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Libracorn
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posted February 20, 2017 11:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Libracorn     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
So about a year ago, I kinda accidentally hurt this Gemini guy.. He liked me a lot. Long story short he was interested in a relationship and I wasn't at the time. Once everything happened, I felt really bad and I still feel bad as I am typing this post because he was extremely mad and I knew it by how he was texting me when everything occurred.

Anyways, this summer we texted a few times and I reached out to him back in October and we talked but it wasn't the same. He stopped replying to me, he texted back much slower than he usually did etc. and now I even feel uncomfortable trying to reach out to him more. But I explained that I was sorry for how I acted and everything and he was like he wasn't really mad at me. However, I knew he was mad at me regardless of what he said.

But the main point of this post is... based on our synastry below..should I continue trying to reach out to him or should I just let it go?

I am scared that he moved on which he probably did. He is "possibly" a Moon in Scorpio, I cannot tell because he does not know what time he was born. But from me getting to know him.. he definitely fit the Moon in Scorpio type. He was very quiet, reserved and he was intense. I did not see Moon in Sagittarius at all. But then again, he has Moon/Pluto.

Here is our synastry:

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Mystic Melody
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posted February 21, 2017 12:49 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mystic Melody     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Gemini likes to be "elusive". But they also like to text and chat. Even if he isn't interested he will still respond positively to you texting him. I'd go as far to say that any negative response just confirms his strong hurt feelings, but a lot of time has passed. He is probably fine. I'm sure you can rebuild the connection. Be brave. Life is short.

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DualGemV2
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posted February 21, 2017 02:15 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for DualGemV2     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I think he might be a little hurt especially with the Cancer Venus.

What most people don't realize is Gem males with Ascendant/Venus/Mars/Moon placements in the right places can actually be very quiet, sensitive and caring.

I sorta had a similar situation with some leo girl. She even tried to made the time for me..but I'm still mad. No attempt she tries will ever go with me.

But that is probably because I'm Taurus Venus and I can be incredibly stubborn sometimes, so I would assume he would be a little different.

Either he's moved on and he will respond respectfully, but not to the same intensity and doesn't see you the same as before.

or

There is still a chance but you have be gradual and give it some time since he's a little hurt.

Either way play it lightly and be prepared for either scenario.

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Gemini Sun,
Capricorn Rising
Aries Moon
Gemini Mercury
Venus Taurus
Mars Cancer

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colorful butterfly
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posted February 22, 2017 12:18 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for colorful butterfly     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
That is probably whats it. I've dated a few guys with Cancer venus and they are VERY SENSITIVE!!!! You'd think my Cancer sun would resinate with them but NO, I just get irritated because I find their sensitiveity to come off as their playing some type of game. ( I have venus in Gemini)

I dated a Gemini guy for 3 years, Jesus he could be moody. I still loved his moody butt anyway. You may have to see him in person and make him feel really secure before he will open up to you again. Thats what I did whenever he'd get butt hurt over something and funny, he'd do me the same way when I'd get butt hurt over something too. lol

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colorful butterfly
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posted February 22, 2017 12:23 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for colorful butterfly     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Cancer venus needs to feel secure before they will open up but very sweet and tender once they do. Just moody and sensitive... I repeat sensitive!!!

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colorful butterfly
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posted February 22, 2017 12:28 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for colorful butterfly     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Mystic Melody:
Gemini likes to be "elusive". But they also like to text and chat. Even if he isn't interested he will still respond positively to you texting him. I'd go as far to say that any negative response just confirms his strong hurt feelings, but a lot of time has passed. He is probably fine. I'm sure you can rebuild the connection. Be brave. Life is short.

Hmmm... I don't know about Gemini being elusive because the Gemini I dated, we were with each other A LOT and like together everyday and night. ( I miss that sometimes) You are right though, venus in cancer will be mean if still hurt but after time, they are usually very forgiving and then all lovey dovey again.

