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posted February 14, 2017 11:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Belage     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
We need to have a support forum for Uranus influenced charts.

J/K

There is a 12 year difference between you 2. The Uranian influence on your chart can make things exciting, but can also make the relationship ends suddenly because Uranus is unpredictable. Uranus doesn't like closeness and bonding, so those 3 days spent together in a cabin may have been too much for your Uranus in 7th transit.

The other thing is, are you aware of the upcoming Venus retro transit? Check out a thread we have on it in the forum. The shadow phase has already started, and I believe transiting Venus is going to station on your Venus and his Jupiter conjunction before it goes retro, so it's going to be especially significant for you, and also for him as it will also square his Saturn/Venus conjunction.

lastly, remember that Uranus is not this planet outside of us that's doing things to us. When it transits in a house in our chart, it reflects a part of our psyche that is experiencing Uranian longings regarding that house. So Uranus transiting your 7th house means that you are strongly attracted to exciting and offbeat relationships but at the same time, you don't want to get too close. Look deep inside and own that about yourself. It doesn't mean that you will always be this way. No. You don't have Uranus in 7th natally. But it is a phase you are going through and since Uranus is slow moving, this phase is going to last longer than a change of hair color.

Anyway, wishing you good luck!

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posted February 15, 2017 08:52 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks for all your wonderful help, B.

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posted February 15, 2017 10:31 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
His Moon does not aspect your chart. That, to me, is a deal killer in any relationship because the deep souls of the people are not understood, in my opinion.

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posted February 15, 2017 11:12 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for CapriciousCapricorn     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by featherlightly:


I guess what I'm asking is, do our charts really looked doomed together or am I somehow sabotaging something incredible?!



The latter but nobody can blame you. You know better how you feel. If it doesn't feel right then it doesn't. But this synastry is too good. No way this is the end of your romance. Maybe for now it is. Why not just blame it on retro Venus (if there's some explanation you want to find) I think you will be back together. The most worrying thing is Uranus square your Moon and all the Uranus oppositions in composite. His Uranus in 7H/on the Dsc is well-aspected in his chart (right?) so he will simply like change within relationship, something that will keep it alive, exciting, never boring etc. The example of the right person for him (someone who supports that need of his and embraces it) would be a girl whose personal planet/s trine his Uranus. In your case, his needs for excitement are not met and you're left disappointed because you will misinterpret his intentions. He will seem unreliable and flighty rather than simply wanting a dynamic relationship with you. Something like that. But that's just one problematic aspect of an otherwise fantastic synastry.

Interesting what happens between you two once Venus is back in direct motion. Also, what aspects is transiting Uranus making in your chart at the moment? Transit of Uranus through your 7H on its own, without taking aspects into account is not enough to decide that it's responsible for relationship problems.

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posted February 15, 2017 11:57 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Belage     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Thanks for all your wonderful help, B.



You're welcome, Ami. but I am still working on giving up astrology, lol.

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posted February 15, 2017 12:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Belage     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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His Moon does not aspect your chart. That, to me, is a deal killer in any relationship because the deep souls of the people are not understood, in my opinion.



Good points.

I noticed a quincunx of his moon to her mars. I wish it was a tighter orb than 3 degrees. I wonder if it does something.

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posted February 15, 2017 02:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
The quincunx does not count toward the subject of Unaspected planets in the natal, B. I have an Unaspected Venus. I like the Moon to have a strong aspect(s) in the synastry chart cuz I think when it is all said and done, people in close relationships bond child to child, which is moon to moon. Mercury/ Moon seems to be a second alternative.

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posted February 15, 2017 04:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You want to give up astrology, B?

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posted February 15, 2017 09:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Belage     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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You want to give up astrology, B?



Eventually, yeah.

I would like to just wake up in the morning, say a prayer and put my trust in God who created the stars in the sky, and then go about my day doing the right thing, without checking astrology to obsess about what the stars are doing.

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posted February 15, 2017 10:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Belage     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Holy cow, thank you SO much. This was really helpful. I was completely unaware of the Venus transit and you're right, it's going to be affecting those mid-Aries degrees pretty strongly -- dang -- that explains a lot!

Great advice in your last paragraph as well. SO spot on! I've noticed a real shift in my approach to relationships since this transit started and find myself engaging with people where I know it can't last (I've typically been long-term oriented in the past).

I really appreciate your post, Belage!


You're welcome, featherlightly.

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posted February 16, 2017 08:11 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
B

I don't do transits for that reason. Once in a while, I will check them but I want to depend on God and not Astrology, but I can feel the transits anyway. Do you think the transits make you the most obsessed? I think natal and synastry really helps to understand God and His plans.

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posted February 16, 2017 04:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Belage     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
A.

My chart doesn't really help me understand God and his plan. I have a 7th house stellium of personal planets, including a combust Venus in its fall. I have Jupiter square Saturn. I have Saturn in 8th. I have Sun and Venus square nodes. The one positive I have is Jupiter and pluto in 6th, granting me amazing health and great body to live a long miserable life. Oh joy.

A vedic astrologer told me last year I am blessed (I am being sarcastic here) with a Dur Yoga. Basically, " One who has Dur Yoga is not supposed to derive benefits of his own efforts. Therefore no matter how much efforts the native puts in his work the results will not be favourable . Others may even take the credit for his work. Appreciation and rewards will not be bestowed upon the native with such yoga." Yep, story of my life.

So being Jupiterian/Neptunian (Pisces rising), i have to step back and let go of astrology and put my faith in the One who created the stars and their shenanigans and I have to trust that it is all good. and I cannot do that if I am checking the stars, the lunations, potential partners charts etc...

So yeah, I am getting close to pulling the plug astrologically. It's a wonderful tool but when your chart feels blocked, it doesn't really help.

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posted February 16, 2017 05:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yea, B, there are some life things that our earth minds cannot understand.

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posted February 16, 2017 05:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Belage     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ami, I am actually in a happy place, so mine is not a sob story.

If anything, my chart and life have taught me not to put my happiness and faith in anything material like success, career, romantic relationships, marriage, children, friends, money, home, possessions, other people, etc... God has provided me with everything I needed so far, even though it has not always been what I wanted, and He will continue to do so.

Like I said, I am in a happy place once I have let go of desire to control my destiny through astrology and put my trust in God.

Maybe that was the purpose of my chart all along. Lol.

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That is good to hear, B. It would be sad at LL without you, though, so selfishly, I hope you stay, but I understand what you are saying.

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posted February 16, 2017 05:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for CapriciousCapricorn     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Oh, Belage (( I thought you were joking about giving up astrology. Maybe' you're just going through a rough time. This too shall pass, hopefully.

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posted February 16, 2017 05:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Belage     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks Ami and CapriciousCap

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posted February 18, 2017 06:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for jjj     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Maybe someone already mentioned it but your natal venuses are squared and thus tr Uranus and tr Pluto do tricks on both of them...

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