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Topic: Was this foreseeable?
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fatatabata
Knowflake Posts: 70
From: Paris - France
Registered: Jun 2016
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posted February 07, 2017 11:07 AM
 
Hi everyone! I have a few questions for you, hoping you can help me to understand this relationship! I'm kind of shocked by what happended this morning and i'd love to get guidance from you, please...Few hints: I feel I could SEE throught him, his strenghts and his weaknesses. And I was scared by neather. And that in this Synastry a well balanced Plutonina/Uranian/Saturnian flawor was springing for me to feel excited AND grounded at the same time... Question for you: seeing this synastry first off, what are the main themes that come up to your mind?!? ps. a little background. We met and it's been attraction, bang. Energetic attraction, and mental attraction. We met again and it has been more than kissing. His energy is raw BUT not everything is working perfectly down there. Quite surprising.
Nevertheless conversation never cheased, intense and smart, and we met again few times. He adored me, we were very much energetically and sexually in tune. We were also mentally attracted.
Then, with no warning signs coming from him and few days after his last wonderful message, he abruptedly ended our relationship this mornning. By sms...
Why, how, again why?
Thank you guys! ps2. His time of birth is unknown, only supposed. Mine is accurate. I'm in the inside part of the chart IP: Logged |
fatatabata
Knowflake Posts: 70
From: Paris - France
Registered: Jun 2016
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posted February 07, 2017 06:49 PM
All right. My turn first, right?
Are Moon-Sun contacts and Saturn-Jupiter contact enough to create balance on that Venus-Venus-Uranus contact?
What do you think?Second note: there's a huge sexual chemistry and powerful attraction between the 2 charts. Is it such attraction enough to keep 2 people together for longer than few encounters? IP: Logged |
girlwiththerainysoul
Knowflake Posts: 963
From: CH
Registered: Jul 2016
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posted February 08, 2017 02:54 AM
hi fatatabata!in the synastry I see your saturn unaspected, and his saturn square your mercury, the ruler of both your sun and his. challenges in this relationship are bigger than the normal personal or intimacy problems. there is more of a fundamental clash of social beliefs, and ideas about lifestyles in general. urnaus/venus or uranus/moon aspects alone will not break up a couple if there are supporting jupiter and saturn aspects, especially when the relationship is between people both having passed their 30. jupiters are square, and there's a pluto/saturn square as well, but there's also a jupiter/saturn trine, which alone may not help the saturn/pluto square, especially since he already has natal saturn/pluto square, he might say to himself, oh not again, I won't live this aspect again, as he might have noticed the same problems and challenges he faced in life before this relationship. the same applies to his natal sun/neptune square and the way your sun also squares his neptune. difficult communication with the mercury/saturn aspect, along with some sort of lack of boundaries, might have finally had him end things. and the theme was definitely sudden with those venus/uranus aspects. I hope this helps! but all in all, if you believe the relationship was productive for the both of you, try to get back in touch with him and demand a clear answer, as to why he ended it, because you deserve it. IP: Logged |
fatatabata
Knowflake Posts: 70
From: Paris - France
Registered: Jun 2016
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posted February 08, 2017 08:34 AM
Hi girlwiththerainysoul!
And thank you for having taken the time to post your point of view, I very much appreciated it.wow, what an epiphany. I was more focused on the Mars or Venus aspects, looking for aspects of attraction between me and him (there are a few!) and skipping completely all the dealbreakers and the pretty tough patterns on HIS natal chart (Saturn squaring Venus and Pluto, arsh aspects of Neptune...) and on the mirrored Synastry.
Thanks so much, you've been amazing. I don't think I will get in touch again, I really got to understand that HIS natal chart shows a person who suffered a lot. I saw his heart and his pains and tried to touch his soul for healing. But it was just NOT possible, he wouldn' t allow me to get too close to his heart. I can't heal him.
And he could be very critical at times, but I wasn't much affected, my self esteen is pretty solid.
I wouldn't want to enter into his power struggling games, I wasn't weak enough for him to dominate me.
Though, I was mesmerised and completely under his sexual spell.
He was therefore VERY attracted to me, but I think that in his mind I wasn't what he was looking for (Square Saturn/Venus and Saturn/Pluto are not easy to handle...compulsive sex and abstinence...powerful attraction and need to get away from such powerful attraction) I sort of loved him, thought. I really, deeply, cared for him.
He's gone. IP: Logged |
fatatabata
Knowflake Posts: 70
From: Paris - France
Registered: Jun 2016
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posted February 08, 2017 09:46 AM
And that Moon/Uranus square on my tender Moon in Cancer, omg!IP: Logged |
girlwiththerainysoul
Knowflake Posts: 963
From: CH
Registered: Jul 2016
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posted February 08, 2017 10:03 AM
dear fatatabata,sorry for your loss of this person. it must have hurt. unfortunately personal problems often overshadow our perspective of the good parts of a relationship, because it is so easy to get caught up in one's own world, and refuse to see and consider the other party's side as equally. I wish you better relationships to come, and I'm sure they will! IP: Logged |
fatatabata
Knowflake Posts: 70
From: Paris - France
Registered: Jun 2016
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posted February 08, 2017 10:38 AM
Dear Girlwith,thank you so much, you're adorable (and very skilled with regards to Astrology!). Thank you! IP: Logged |
girlwiththerainysoul
Knowflake Posts: 963
From: CH
Registered: Jul 2016
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posted February 08, 2017 11:09 AM
 thanks dear! I'm really just a knowflake still learning from LL people you're very welcome  IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
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posted February 08, 2017 04:18 PM
quote:
Originally posted by girlwiththerainysoul:
thanks dear! I'm really just a knowflake still learning from LL people you're very welcome
You gave wonderful help, Girl! I did charts for a full year in Personal readings before I ever did a professional chart. I never knew I would be an astrologer. I just followed my passion. The more you do charts, the more you will grow and it is a lovely personal interchange with other people  ------------------
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fatatabata
Knowflake Posts: 70
From: Paris - France
Registered: Jun 2016
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posted March 03, 2017 02:25 PM
Just a short update.
This man contacted me again.
As childish as this may seem, I was sure he would try to get in touch again, sooner or later. And it happened.
I'm no more under his spell, I haven't appreciated his way to get out from the relationship, so I will not allow any space for him to get any closer.
I've learned something new from him, I'm therefore grateful to him.
But no more space or energies are to be spent on him.
As someone said "Nothing enters our lives that is not in some way connected with our individual journey"
So thank you to him and goodbye Thanks to all of you for taking the time to read my post and write a comment. IP: Logged |
fatatabata
Knowflake Posts: 70
From: Paris - France
Registered: Jun 2016
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posted March 03, 2017 03:05 PM
This, just to tell you that I value astrology and your interpretations so much that I succeeded in putting a clear light on what happenend between me and him (and on his personality, of course). Txs againIP: Logged | |
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