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DualGemV2
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posted February 22, 2017 12:47 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for DualGemV2     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by colorful butterfly:
Hmmm... I don't know about Gemini being elusive because the Gemini I dated, we were with each other A LOT and like together everyday and night. ( I miss that sometimes) You are right though, venus in cancer will be mean if still hurt but after time, they are usually very forgiving and then all lovey dovey again.

Well thats the thing be "Geminis Co-pilot" or "side kick" and they will be around alot.

@colorful butterfly

Do you have any Leo placements or are you a cancer/leo mix by any chance?

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Gemini Sun,
Capricorn Rising
Aries Moon
Gemini Mercury
Venus Taurus
Mars Cancer

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colorful butterfly
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posted February 22, 2017 01:44 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for colorful butterfly     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by DualGemV2:
Well thats the thing be "Geminis Co-pilot" or "side kick" and they will be around alot.

@colorful butterfly

Do you have any Leo placements or are you a cancer/leo mix by any chance?

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Gemini Sun,
Capricorn Rising
Aries Moon
Gemini Mercury
Venus Taurus
Mars Cancer


LOL, guess I was his side kick then! I do have Leo in my chart, my jupiter is conjunct my mercury in leo.

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sashavittoria
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posted February 23, 2017 06:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sashavittoria     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yeah, in all my experiences with Gemini men I could tell they'd lost interest when they stopped texting and chatting. But with all that water in your guy's chart, I wouldn't necessarily assume the same thing.

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Sun - Taurus // Moon - Aries // ASC - Cancer // Mercury - Aries // Venus - Taurus // Mars - Pisces

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polkadotstars
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posted February 24, 2017 06:36 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for polkadotstars     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I can see why the initial attraction is there.
Your Venus on his ASC
His Venus on your Descendent
His descendent is Pisces and you have Neptune on your ASC which would mean you come across as a Pisces at first glance.

And with his mars in your 8th you're probably very attracted to him. While you are also attracted to guys who have a sensitive/emotional side (Cancer Desc) you might find it hard to deal with too. Your moon doesn't aspect anything in his chart, especially not his moon. With a Libra moon, his Moon-Pluto conjunction mean may seem intense to you. You probably don't understand how he can retreat so much and get ice cold when he does retreat.

On top of that your mercuries don't relate to each other. They're both air mercury signs so that's a positive, but they do not aspect each other. You may have difficulties communicating and understanding each other.

Another thing I noticed is that his sun is unaspected. He might feel like he can't relate to you in his inner core of who he really is.

I guess what I'm trying to say is that this guy is very moody and emotional. Gemini sun, Moon-Pluto which is Scorpio like, and a Cancer Venus. You are really going to have to understand how he is before you can make anything long term with him. I know Libras are good at being fair and seeing both sides of the spectrum, but I think if you want to be with him you'll have to always be cognizant of his feelings and how he might take something you do or say.

Good luck!! :-)

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colorful butterfly
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posted February 24, 2017 05:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for colorful butterfly     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Whoops, I didn't see he had moon\pluto in libra! I have this too in my first house!!! Ummmm... intense feelings are an understatement and it is a very plutonic placement. I scare the crap out of people when I am upset or things can turn cold as ice depending on how hurt I am. I also don't intimidae very well, I will fight back if backed in a corner.

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colorful butterfly
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posted February 24, 2017 05:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for colorful butterfly     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I am not sure of how his other aspects affect his moon but with libra moons I have noticed we all tend to either protect, help or fight.

If you look his chart up for vedic astrology, his moon should fall under hasta but find the pada as well for it. Then look at videos for KRS , hasta para (which ever one) This will give you some idea as to how he thinks ( moon is mind in vedic) Also if there is any other planet sitting with moon or aspecting it. Pluto does not usually show up , just fyi.

Ex: my moon is in Hasta in my 1st house , pada 3 I think. Also is my ascendant which is utter phalguni.

My moon is to protect , fight , and help. This is really true btw but it also has the influence of my ascendant which means business contracts. One who makes a deal. This is true too lol

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