think we will get back together, since he dumped me during Mercury Retrograde transit?

Further, I'm somewhat amateur with the astrology stuff, but I do see a lot of connections when I see the Synastry and the Composite. I know we have Sun in 6th in the Composite, which doesn't make is balanced, but we had a very smooth relationship. The principal issue was that he was working overseas for a big portion of the time and now that we are back in the same city, he decided to break it up.

What do you think?

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posted April 29, 2017 02:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for onefish33     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
@Colorful Butterly

Thank you for looking at our charts. I really appreciate your comment.

Indeed while I see that his moon conjunct my South Node it didn't feel like I was his child. It felt more like we were comfortable with each emotionally or at least to me. Do you have other insights into our chart? Do you think we will get back together even though he dumped me during Mercury Retrograde transit?

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posted April 30, 2017 01:31 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for TheTruthIsTheWay11     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by onefish33:
@TheTruthistheWay11

Thank you for taking the time to look at our charts and for your insight. The issue here is that he says he doesn't want commitment- not because he's seeing anyone else (but I know he's looking online) or because he has something with someone else, but because he's unstable in his job situation at the moment. Do you think we will get back together, since he dumped me during Mercury Retrograde transit?

Further, I'm somewhat amateur with the astrology stuff, but I do see a lot of connections when I see the Synastry and the Composite. I know we have Sun in 6th in the Composite, which doesn't make is balanced, but we had a very smooth relationship. The principal issue was that he was working overseas for a big portion of the time and now that we are back in the same city, he decided to break it up.

What do you think?


I understand. What I mean is, in Soulmate relationships, you sometimes have "runners." People who can't handle the intensity, so they run. You said he's looking online. Wouldn't that contradict his statement that he doesn't want commitment right now? To me, it sounds like he's playing the role of the "runner." Assuming that you both are Soulmates, and the Astrology gives a good indication of that.

Your Vertex is at 10 degrees 40 minutes of Virgo, conjunct his Mars (your Juno conjuncts his Mars too). Of a lesser interest, your Pluto opposes his Vertex. Vertex connections show fate.

The Draconic Chart is the "Soul Chart." In Draconic-To-Draconic Synastry, your Venus opposes his Sun and Jupiter (your Mercury also opposes both). This shows a possible Past Life connection, related to love. There is also a Grand Trine between your Venus, his Mars, and his Moon. These are just a few examples of connections from the Draconic charts.

Your Asteroid Child conjuncts his North Node. His Asteroid Child conjuncts your Jupiter. I can't say for sure if this means that you're meant to have children together, but it's possible.

There's a lot of good stuff here. Have you looked at any videos on Soulmates? I can suggest a few, if you would like. I'm curious as to how closely you resonate with the Soulmate concept for your situation, Spiritually.

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posted April 30, 2017 07:14 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for waxlobster     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I was concerned by the Mercury-Saturn conjunction, then his Saturn opposing your Mercury-Venus. In itself this can bring longevity but you need to have 'fun' and enduring Moon or Venus or Jupiter connections to mitigate. However,actually you've got Neptune opposing his Moon and square his Mars which tells me he's going to vacillate between serious and confused with no strong warm communication between the two of you to allow this to be a spiritual bond, as opposed to him being unpredictable and unreliable (even deceptive).

Let me just say it doesn't matter *who* wants to be with you. Work out *your* gut feeling, your heart, let that make the decisions, never let flattery sway you. Any man can be flattering, not any man knows who you are and how to love you.

As your Saturn is largely unaspected and rules yours Asc it is important for you to be with a man whose chart integrates your Saturn. You will best be suited to a guy with a good amount of air, to stimulate your own but with a water planet trine your Saturn.

Take care :-)

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posted April 30, 2017 10:07 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for onefish33     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
With respects to the Soulmate connections- yes, I completely believe in that. However, I do think that we could have more than 1 Soulmate in this lifetime and they are not necessarily your husband...it could be a best friend, even a parent.

With respects to the Vertex connections, I have researched this and these connections lead me to believe that there is something fated to this connection and that "we're meant to be".

The "running" concept that you mention is alive and true & I believe it's because we have Pluto conjunct Pluto between our charts. However, he is looking for stability. So, maybe this will be with me or without me.

I'm a Jupiterian in Babylonic astrology because of my birthday, so I know that if this connection is for my highest good then it will pan out. He is a Venesuan, so yes...very charming, graceful, etc, but don't know have more information other than that.

