posted January 25, 2017 12:07 PM            

Bright side: All that Saturn will save you from frivolous, meaningless friendships/relationships that wouldn't satisfy your Scorp stellium anyway. --> Holds true for moi.

I too get along with people who are not of my age group - for similar reasons. Their Saturn squares my Sun-Merc-Mars stellium.

I find that it eases up if people are even as little as a year or two younger or older. The farther from my age, the better. But good news is that it doesn't *have* to be very far. Unless you like that (I do).

It's okay, you'll find people who --
a.) ARE of your age group, but have nicer aspects (Venus/Merc/Jupiter) to balance out the cold wall of rejection that is Saturn. Or..
b.) are slightly younger or older, and the Saturn effect is diluted - so the positive aspects are felt more clearly. Or..
c.) are very much older or younger and their Saturn, despite landing in your 5th, makes some nice sextiles(?) or trines to your planets.

Does your own Saturn square your stellium? Coz I have that in natal, which is why I can't stand it from other people too. Feels like all that negativity is "piled on". If you have that in your natal, you're likely hard enough on yourself as it is.
Get yourself some lovely Jupiter in synastry and you'll find your spirits lifting.

posted January 25, 2017 12:34 PM            

I do also get along with much older people on a friendly basis, very rare on a romantic level though as most people who don't have a Saturn Aqua, Sag and Cap are older and already settled

I'm hoping the B) option is most likely and what's giving me most hope.

Plan C I don't think will work because Cap Saturn opposes my Moon and squares my Venus and Jupiter in Libra. Maybe a sag Saturn wouldn't be as bad but that wouldn't trine anything so maybe that's a good thing as it won't be as activated?

posted January 25, 2017 12:39 PM            

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Originally posted by astrosaz:
Thank you for giving me some optimism and replying to my post <3 I feel better already knowing I'm not alone. I know that sounds over dramatic, but I just feel sad knowing others Saturn's either fall in my house of Fun, Romance and Creativity or square my stellium.

I do also get along with much older people on a friendly basis, very rare on a romantic level though as most people who don't have a Saturn Aqua, Sag and Cap are older and already settled

I'm hoping the B) option is most likely and what's giving me most hope.

Plan C I don't think will work because Cap Saturn opposes my Moon and squares my Venus and Jupiter in Libra. Maybe a sag Saturn wouldn't be as bad but that wouldn't trine anything so maybe that's a good thing as it won't be as activated?

I have two aspects squaring my Saturn, Mars and Pluto. I don't really know what those aspects mean, I'd associate them with anger which is weird because I'm not an aggressive person at all haha but certainly don't want them in Synastry which is of course rare hence some of the worry in this post

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Glad I could help, somewhat.

I know what you mean, most older folks are already settled. There's plenty of options though..

posted January 25, 2017 12:53 PM            

Hopefully I'll meet someone with a Saturn in Pisces in a few years that'll sweep me off my feet oneday

posted January 26, 2017 12:20 AM            

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Originally posted by astrosaz:
I've never met anyone with a Saturn in Pisces which is strange, I think it's cause they are a little younger and my Venus Trine Saturn in the 7th makes me attracted to someone more mature.

Hopefully I'll meet someone with a Saturn in Pisces in a few years that'll sweep me off my feet oneday

Well I definitely don't have a vicious Scorpio renowned tongue so that Mars Square Saturn must help me somewhat

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I have a Saturn in Pisces that's also in the 7th, trine Venus, and a Mars opposite Saturn..! (are you also a leo rising with a cap vertex in the 5th?)