posted January 28, 2017 12:55 AM            

Why do i feel so drawn to them?What am i here to teach them and vice versa?How can i help teach them?What's the past life karma between me and each of them?

Thank you very much todd!

composite 1:Me and guy 1

composite 2:Me and guy 2

composite 3:Guy 1 and guy 2

posted January 28, 2017 05:04 PM            

the first comp shows Saturn square to Uranus ,so it seems a past life was ended abruptly with unfinished business.it likely was a stressful time.
with nessus and pluto square to the node,it would seem he had a absolute control(or wanted absolute control)over you. there is a strong attractions and with mars conjunct to eros and square the moon, but it seems very harsh, as your attraction seems to be mingled with fear.it seems he is someone that controlled you in the past and now you are emotionally attracted to him out of "fear".

the second composite is very similar as pluto is conjunct to nessus. here again there is a controlling abusive past but pluto and nessus are trine to the mars/venus conjunction and sextile to Neptune and the node, so there seems to be a stronger healing consciousness between you. the first comp seems to show you want to be controlled whereas this composite implies a growth and learning through and beyond these o psychic chains.
with eros conjunct to psyche and square to karma, this is easily the most attractive emotionally of the two. this suggest that in a past life, you may have be in love as children, as there is an innocence of love.
in this life time the attraction is very strong emotionally/sexually/mentally and it seems mutual, that is ,he does not want to control you rather to love you.
but here the sun is opposed to Saturn and square Uranus which shows an unstable relationship, one which will not last.
in a past life you may have been betrothed or married but something unavoidable in the environment separated you.
I would think there are family resistance to this relationship.

the third chart suggest these guys are friends with mars.venus conjunct and opposed to Neptune. but they may be from different clan,social or cultural groups.
they actually seem to be good friends as mercury/Saturn/sun stellium is trine to Jupiter

you might find named asteroids for the 3 of you and add them to a 3 way composite.

todd

posted January 29, 2017 03:33 AM            

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Originally posted by todd:
hi
you questions are quite broad and far reaching, I am not sure I can give a concise analysis or answer specifically what and why about these charts, so I will just make a few comments that seem appropriate.

the first comp shows Saturn square to Uranus ,so it seems a past life was ended abruptly with unfinished business.it likely was a stressful time.
with nessus and pluto square to the node,it would seem he had a absolute control(or wanted absolute control)over you. there is a strong attractions and with mars conjunct to eros and square the moon, but it seems very harsh, as your attraction seems to be mingled with fear.it seems he is someone that controlled you in the past and now you are emotionally attracted to him out of "fear".

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So this means there is some unfinished business between us two..ie some past life karma to be worked out so to speak?

And yes in this life he does seem very possessive over me and wants to dictate who i'm friends with(ie he doesn't like me being friends with another person and wants me to stop being friends with that person.)Though it's not as strong since he's much younger than i am but it's quite surprising given his age.

Is there anything that can be done to settle this karma ?
In other words,what can i do so i don't fall under his control once again?

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the second composite is very similar as pluto is conjunct to nessus. here again there is a controlling abusive past but pluto and nessus are trine to the mars/venus conjunction and sextile to Neptune and the node, so there seems to be a stronger healing consciousness between you. the first comp seems to show you want to be controlled whereas this composite implies a growth and learning through and beyond these o psychic chains.
with eros conjunct to psyche and square to karma, this is easily the most attractive emotionally of the two. this suggest that in a past life, you may have be in love as children, as there is an innocence of love.
in this life time the attraction is very strong emotionally/sexually/mentally and it seems mutual, that is ,he does not want to control you rather to love you.
but here the sun is opposed to Saturn and square Uranus which shows an unstable relationship, one which will not last.
in a past life you may have been betrothed or married but something unavoidable in the environment separated you.
I would think there are family resistance to this relationship.

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Well in this life,he's like a brother to me(He is a neighbour's son) and a couple years younger than me but from what i can tell he does care about me very much as an older sister though i haven't felt it to be romantic at all..more towards sisterly/motherly feelings.

Unlike the first one,with whom his actions felt to be romantic but now perhaps i was confusing controlling/possessive behaviour with actual romantic feelings.

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the third chart suggest these guys are friends with mars.venus conjunct and opposed to Neptune. but they may be from different clan,social or cultural groups.
they actually seem to be good friends as mercury/Saturn/sun stellium is trine to Jupiter

you might find named asteroids for the 3 of you and add them to a 3 way composite.

todd

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The third composite is interesting for in this life these two guys are brothers.Perhaps in a past life they were friends and fought for my affection hence why this theme is continued in this life as well.

The one that concerns me the most is with guy 1,the first composite.Even at his age,he's been very controlling and possessive of me and i don't think it's gonna get less the older he gets.

What can i do to solve this issue?Is there any hope?

posted January 29, 2017 03:59 PM            

if you are seriously looking for a soul mate then you should choose the one that is trying to enhance your abilities and goals in this life. soul mates are not sex buddies. the relationship needs to have a over riding meaning for the both of you besides just pairing off.that is you must both grow as souls.

posted January 30, 2017 12:30 PM            

For example,with guy 1(The first composite),he reminds me a lot of myself when i was his age,and i feel like i can make a difference in his life.Steer him away from going down the same path i did so to speak.

With guy 2(composite 2),i feel he's like a brother to me and i do care about him very much.And yes he's much more approachable and listens to me much more than his brother does.

I do not want a romantic relationship with either guy so that's out of the question here.Just i'm at my wits ends in dealing with both of them especially guy 1.

And also face the same controlling behaviour from the girl in the composite below.I'm not surprised to see that we have saturn square uranus which you have said is unfinished past life karma.

If its not too much,please give your views on this composite above

and the multi composite of me with the two guys below.Thank you very much todd.

posted February 11, 2017 02:30 PM            

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Originally posted by Aurora_girl1990:
Oh..did I say something wrong or ask too much?

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you didn't say anything wrong, it is just that this is ,as I said , a no win situation. they are brothers.....I just don't feel like commenting on your phantasies about these guys.
todd