I don't know much about Draconian charts and/or Asteroid child, but I do know that there are a lot of connections with our MC, IC, and Descendant....which are usually present in charts of people who get married.

His background is that he was married to an Aquarian (don't know her rising or her chart) for about 7 years and have a 2.5 year old kid. His Moon in 8th house has not been good to him, since his mom basically left him to be with another man (not her husband) when we has 12. So....he feels "betrayed" by women.

When you get a chance I would very much like to see the Soulmate videos you mentioned. I'm opened to researching more about this guy, since he does meet many things I would like in a soulmate. Thanks so much for your insight.

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posted April 30, 2017 10:13 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for onefish33     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
@Waxlobster

Thank you for your insight into our charts. The Mercury Saturn connection has actually played out in a way that we talk a lot....all the time. And we talk about anything from politics to meditation.

Yes, there is a strong serious tone to our relationship, but at the same time it's because in our essence we are more serious than "fun". I am concerned about what you mentioned was a deceptive aspect, but realize that no chart/person is perfect.

What do you think about the other connections in our charts? I think the Saturn element with him does play out because he is serious.

Yes....I will listen to my gut, but open to more of your insight as well. Thanks so much, Onefish33

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posted May 01, 2017 03:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for TheTruthIsTheWay11     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by onefish33:
With respects to the Soulmate connections- yes, I completely believe in that. However, I do think that we could have more than 1 Soulmate in this lifetime and they are not necessarily your husband...it could be a best friend, even a parent.

With respects to the Vertex connections, I have researched this and these connections lead me to believe that there is something fated to this connection and that "we're meant to be".

The "running" concept that you mention is alive and true & I believe it's because we have Pluto conjunct Pluto between our charts. However, he is looking for stability. So, maybe this will be with me or without me.

I'm a Jupiterian in Babylonic astrology because of my birthday, so I know that if this connection is for my highest good then it will pan out. He is a Venesuan, so yes...very charming, graceful, etc, but don't know have more information other than that.

I don't know much about Draconian charts and/or Asteroid child, but I do know that there are a lot of connections with our MC, IC, and Descendant....which are usually present in charts of people who get married.

His background is that he was married to an Aquarian (don't know her rising or her chart) for about 7 years and have a 2.5 year old kid. His Moon in 8th house has not been good to him, since his mom basically left him to be with another man (not her husband) when we has 12. So....he feels "betrayed" by women.

When you get a chance I would very much like to see the Soulmate videos you mentioned. I'm opened to researching more about this guy, since he does meet many things I would like in a soulmate. Thanks so much for your insight.


There aren't any official rules on Lindaland, aside from not being rude, racist, etc. So I'm hoping these videos don't get removed haha.

Soulmate Stories
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SQTe34KxAOE
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xUOzYD7pYT4
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cFlk0Z6cVbQ

^^ While some people tend to use the term "Soulmate" very loosely (in modern society), these stories match what happens. So, I believe that these are genuine Soulmate stories.

Here is a good "Soulmate Signs" video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nCC1w8NVYXQ. Her whole channel is pretty good, and she has quite a few videos on Soulmates. Although, while I don't believe everything she says is totally accurate, most of it is.

These will give you a really good idea of how Soulmate relationships are like, and if your experience is comparable. Also, while some of what happens might seem far-fetched, or unlikely, you'd be surprised what happens when Soulmates meet each other.

<3

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posted May 02, 2017 12:12 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for onefish33     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
@Truth...Thanks so much for sending me the videos. I will look into them.

Do you have any astrological insight into the charts? Do you believe people return when they have broken up during mercury retrograde?

Thanks so much, Onefish33

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Best of luck for you!!

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Your Sun is conjunct his Dsc, his Asc ruler Mercury is conjunct your Dsc and your Asc ruler Saturn. Your luminaries make strong aspects to his Dsc ruler Neptune.
Initially there was probably high mutual interest but his Dsc ruler Neptune is square his Mars and you don't have Arian energy in your chart. His Moon is unaspected by your planets and his Venus except for a trine, too. This is a red flag. That's why he probably changed his mind. You don't "bind" his female planets to you.

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I agree; his unaspected Moon is rather unfortunate and there has to be something stronger to his Venus than your Neptune, as he has Venus trine Neptune natally.

I believe ultimately things work out for our best interest.

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posted May 05, 2017 10:41 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for onefish33     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Bump!

What does Bump mean? I'm not too familiar with these forums.

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