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Topic: Synastry advice? Lots of intense aspects.
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sashavittoria Knowflake Posts: 70 From: Registered: Nov 2012
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posted February 18, 2017 05:39 PM
I don't want to take up anyone's time with my problems/anxieties/fears, but I'm wondering what more experienced Knowflakes think of this synastry chart at a glance. I know what stands out to me but what aspects do you think are most important?He's the inner wheel and I'm the outer wheel. And if that still doesn't work!! Here's a list only of aspects under 2 degrees: My Uranus conj His Mercury My Neptune conj His Mercury My Mars opp His Pluto My Saturn opp His MC My ASC sq His Uranus My Saturn sq His ASC My Sun sq His Sun My Chiron sq His Saturn My Chiron sq His Jupiter My Jupiter sq His Moon My Mercury sq His Mercury My Lilith trine His Pluto My Node trine His Saturn My Mercury trine His MC My Chiron trine His Moon My Jupiter trine His Saturn My Chiron trine His Mars My Uranus sextile His ASC My Neptune sextile His ASC My Jupiter sextile His Jupiter My Mercury sextile His Venus His Node conj My MC His Lilith sq My Pluto His Node sextile My Sun Many thanks for any wisdom and/or personal experience you can impart!! ------------------ Sun - Taurus // Moon - Aries // ASC - Cancer // Mercury - Aries // Venus - Taurus // Mars - Pisces IP: Logged |
sashavittoria Knowflake Posts: 70 From: Registered: Nov 2012
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posted February 18, 2017 05:45 PM
DP! What worries me is all the Saturn, plus the Lilith-Pluto DW and all the aspects to my Chiron. D:IP: Logged |
kicksotic Knowflake Posts: 36 From: Los Angeles, CA Registered: Sep 2015
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posted February 19, 2017 06:13 PM
The Saturn square the Ascendant/conjunct the IC is a little worrisome an could put the brakes on things. But that Saturn/Juno connection might be promising. The trines and sextiles, while nice, might not have enough pull, IMO, to offset the Saturn squares, though. Again, IMO IP: Logged |
sashavittoria Knowflake Posts: 70 From: Registered: Nov 2012
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posted February 20, 2017 02:07 PM
Thank you, kicksotic! Are Chiron aspects and Lilith-Pluto not so worrying, then?Not feeling the Saturn square ASC yet, but in due time I'm sure... IP: Logged |
kicksotic Knowflake Posts: 36 From: Los Angeles, CA Registered: Sep 2015
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posted February 23, 2017 08:41 AM
Worrying? it depends. Some people need the obsessive, dramatic, emotional upheaval that Chiron/Pluto/Lilith brings. Others just want relationships that are nice and easy and lovey-dovey. For those people, that Chiron/Pluto/Lilith energy might not work.If anything, I'd keep an eye on those Mercury contacts. Neptune/Uranus conjunct his Mercury and then Mercury square Mercury could all lead to misunderstandings, incorrect assumptions, hearing one thing when they've said the complete opposite, etc and so on. There could be a lack of clarity that snowballs into HUGE misunderstandings and that, right there, could tap into that Pluto et al energy. With as much potentially explosive potential as there is, it's important to be able to communicate clearly. So be aware of what the Mercurys in the chart are doing and work from there. 😊 IP: Logged |
Kannon McAfee Knowflake Posts: 2053 From: Portland, OR - USA Registered: Oct 2011
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posted February 23, 2017 11:32 AM
sashavittoria,I'd like to answer your question, but I much prefer to see the birth data, or at least a full chart for each person and make a full comparison myself. I guarantee that you've not given a full list of all relevant synastry aspects. ------------------ The Declinations Guy Rising Sign Descriptions Energy Healing by request IP: Logged |
sashavittoria Knowflake Posts: 70 From: Registered: Nov 2012
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posted February 23, 2017 05:56 PM
Kicksotic, thank you so much for your insight!! Yeah, the Mercury aspects are worrying. We've had a couple miscommunications but nothing that blew up into anything... Yet!Kannon, you're right, I only listed the aspects under 2 degrees. Does the synastry wheel not show up for you? Maybe I'm doing something wrong. Here are the natal charts though. His: Mine: Thank you for all your insight and help!! IP: Logged |
sashavittoria Knowflake Posts: 70 From: Registered: Nov 2012
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posted March 01, 2017 11:24 PM
Just realized something pretty crazy. This current guy has an Aqua Sun, Sag Moon, and Cap Mercury. My longest relationship before was with someone with a Sag Sun, Aqua Moon, and Cap Mercury. WEIRD. But my Sun, Moon, Merc, and Venus all in my 11th house make sense of the Aqua attraction (despite the lack of air in my chart). Also, our nodes (with the current guy) are reversed in signs and houses. His NN in Pisces in the 4th house and my SN in Cancer in the 12th house, my NN in Capricorn in the 6th house and his SN in Virgo in the 10th house. I also just noticed that we have a DW Venus conjunct Saturn. I've read that, one-way, this is a very binding aspect. "It is quite natural for you to commit to one another." This rings true, so far. I don't really know what to make of all this because I'm so new to synastry and haven't had a lot of life experience to compare aspects to. IP: Logged | |