posted January 26, 2017 07:07 PM            

There is one guy out there, my parents are edging me to meet him. So I'm not that keen but ok, I decided to check out the synastry first and he's an Aries so I'm thinking.. maybe he's got some Pisces in his chart too (something I'm after - Piscean Arian, because my Dsc is in Aries, Mars in Pisces). Then I saw lots of Aries and immediately thought of my best friend - she has both Mars and Venus in Aries. So I checked their synastry out as well. Now I don't really want to meet him anymore ))

Me and him - 1st image
Him and my friend - 2nd image
He's on the outside in both, his birth time unknown

posted January 27, 2017 03:02 PM            

well, do a favour to your friend, introduce them to each other. heaven will pay you back with a better match...

posted January 27, 2017 03:06 PM            

Instead, his Saturn-Neptune sextile her piscis sun. I suspect that the neptunian side of her would be very attractive to him. he does not connect much with your saturnian side as he cannot feel it so deeply.

and she has piscis sun-mercury which resonates with his Neptune in 7th

I am not expert about angles connection, but for what I have read from others, this connection between your IC and his DC with his two 7th planets in your IC, it seems to me it is very powerful connection. would like someone with experience on this to comment...

posted January 27, 2017 04:43 PM            

For me to introduce him to my friend means meeting Him first, which I'm not so interested in anymore )) Aaaand, their synastry looks too sexual to me (he's casting his planets in her 5th and 8th house!, Moon Mars dw, Mars Venus conjunction). My friend is married..and I suspect not happily married but that's nothing but my suspicion for now. You can imagine where their acquaintance might end..right?

posted January 27, 2017 05:20 PM            

This is why it is dangerous to start analyzing a synastry so soon, because now you will project unfair assumptions onto him based on your (and our) analysis here.

You're forgetting there is so much more to it than just this synastry - composite, progressed synastry/composite, transits, davison, etc. etc. etc.

How could you possibly know how it will turn out, without even meeting him?

I say go for it anyway. See how it goes. Even if no sparks fly at least you will have a good time and maybe make a new friend.

As far as casting synastry with your married friend...that seems a little odd. Even more damaging it has now doubly caused you to reconsider meeting him because of how their relationship would perceivably be better than yours. But she is married, first and foremost! Happy or not, that is a huge.

posted January 27, 2017 06:19 PM            

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Originally posted by margym0o:
Well, keep in mind a couple's synastry is merely POTENTIAL and not necessarily a concrete guide to how any one interaction will play out (the same goes for a natal chart, for that matter). I'm sure you've seen time and time again on this forum synastries that are a real head-scratcher (for better or worse) because nothing is certain.

This is why it is dangerous to start analyzing a synastry so soon, because now you will project unfair assumptions onto him based on your (and our) analysis here.

You're forgetting there is so much more to it than just this synastry - composite, progressed synastry/composite, transits, davison, etc. etc. etc.

How could you possibly know how it will turn out, without even meeting him?

I say go for it anyway. See how it goes. Even if no sparks fly at least you will have a good time and maybe make a new friend.

As far as casting synastry with your married friend...that seems a little odd. Even more damaging it has now doubly caused you to reconsider meeting him because of how their relationship would perceivably be better than yours. But she is married, first and foremost! Happy or not, that is a huge.

Keep in mind, even brothers & sisters can have textbook romantic synastry but it will manifest in a different way (obviously).

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posted January 28, 2017 03:52 AM            

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Originally posted by CapriciousCapricorn:
His birth time is unknown. Only me and my friend's birth time is correct. So I don't know his Asc.

For me to introduce him to my friend means meeting Him first, which I'm not so interested in anymore )) Aaaand, their synastry looks too sexual to me (he's casting his planets in her 5th and 8th house!, Moon Mars dw, Mars Venus conjunction). My friend is married..and I suspect not happily married but that's nothing but my suspicion for now. You can imagine where their acquaintance might end..right?

Anyways, if I do meet him, I'll keep him in mind for the future (my friend's future lol) just in case he's needed ))

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without his time of birth, you only know how he affects you both but not the other way around. in that case, just meet him and forget about the chart and leaves things to the universe.

not wanting to meet him because he has better synastry with someone without having all his data is self-defeating.