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sashavittoria
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posted February 18, 2017 05:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sashavittoria        Reply w/Quote
I don't want to take up anyone's time with my problems/anxieties/fears, but I'm wondering what more experienced Knowflakes think of this synastry chart at a glance. I know what stands out to me but what aspects do you think are most important?

He's the inner wheel and I'm the outer wheel.

And if that still doesn't work!! Here's a list only of aspects under 2 degrees:

My Uranus conj His Mercury
My Neptune conj His Mercury
My Mars opp His Pluto
My Saturn opp His MC
My ASC sq His Uranus
My Saturn sq His ASC
My Sun sq His Sun
My Chiron sq His Saturn
My Chiron sq His Jupiter
My Jupiter sq His Moon
My Mercury sq His Mercury
My Lilith trine His Pluto
My Node trine His Saturn
My Mercury trine His MC
My Chiron trine His Moon
My Jupiter trine His Saturn
My Chiron trine His Mars
My Uranus sextile His ASC
My Neptune sextile His ASC
My Jupiter sextile His Jupiter
My Mercury sextile His Venus
His Node conj My MC
His Lilith sq My Pluto
His Node sextile My Sun

Many thanks for any wisdom and/or personal experience you can impart!!

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Sun - Taurus // Moon - Aries // ASC - Cancer // Mercury - Aries // Venus - Taurus // Mars - Pisces

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sashavittoria
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posted February 18, 2017 05:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sashavittoria        Reply w/Quote
DP! What worries me is all the Saturn, plus the Lilith-Pluto DW and all the aspects to my Chiron. D:

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kicksotic
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posted February 19, 2017 06:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for kicksotic        Reply w/Quote
The Saturn square the Ascendant/conjunct the IC is a little worrisome an could put the brakes on things. But that Saturn/Juno connection might be promising.

The trines and sextiles, while nice, might not have enough pull, IMO, to offset the Saturn squares, though.

Again, IMO

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sashavittoria
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posted February 20, 2017 02:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sashavittoria        Reply w/Quote
Thank you, kicksotic! Are Chiron aspects and Lilith-Pluto not so worrying, then?

Not feeling the Saturn square ASC yet, but in due time I'm sure...

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kicksotic
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posted February 23, 2017 08:41 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for kicksotic        Reply w/Quote
Worrying? it depends. Some people need the obsessive, dramatic, emotional upheaval that Chiron/Pluto/Lilith brings. Others just want relationships that are nice and easy and lovey-dovey. For those people, that Chiron/Pluto/Lilith energy might not work.

If anything, I'd keep an eye on those Mercury contacts. Neptune/Uranus conjunct his Mercury and then Mercury square Mercury could all lead to misunderstandings, incorrect assumptions, hearing one thing when they've said the complete opposite, etc and so on. There could be a lack of clarity that snowballs into HUGE misunderstandings and that, right there, could tap into that Pluto et al energy.

With as much potentially explosive potential as there is, it's important to be able to communicate clearly. So be aware of what the Mercurys in the chart are doing and work from there. 😊

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Kannon McAfee
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posted February 23, 2017 11:32 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Kannon McAfee        Reply w/Quote
sashavittoria,

I'd like to answer your question, but I much prefer to see the birth data, or at least a full chart for each person and make a full comparison myself. I guarantee that you've not given a full list of all relevant synastry aspects.

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sashavittoria
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posted February 23, 2017 05:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sashavittoria        Reply w/Quote
Kicksotic, thank you so much for your insight!! Yeah, the Mercury aspects are worrying. We've had a couple miscommunications but nothing that blew up into anything... Yet!

Kannon, you're right, I only listed the aspects under 2 degrees. Does the synastry wheel not show up for you? Maybe I'm doing something wrong. Here are the natal charts though.

His:

Mine:

Thank you for all your insight and help!!

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sashavittoria
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posted March 01, 2017 11:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sashavittoria        Reply w/Quote
Just realized something pretty crazy. This current guy has an Aqua Sun, Sag Moon, and Cap Mercury. My longest relationship before was with someone with a Sag Sun, Aqua Moon, and Cap Mercury. WEIRD. But my Sun, Moon, Merc, and Venus all in my 11th house make sense of the Aqua attraction (despite the lack of air in my chart).

Also, our nodes (with the current guy) are reversed in signs and houses. His NN in Pisces in the 4th house and my SN in Cancer in the 12th house, my NN in Capricorn in the 6th house and his SN in Virgo in the 10th house.

I also just noticed that we have a DW Venus conjunct Saturn. I've read that, one-way, this is a very binding aspect. "It is quite natural for you to commit to one another." This rings true, so far.

I don't really know what to make of all this because I'm so new to synastry and haven't had a lot of life experience to compare aspects to.

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