posted February 05, 2017 12:45 PM
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Originally posted by todd:
hi zzr1
have you asked about this relationship before? it just seems very familiar.I looked at the composite chart for your relationship with him.
first off, a marriage looks unadvisable as the Uranus/Jupiter midpoint is square to the nodal axis. this is a aspect of instability and breakup.
it is interesting that you and he are not physically intimate because sexuality is actulall very strong between you as the eris.venus midpoint is also square the noal axis. this pattern is extremely sexual but rather unstable also.
between these two patterns it seems that the once the sexual connection is made that the relationship ,,marriage or not will end.
eros is square to Uranus and the midpoint is conjunct to mars, so this also reinforces the concept that the sexual tension is strong but that it would not turn into a intmate emotional love.
there is a favorable moon sextile to mars and trine to venus, which is conducive to a supportive and loving feeling for each together .this aspect tends to shows that you and he harmonize very well and fit into social situations well also. it is quite loving but I am not sure this pattern could override the other dissonant aspects .
a major block in this composite is that nessus is conjunct the sun. this is a very unfavorable aspect as it shows a likely abusive relationship/marriage after the smoke clears.
Neptune is square to the sun and nessus, which can show the racial differences between you but the aspects midpoint is conjunct to the ascendant which implies that there are conditions which are not being made clear that would affect the relationship. this is a very deceptive aspect.
on top of this sedan is square to Orcus which again bodes a withholding of elements or emotional issues that would affect this relationship.
the Jupiter/juno midpoint is conjunct orcus also and this is not favorable because it bodes a repressive marriage and a underlying cold and controlling attitude.this is somewhat confusing because the eros/psyche midpoint is opposed to the juno/Jupiter midpoint which actually shows a very idealist and romantic feeling about marriage.
there is also a rather ominous aspect with the sun/moon midpoint conjunct the ixion/pluto midpoint in the 12th house.
this tends to show that the relationship will be involved with "dangerous" family or social feuding. this aspect shows hostile social conditions not of your making but rather "inherited" through circumstance or family.this aspect makes me skeptical that you and he would live freely in his home land.this could also apply to your personal situation ,meaning you may be a expatriate because of problems back in Scotland
the vertex is conjunct the ascendant which always brings other worldly feelings into a relationship. this aspect shows that you and he ,though different , have has very similar coincidental or synchronistic experiences . situations that seem to link you in a karmic or destinical manner.
I added the named asteroid Amelia and it is conjunct the south node and square to eris and venus which implies that you are more sexually interested in him that you realize.
so I think this would be a disaster if you marrying him. he would not fulfill your sexual expectations and the marriage would never last.
todd
Hi Todd, no I didn't ask specifically about this person before, but something related.
Before I came to Portugal, I had my tarot read and was told I would have to make a decision between two people. One being older than me + more stable, and one being around my own age who we had a lot to teach each other. I knew the older one was my ex from Scotland. The person same age I knew I'd meet in Portugal. I tried to take the knowledge from the tarot into my own hands and when I met the person before (who also happened to be celebit, a shaman type and who I thought to myself should be Asian/looked a bit Asian) I thought they were this younger person I was to meet.
Actually what you predicted was totally correct, nothing came of it and we did not travel together. I'm impressed by what you can read with these things !
Having thought I had sorted out the message from the tarot, I invited my ex to join me in Portugal. One week before he was to come, I was at a festival type thing near a beach. I meet this witch girl who was sitting in a pentagram she'd drawn in the sand, and she told me a few things. One is that I am on my last life and sent here by elementals, the other was that I was going to have to make a decision between two people, one older one younger, and that me and the younger one had a lot to teach each other.
I was upset by this message because I thought I'd solved it. I was sitting in the woods after, upset and asking the universe for a sign. I see a ladybird on my tent, a week before I'd had a meditation with thousands of ladybirds eating away the walls of my old bedroom and putting me into a forest. So I recognised it was some kind of message. On the other bit of my tent, there was a green worm. The green worm approached the ladybird, and the ladybird went to the worm and ate it. It walked on. I got up still a bit panicked by the news I'd just received because my ex was coming in one week.
I'm walking and I hear someone shouting my name that I'm called a lot which is zero. He was shouting on his cat. I approach n say that's my name. The guy was glowing and I found him very beautiful, he gave me his contact and that was the last of it.
My ex came to Portugal and it was all very uncomfortable. I was living in his van and we had very bad communication issues. He knew about this decision I'd been told about. After a while I said to him I would rather be alone than be in the situation with him. I look at my phone and I have a message somehow from this guy. Id been told by my own cards I was gonna meet this other person soon. I travelled south to meet them.
So do you think Ive not to trust this guy ? I managed to make him dream again, he hadn't had dreams in a few years. There's been other people who have started to dream again sleeping near me. Also shown him how to do 3rd eye journeying, he's very interested in exploring the inner worlds but more with outside influences such as dmt and I have been showing him we can achieve the same things just with our own minds. He has helped start a creative spark in me, gave me somewhere to live and some stability in a hectic environment to do creative work (make jewellery to sell on the street) and brought me friendship and more of a social circle.
You think that if a sexual relationship starts that is the end of things ?
"there is also a rather ominous aspect with the sun/moon midpoint conjunct the ixion/pluto midpoint in the 12th house."
Yes there has been a few experiences, since he is a street musician and friends with all the drunk musicians on the street, of people being aggressive and scary. It has been generally fine but I think he attracts some dark characters/has a crow like personality himself. I thought maybe him being Capricorn I find in general quite negative pessimistic vibe, with the Aquarius thought processes.. he has no water planets.. I have a lot. I don't know how to look further than this with why he's pessimistic/dark attitude.
" the aspects midpoint is conjunct to the ascendant which implies that there are conditions which are not being made clear that would affect the relationship. this is a very deceptive aspect"
What kind of conditions ? I have also had deception cards pulled when asking about him in the tarot. I told him I pulled these cards and he doesn't know. I do watch and analyse him to try figure out, but I don't know.. he seems like a sweet person, with a crow character.
My ex from Scotland told me he went to my tarot reader and she said it was not the last for us, we were together many years in Scotland before, and that first he had to meet a girl from America, and later in time we'd be back together. Here is his chart, what do you think about that ?
Not sure what to think or do 
Lindaland
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